Happiness

HAPPINESS! Isn't this to a large extent within its hearth which a man or a woman can find it? Yes, it is in the middle of his that one can test the useful feeling, to be appreciated and loved, it to what any human being aspires. One tastes with this great happiness in his hearth if it reigns there a heat environment and an atmosphere of confidence, comprehension and compassion. It then becomes a true haven of peace where the difficulties and the agitation of the outside are forgotten. As with the children they feel safe there and can open out completely. Here is life of family which we wish to know. But since that is not done automatically, how let us can us achieve this goal? Why, in many parts of the sphere, the family she is threatened so much? What makes it possible to be happy within its family? What to make so that it reigns there a cordial environment and so that it is plain? You are right completely to sincerely trouble you about the happiness of yours and to wish to make a success of your life of family. Indeed, an encyclopaedia (The World Book Encyclopedia, ED. from 1973) declares in connection with the importance of the family circle: “The family is the human institution oldest and under many the reports/ratios, most important. It is the basic cell of the company. Whole civilizations survived or disappeared, according to whether the family unit were solid or fragile. “ But how much families are narrowly plain today thanks to a major love? How much between them know the cordial environment which results from kindness, gratitude and generosity that their members testify themselves? Many families can note they the veracity of this word: “There is more happiness to give than to receive”? Currently, it is a quite different spirit which is spread on all the ground. If it prevails especially in the Western world, it also penetrates in the East and in other areas of the world where the family unit was traditionally very stable. Remarks of this kind are often heard: “Made what you want, but do not prevent the others from acting with their own way. ““The correction is obsolete: thus let your children choose themselves their way. ““ Do not give any opinion on what is good or bad. “The bad fruits of such an attitude confirm this principle: “No matter what the man sows, it is also what it will harvest. “ The HISTORY PROVES the IMPORTANCE OF the FAMILY The History gave on the important role of the family of the lessons which deserve that one thinks of it seriously. Thus, after having described (in its book The Story off Civilization, left II) the disintegration of the family in ancient Greece, Lasting the Will historian adds: “It is mainly because Greek civilization disaggregated interior which Greece was conquered by Rome. “This work shows that the force of Rome also lay in its family institutions, but that, since those disaggregated, the empire started to decline.

In reality, the History confirms this very old declaration: “It does not belong to the man who walks to direct his step. “The historians report that, while the Roman Empire was declining, 'the Jews had an exemplary family life and that, because of their piety and their decency, the small Christian communities disturbed the pagan world committed in an insane race with the plaisir'. (The Story off Civilization, left III, page 366.) Why these families were they different? Because they had a different source of councils. Insofar as they took its advice, they were happy and peaceful. Such results gave a guilt feeling to the Romans. It is true that one counts today thousands of works on the marriage and the life of family, and that the majority of them contain at least some useful information. However, the life of family does not cease being degraded. Another thing is thus needed, something which can give the force to resist the difficulties which currently threaten the family circle. If husband and woman like parents and children testify a natural affection, the family will undoubtedly be strengthened by it. But for much to families, that is not enough to maintain them plain when occur of serious difficulties. What is this which is thus lacking? It is necessary to feel responsible with respect to its spouse, of his children, his parents and their very attached being. QUESTIONS WHICH WE MUST PUT For can example, how somebody find the spouse who agrees to him? How two joint can fall from agreement on the way of solving thorny problems? Are two heads better than one, certainly, but after dialogue, which of both will make the decision? How a husband can gain the respect of his wife and why is this so important for him? Why a woman does it need the love of her husband and whom can it make to ensure it? How do you consider the children? For much, they are the symbol of a certain condition, an inexpensive labour, an old-age insurance or all simply a burden. What determines if the children will be this or that? When should their education be begun? Should they be corrected? If so, up to what point and how? Is there inevitably a ditch of the generations within the family? Can one fill it? Better still, can one prevent that it grows hollow? If you find an answer satisfactory to these questions, you will have made much to ensure the happiness of your family.