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Communication Skills
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Use of Body Language in
Communications Dr. Heba Nayef PowerPoint slides created by Dr. Heba Nayef © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Body Language & Communication واﻟﻌﻴﻦ ﺗﻌﻠﻢ ﻣﻦ ﻋﻴﻨﻰ ﻣﺤﺪﺛﻬﺎ إن آﺎن ﻣﻦ ﺣﺰﺑﻬﺎ أو ﻣﻦ ﻳﻌﺎدﻳﻬﺎ ﻋﻴﻨﺎك ﻗﺪ دﻟﺘﺎ ﻋﻴﻨﺎى ﻣﻨﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ أﺷﻴﺎء ﻟﻮﻻهﺎ ﻣﺎ آﻨﺖ ﺗﺒﺪﻳﻬﺎ اﻹﻣﺎم ﻋﻠﻰ اﺑﻦ أﺑﻰ ﻃﺎﻟﺐ
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Body Language & Communication
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“ Listen not to what a man says but rather to what he does not.” Jibran K. Jibran
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Body Language
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• Various methods of communication • Importance of non-verbal communication • Using both verbal and non-verbal messages to enhance communication abilities
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Body Language
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• PERSONOLOGY “Physiognomy
Tolerance
Intolerance
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Body Language
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• PHRENOLOGY
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Various Methods of communications
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Messages
Verbal
Non-verbal © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Non-Verbal Communication
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• Where to look for clues? - Facial Expressions - Hand Gestures - Sitting , standing and walking ways
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Non-Verbal Communication
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What can you say about these two groups?
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Non-Verbal Communication
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What can you say about these two groups?
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Non-Verbal Communication
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Who is who? The husband, the lover , the salesman © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Non-Verbal Communication
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Who is who? The preoccupied, the burst-of-energy, the dejected, the strutter? © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Types of Attitudes
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Attitudes
Openness
Defensiveness
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Types of Attitudes & Gestures
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OPENESS Cooperation & Willingness
Confidence
Appraisal
Enthusiasm
Sincerity
Acceptance
Readiness
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Open Attitude
Cooperation & Willingness
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Open hand gestures
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Open Attitude Confidence
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Thumbs displaying confident authoritative attitude
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Open Attitude Confidence
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The superiority-confident gesture
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Open Attitude Confidence
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Steepling
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Open Attitude Appraisals
A critical evaluation
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Not really impressed © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Open Attitude Appraisals
Chin Stroking
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Schwarzenegger making his point and host thinking it over © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Open Attitude Appraisals
Buying Time
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Buyer & Seller Appraisal & Enthusiasm © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Open Attitude Readiness
Hands on hip Typical readiness gesture
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Sit-down readiness © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Open Attitude Sincerity
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Honesty
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Types of Attitudes & Gestures
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DEFENSIVENESS Lying
Suspicion
Frustration
Nervousness
Boredom
Domination/ Arrogance
Self Doubt
Rejection © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Nervousness
Cuff-Link-Adjust
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Hiding his conversation © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Deceit signals
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Hear no evil, see no evil and speak no evil © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Deceit signals
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The Seven Most Common Lying Gestures
1- Cover the mouth © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Deceit signals
2- Touch the nose
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3- The eye rub
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Defensive Gestures Deceit signals
4- The ear grab
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5- The nose scratch
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Defensive Gestures Deceit signals
6- The collar pull
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7- The finger in the mouth © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Rejection
Crossed arms
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Hands gripping © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Rejection
The arm barrier says no
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She is now more open to ideas © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Boredom
Interrupt Gesture
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Extreme boredom Hand supporting head © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Domination/ Arrogance
The Straddler
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The Smug © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Domination/ Arrogance
The American Figure Four
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SThe European style © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Domination/ Arrogance
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The cool, confident guy thinks that he knows everything and has more bananas than everyone © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Defensive Gestures Frustration
“What can I do about it.”
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Even with the smile the hand grip shows frustration © 2005 The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Who is Who?
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Who is in control?
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Standing on the left side gives Bill Clinton advantage over Blair
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Who is in control?
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