Presentation For English...succesful Conversation And Unsuccessful Conversation

Group III Desty Andriani Moh. Akib Wibiyan Poppy Jessy Mayuri Rahmat Tri Febrian

Having an Unsuccessful Conversation & Having a Successful Conversation

DEFINITION OF SUCCESFUL CONVERSATION Successful conversation means the process of exchanging information (communication) between two parties or more runs effectively indicated by the acceptance of ideas, interest, necessity, etc which end in mutual gain by the parties involved.

Factors Influencing successful conversation Successful conversation Effective use of verbal communication

The awareness Non-verbal Communication

Interest

Successful Conversation

Effective use of Verbal communication

1. 2.

The use of level language (formal / informal) The use of effective clictions that suit both parties

Successful Conversation The awareness of Non-Verbal communication

1. 2. 3. 4.

Body gesture Mimic Body signals Eye contact

Successful Conversation

Interest

Consider that our conversation partner has the competence or not toward what we are going to say or discuss information

Fact about successful information

“ Some research have proven that almost 90% of successful conversation / communication is supported by non-verbal communication”.

Tips for making successful conversation When and to whom we start a conversation

Someone we have just seen (foreigner)

Someone we have known

Tips for making conversation known

successful to someone we have

1.

Prepare



Necessity goals / priorities Self performance Timing When to start How long When to end

  a. b. c.

2. 3.

Focus on interest Use firm/correct language, easy to be understood

Don’t monopolize the conversation 6. Give meaningful feedback 7. Oriented to win-win strategy 5.

Definition of unsuccessful conversation

Unsuccessful conversation means the process of exchanging information (communication) between two parties or more runs ineffectively indicated by refusal of ideas, interest, necessity, etc which later on the conversation will end in win-lose position, lose-lose position, or no lost – no solution.

Things cause failure in conversation 1. 2. 3.   4. 5. 6.

Ineffectively use verbal communication Unawareness to non-verbal communication Selfishness Monopoly the conversation Regard the conversation partner’s competence is below self competence. Bad listeners Incapability to give meaningful feedback Oriented to win-lose strategy

Dialogues Condition : we are asking for tips to improve our weight to a fat man. Dialogues 1 Manap : How are you Kelik ? Kelik : I’m great and how are you ? Manap : Not good this recently Kelik : Why is that so…? Manap : Actually I want to improve my weight and I’ve tried many ways but always unsuccess. Kelik : Oh, that’s to bad. Wish I could do something Manap : Yes, you could. You are fat, aren’t you ? What did you do to make you over weight ? Kelik : …………………………….

Dialogues 2 Manap : How are you Kelik ? Kelik : I’m great and how are you ? Manap : Not good this recently Kelik : Why is that so…? Manap : Actually I want to improve my weight and I’ve tried many ways but always unsuccess. Kelik : Oh, that’s to bad. Wish I could do something Manap : You look a little heavy, what did you do to make your body look helthy ? Kelik : …………………………….

Tips How to have a successful conversation with any woman 1.

Her Name

2.

A common denominator

3.

Her phone number

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