Yohana Solis 2009
It is from their “chumship” that adolescents gain the understanding and acceptance needed for optimal development (Steinberg, 1989)
The
development of intimate relationships provides: an outlet for self disclosure from one another sense of belonging each other’s self-esteem
Contributes
to adolescent’s:
identity
formation understanding of their thoughts and emotions becoming sensitive to the need of others (Sullivan, 1953)
Theorists
like Mechanic believe that extensive sharing of personal feelings leads to heightened instrospection, which may lead to future psychological problems
Close
fiendship offer the opportunity to get away from instrospection (Bernardt & Savin-Williams, 1990)
Dating
Violence: wiolent relationship with a jealous boyfriend/girlfriend
35%
of teenage couples are involved in violent relationships 1 out of 4 has experienced dating violence Centre County Women’s Resource Center
1.
Partner’s behaviour is not one’s fault
2.
Assertive communication is key
3.
Crisis hotlines available to talk
4.
One cannot change partner’s behaviour – the choice is to end the relationship
5.
Friends’ support is crucial to make the decision