TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST TOUGH PEOPLE DO! -By
Robert H. Schuller
‘If it is to be, It is up to me…’
CONTENTS OF PRESENTATION The Perspective of Problems MPE – Managing Problems Effectively Taking Charge and Take Control 10 Commandments of Possibility Thinking Counting to 10 Move the Mountain Pray The Alphabet of Success
THE PERSPECTIVE OF PROBLEMS
THE PERSPECTIVE OF PROBLEMS
If you have a dream, you have everything – including a lot of problems Every
human being has problems
Every problem has a limited life span Your problem is my opportunity
Every
problem holds positive possibilities
Every problem will change you Compose your response, if you can’t control the times
You
can choose what your problem will do to you
B +ve There
is a negative and a positive reaction to every problem
MPE – MANAGING PROBLEMS EFFECTIVELY
MPE – MANAGING PROBLEMS EFFECTIVELY Don’t underestimate the problem – Or your ability to deal with it Play it down and Pray it up
Don’t
Patience is not a virtue - If you sit back and wait for your problem to solve itself Don’t
Wait
Nobody is defeated until he starts blaming somebody else Don’t
exaggerate
Aggravate
Get Smart – and then get Smarter Illuminate
MPE – MANAGING PROBLEMS EFFECTIVELY
It takes guts, to leave the ruts Motivate
How do you catch a Placement? Bait
Find a job the way you found a wife or a husband Date
Possibilities: Every problem is loaded with it Sublimate
Give it all you’ve got Dedicate
I need Help!!! Communicate
MPE – MANAGING PROBLEMS EFFECTIVELY
Insulate Don’t Don’t Don’t Don’t Don’t Don’t Don’t Don’t
`Take Care’ `Take it Easy’ say TGIF `see it before you believe it’ say `No Way’ say `Not too bad’ `hear that before’ think it’s Terminal
TAKE CHARGE AND TAKE CONTROL
TAKE CHARGE AND TAKE CONTROL
Take chance, take charge and take control
Taking chance implies reckless risk
Taking charge means you are managing the risks
And, taking control means you manage your problems
Leadership: “Leadership is the force that selects your dreams and sets your goals. It is the force that propels your endeavors to
LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES
Don’t surrender leadership to outside forces Never
give up hope and keep fighting till the end Today’s decisions are tomorrow’s realities
Don’t surrender leadership to faces, farces and fences Negative
expressions and body language Never believe anyone unless you are satisfied Fences are limiting concepts influencing your goals and dreams negatively
They cause us to lower our goals, with the result that we strive for and achieve far less than our capabilities
LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES
Don’t surrender leadership to your fantasies, fears, fatigue, faults Never indulge in negative fantasies
The Bible says, “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind” (2 Tim. 1:7)
Biggest fear is fear of failure
Sit back and relax!!
Limit the size of your goals and stifle your creativity
Healthy body means healthy mind
All plans ‘have’ problems . Problems call for polishing, not for demolition
LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES
Don’t surrender leadership to facts, frenzies, fates and forecasts Attitude
is more important than facts.
Attitude be positive and in control
Fortunetellers
and others program people with negative self-fulfilling prophecies are dangerous people Negative forecasts need not be right unless they are verified. One should always look at the forecast methodology to get to a decision
LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES
Don’t surrender leadership to foes, friends, fracturing experiences of life Critics hardly offer any worthwhile solution Take advice from friends but do as you please A bad experience should not let you stop and lose faith in future
“Believe in dreams. Never believe in hurts. Don’t let your fracturing experience shape your future.”
“DO” surrender leadership to one thing— faith Let faith be in control of every decision you make and every action you take. You do that when you let the positive possibilities set your goals
10 COMMANDMENTS OF POSSIBILITY THINKING
POSSIBILITY THINKING? Possibility thinking focuses not on the management of time, money, energy, or persons, but on the management of ideas Differentiates the negative thoughts from positive thoughts Transforms you from impossibility thinkers to possibility thinkers Better to do something imperfectly than to do nothing flawlessly
COMMANDMENTS OF POSSIBILITY THINKING
Never reject a possibility because you see something wrong with it!
“Beginning is half done.”
Don’t get the credit, get the contract! Convert impossibilities to possibilities. That’s success! Don’t make up your mind! Never reject an idea because it’s illegal! Commitment and not resources will achieve the goal! You can never make a commitment without producing some conflict! Learn to accommodate! Prepare to compromise! Failure is not a consideration! Success is also not a consideration!
People imagine ego fulfillment through success and pull out
COUNTING TO TEN
COUNT TO TEN AND WIN Play the ‘ Possibility Thinking Game ‘ You won’t win if you don’t begin
COUNT TO TEN AND WIN 1. Rent a school building 2. Rent a Masonic Hall. 3. Rent and Elk’s Lodge 4. Rent a mortuary chapel. 5. Rend an empty warehouse. 6. Rent a community club building. 7. Rent a Seventh-Day Adventist Church. 8. Rent a Jewish synagogue. 9. Rent a drive-in theatre. 10. Rent an empty piece of ground, a tent, and folding chairs.
COUNT TO TEN AND WIN 1. Get 1 people to give $1,000,000. 2. Get 2 people to give $500,000. 3. Get 4 people to give $250,000. 4. Get 10 people to give $100,000. 5. Get 20 people to give $50,000. 6. Get 40 people to give $25,000. 7. Get 50 people to give $20,000. 8. Get 100 people to give $10,000. 9. Get 200 people to give $5,000. 10. Get 1,000 people to give $1,000.
ATTITUDE CHARACTERISTICS OF PLAYING A GAME Risk – Running Record – Breaking Commitment – Freeing
HOW TO PLAY POSSIBILITY THINKING GAME Begin by believing that you possess latent gifts of creativity. Don’t play it alone.
FAITH THAT CAN MOVE YOUR MOUNTAIN
FAITH THAT CAN MOVE YOUR MOUNTAIN Faith – greatest miracle-working power Faith is like a seed 5 Phases
First
- Planting Second - Sprouting Third - Nourishing Fourth - Bearing fruit Fifth - Harvesting
FIVE PHASES TO THE FULL CYCLE OF MOUNTAIN-MOVING FAITH Nesting Phase Testing Phase Investing Phase Arresting Phase Cresting Phase
NESTING PHASE Ideas Un-hatched egg rots in the nest Trust your brilliance and therefore your ideas and creativity. The me I see, is the me I will be. No idea is perfect. Trust the positive potential in an idea.
TESTING PHASE Don’t plunge recklessly and irresponsibly ahead with every idea that moves through the brain. Test the idea. Everybody is an inspiration to somebody else. Example of Patty Wilson
INVESTING PHASE The point at which a public commitment is made One commits Time, Money, Energy, Prestige and Pride Patty’s story Have you given your problem all that you have? Faith moving the Mountain Backup your ideas with Hard work Many people fail in this phase
ARRESTING PHASE
Problems and Trouble block your path. Defeat seems certain God’s way of testing us before the final victory Patty’s story Faith has mountain moving power if you hang on. Stanley Reimer’s story Think life, Talk life, Believe life Have faith like a Mustard seed
EDGAR A. GUEST When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road you are trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile but you have to sigh, Rest, if you must—but don’t you quit! Life is queer with its twists and turns, As every one of us sometimes learns, Don’t give up, though the pace seems slow— You might succeed with another blow. . . . And you can never tell how close you are, It may be near when it seems afar; So stick to the fight when you are hardest hit— It’s when things get worse that you mustn’t quit!
SOME INSPIRING THOUGHTS
Don’t trust the clouds—trust the sunshine Don’t set your compass by the flash of lightning—set it by the stars. Trust the sun—don’t trust the shadows Believe in your dreams—don’t believe in your despairing thoughts. Have faith in your faith—and doubt your doubts. Trust in your hopes—never trust in your hurts.
THE CRESTING PHASE
The Mountain is scaled and Success is achieved. Those who hang on ultimately survive Believe and you will achieve Be somebody! God never takes time to build a nobody. Everybody God creates is created to be somebody.
PRAYER: THE POWER THAT PULLS EVERYTHING TOGETHER SUCESSFULLY
JOURNEY TILL NOW
Put your problems in proper perspective Applied the twelve principles of managing problems positively Taken charge and control of your situation Tackled impossibilities with the Ten Commandments for Possibility Thinking Counted to ten and won Applied the faith that will move your mountain.
PRAYER God guides praying people through tough times Holy week of 1981 Good news and bad news How do you renew your strength and spirit during a brownout time?
RENEW R – Review your Past E – Examine all the Possibilities N – Name the price you are willing to Pay E - Elect the best possibility, no matter what the price W – Wait and work
Brownouts do not have to be burnouts.
ANYWAY
People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. The biggest people with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest people with the smallest minds. Think big anyway. People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for some underdogs anyway. What you spent years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway. Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.
THE ALPHABET OF SUCCESS
PROBLEMS OF TODAY VS. OPPORTUNITIES OF TOMORROW
Need of the hour
Problems of today
Grasp the opportunities of tomorrow
CONCEPT OF IDEA
Idea
Inception of great acts
Idea =
-Tenderly -Gently -Respectfully -Protectively
-Nutritionally -Antiseptically -Responsibly
REACTIONS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE TO IDEAS Kinds of people
Reactions
Insecure
Hibernate
Lazy
Luxuriate
Wounded
Commiserate
Foolish
Procrastinate
Wise
Dedicate
ALPHABETS OF ACTION I deserve to succeed and have the ability too
A ffirm I will achieve goals not myself but with the help of others
B elief Say no to fear of failure. Display 100% commitment
C ommitment Dare to take risks in life. To risk nothing is the greatest hazard in life.
D are Educate yourself and become knowledgeable through hard work
E ducate Find time, talent, possibilities and way. Matter is more exciting if it is hunted for or discovered.
F ind
ALPHABETS OF ACTION (CONTD.) Give your 100% to your goals.
G iving Holding on, praying expectantly and the belief that there is scope of betterment
H ope I magine
Imagine solutions to problems through creative thinking and eventually winning over them.
Junk the ill thoughts like fear, jealousy and “why is it happening to me?”
J unk K.O. fear, depression, apprehensions and predictions of gloom and doom
K nock out
ALPHABETS OF ACTION (CONTD.)
Loving by ability to laugh at your own self and keeping a good sense of humor.
L ove Make things happen for you through ability to manage them
M ake it happen Able to negotiate, to compromise
Overlook imperfections in others which will help you in overcoming hurdles.
N egotiate O verlook and O vercome Don’t give up….endurance
P ersevere Quit complaining. Quit remembering negative moments of life.
Q uit
ALPHABETS OF ACTION (CONTD.)
Reorganize yourself….after failures and success too.
R eorganize Share the power, credit and glory
S hare
Unlock hidden values like faith , hope and love to act as driving force towards success.
T rade off
Everything has a price. You need to give up in order to get
U nlock The me I see is the me I will be. Have a vision to give direction to your deeds.
V isualize Work …work …and work
W ork
ALPHABETS OF ACTION (CONTD.) X ray your motives, your abilities and know yourself well.
X ray Yield yourself to god.
Y ield
Z ip it up
Everything has a price. You need to give up in order to get