Details about brain cortex
Cerebrum
Hypothalamus cerebellum
STRESS
Mind to Body ( cortex is a thinking process zone and Hypothalamus is a autonomous body Any disturbance in the Hypothalamus due to Cortex will actuate the following organ automatically
Heart Lungs Stomach Bladder Skin
Control of stress
To avoid stress, link to be made in between Cortex and Hypothalamus by means of following way
Psychology Philosophy Spirituality Hobbies Sports Exercise Meditation Outdoor hobbies
Control of Stress Stress will vary according to
Age Stage Personality Resource Interest
Control of stress DON’TS
Multiple focus Complaint Confused Blame focus Rigidity No alternative Self observed
Judgment Lack of goal clarity Unmanageability Tension Lack of communication
Control of stress DO’S
Acceptance of self, others and situation Planning Problem focus Flexibility Manageability Commitment to the process (not demanding results)
Clarity Non judgment Change in attitude Satisfaction Self realization Negotiation Initiative in communication Empathy
Behavior
Thinking + Emotion = Behavior
Submissive Aggressive
Passive
Factors influencing Behavior Genetic Nature Chromosome Nurture Culture Uniqueness
Emotions
Intolerable will be reduced to Tolerable by means
Intensity Frequency Duration
Types of Emotions
Intolerable Disappointment Frustration Anger Anxiety Optimism Concern Helplessness Patience
Excitement Irritation Depression Guilty Self flame Sadness Regret
Emotions Extreme Negative Emotion
Anger
Anxiety
Depression
Guilty with self flame
Control of stress Past
Future
External
Single Focus
Internal Multiple Real
Imagination
Emotions In tolerable Anxiety
6
Anger,
5 4
Tolerable/ Desirable irritation, sadness
3
concern,
2
Pleasurable
1 -1
Too Pleasurable
Overconfidence,
Control of stress
Goal orientation Prioritization Thinking over consequence Alternative generation Focus should be on problem Orientation should be on behavior Leveling others / self / world
SELF TALK A
C
Activating Events A
Consequence Emotional / Physical / Behavior
B
C
Beliefs / Thinking Self talk to be done according to the situation and decision to be taken