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fcHda;sIh yd mqoa., fm!reI j¾Okh fcHda;sIh yd mqoa., fm!reI j¾Okh hkak .ek is;k úgu wm is; ksrdhdifhka fhduqjk tla ia:dkhls' tkï fcHda;sI úIh ks¾udKh ù we;s miqìuhs' tu miqìu tl t,af,au fhduq ù ;sfnkafka ;drld úµdj foighs' ;drld úoHdj hkq wm fjfik fi!r.%y uKav,fha yd úYajfha mj;sk .%y jia;+ka ms<sn| f,dal jHjydrfha mj;sk fhÿula jQ kQ;k úµd ;=< mj;sk tla úµd;aul úIhhls' fmrÈ. bkaÈhdkq iïNjh ;=< yd fmrÈ. ixialD;sh ;=< mqoa.,hd ms<sn|j i|yka jkakd jQ mQ¾j úksYaphla f,i o we;fula fuh ols;s' tfiau fuh t;rï jeo.;alula fkdWiq,k ;drld úoHdjg iïnkaO tla;rd .Ks; l%uhla weiqre lr.;a fohla f,iska o we;fula Ndú;hg .kshs' orefjla bmÿk fj,dfõ fi!r.%y uKav,fha .%y jia;=ka ms y s á wdldrh ms < s n |j oela f jk igykla ke;s k ï fõ,dm;alvhlg yd ±ßúhl u,ajr jq fõ,dj wkqj wehf.a wkd.;h ;srKh lsßug fya;= jkakd jq .%y ;;a;ajhka ljfr±hs mßlaik jq fõ,d fld,hlg muKla isud lrk ,o tla úIhh fCIa;%hla f,iska o we;fula fcHd;sIh ,>qfldg we;' Tn fcHd;sIh olskafka fï by; ljr kï l;sldjlg wkqj o @ mrK yKñá woyia f,i wm fndfyda úg neyer lrk mqyq ;¾l ú;¾l ;=<ska mrdch fldg bj; ±óug W;aidy .kakd fcHd;sIh úIhh wmf.a tÈfkod Ôú;fha .eg¿ ch.ekSug Ndú;d l< yels w.kd uy.= ñKsrejkla nj Tng fmkajd §u wruqKhs' 7

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mqoa.,fhl=f.a Ôú;fha wdrïNl ia:dkh f,i olskafka Tyqf.a Wm;hs' t;eka mgka Tyq l%ufhka úhm;a fjñka wOHdmkh ,nd fyda fkd,nd iudPh weiqre lrñka wdjdy újdy ù ore iqr;,a n,d" orejka fmdaIKh fldg yels whqßka Tjqkj a hyu. hjd jDoaO;ajhg <Õd ù urKh w;aú¢u olajd úYd, ld¾hhla bgq lrkq ,nhs' fudjqka w;r úúO olaI;d iys; mqoa.,hka fukau lsisu jevla lr.; fkdyels whj¨ka o isák nj wm fldf;l=;a oel we;' mqoa.,fhl=f.a Wmf;a isg l%ufhka j¾Okh jk wjia:dj ;=< È Tyqf.a uj;a ifydaor ifydaoßhkq;a wi,ajeishka yd fjk;a mdßißl idOlj, n,mEfuka Tyqf.a olaI;d fyda kdhl;aj ,laIK biau;= jk whqßka ta w;ßka wmg ±l.kak mq¿jka' fuu ,laIK Tyq fjfik jgmsgdj wkqj ;SrKh jk nj ngysr kq;k ufkda úµdfõ mshd f,i i,lk is.auka f*%dhsâ jfrl ish lD;shlska fmkajd § we;' tu.ska mqoa.,hd ;=< ufkda úµd;aul miqìu msysgk wdldrh Tyq úúO oDIaÀfldaK ;=
úoHd;aul fcHd;sIh( úoHd;aul fcHd;sI ,sms ix.%yh

fuh Tng m%fhdackj;a jkq fkd wkqudkh' flakaor n,k whl= ,jd wmf.a flakaorh n,jdf.k bka lshefjk wm, ÿre lrjd .ekSu i|yd Bg l< hq;= j;dj;a fudkjdo lshd úuid ne,Su wmf.a idudkH isß;hs' fuh lshjk Tn óg fmr ljrdl fyda flakaor yok whl= ,jd Tnf.a fm!reIh j¾Okh lr.kafka fldfyduo lsh, WmfoaYhla .eksug is;j = do@ is;= flfkla fjhs kï ta ishhg oYu .Kkl m% ; s Y ;hl is á k wfhl= muKla nj taldka;fhkau mejish yelshs' fïI jDIN ñ:qk lgl isxy lkHd ;=,d jDYaÑl Okq ulr l=ïN ók hk fï ,.ak fod
úoHd;aul fcHd;sIh( úoHd;aul fcHd;sI ,sms ix.%yh n,h fhdok ÈYdj fho jQ n,hg wkqj l%shd;aul jk m%; s n,h l%h s d;aul jk ÈYdj

uy N=;hkaf.ka ieÿï ,;a wú[a[dKjd§ jia;=jla f,ihs' tkuq;a mqoa.,hd i;=j mj;sk is; wka ljrlg;a jvd jeo.;a fjhs' kq;k úµdj ;=<ska fndfyduhla m¾fhaIK isÿ fldg isf;a mj;sk wreu mqÿu n,h ms<sn|j úYd, lreKq rdYshla fidhdf.k ;sfnk ksidh' ksjqgka hk ku kq;k úoHdj ;=< b;du;a m%isoaO kula' fya;j = fndfyduhla kHdhka f.dvk.kak ksõgkag yelsjK q ksid' Tyq f.dvke.+ kHdh;aul miqìï ;=< kq;k úoHdj ìys fj,d ;sîu ;j;a fya;=jla' Tyqf.a n,h ms<sn| kHdhkaf.a ;=kajeks kHdh wms álla u;la lr.uq' zz´kEu n,hla l%h s d;aul fjk ÈYdjg m%;ú s reoaO Èydjg ta yd iudk fjk;a n,hla ls%hd;aul fõZZhkak tys ir, woyihs'

fuhska mejfikqfha hï mqo. a ,fhl= isÿ lrk iEu lsh % djlgu m%;sl%shdjla we;s ùu idudH fohla njhs' fuh wm olsk m%o. a , ýú;h ;=< úúO wdldrhg isÿfjhs' kuq;a mqo. a , Ôú;h iïnkaOfhka fuu kHdh wkq.; fldg ne,Sfï § th ;rula ÿrg fjkia nj fn!oaO o¾Ykfha l¾uh ú.%y fldg we;s wdldrh ms<sn|j úuiSfï meyeÈ,sjk lreKls' idudkH mqoa.,hdf.a Ôú;fha isÿ lrk iEu l%shdjlgu ^ldh" jÖ" uk& Bg wkqremj ,efnk úmdlhla we;s w;r th zzWÿ jmq, l, W÷ yg.kakd jq o uqx jmq, l, uqx yg.kakd jQ oZZ wdldrfha tlls' tyso ;j;a wdldr /ilg wkqj úúO m%fNao we;s whqre ±l.kak mq¿jka' 10

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nqÿ oyfï l¾uh ms
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ýjk rgdj foi ne,Sfï§ flakaorhla n,j .ekSug pek,a fiajhla wrUkak bÈßm;a jk fcH;sI{hka msßila iuyr úg wkd.;fha§ ìysjkq fkdwkqudkh' ffjµjrfhla uqK.eys, Tyqf.ka frda. mßlaId lrf.k *duishlska fnfy;a wr.kakd rglg fyg oji § fPHd;sI pek,a fiajhla w;HdjYH lreKla úh yel' tfiau Tnf.a ffoksl Ôú;fha§ Tng uqyqK §ug isÿjk úúO .eg¿ ch.ekSu i|yd Tfí fm!reIh j¾Okh lr .ekSug wjYH lrk WmfoaYkh fcHd;sIh ;=<ska ,nd§u fuys ;jo wruqKls' mqoa.,fhl=f.a Ñ;a;dNHkaa;rfha mj;sk urKdYh yd Ôú;dYh hkqfjka kej; m%fNao follg fn§ w¾:" O¾u" ldu" fudalaI hkqfjka mqoa., flakaorfha i;r fldgqj ke;skï i;r flakaorh ks¾udKh ù we;s nj;a fï w;ru fmkajdÈh yelsh'
úoHd;aul fcHd;sIh( úoHd;aul fcHd;sI ,sms ix.%yh

fï w;r hful= Wmf;a isg urKh olajd w;aú¢k ÿl iem Tyq úiskau l< l¾uhg wkqj isÿjk fohla nj wm l,ska i|yka lf
úoHd;aul fcHd;sIh( úoHd;aul fcHd;sI ,sms ix.%yh

hful=f.a flakaorfhys i|yka jk M,h l=ula th Tyqg n,mdk ld, iSudjka úúO wdldrfhka olajd we;s nj wms oksu'q fuh mqo. a ,hdf.a nd, " ;reK" jDoaO" uy¿ hk wjëka i;r ;=< i;r wdldrhg n,mj;ajhs' mq¾K M,h ishhg ishhlau Tyqg ,efnkqfha nd, yd uy¿ hk wjia:d foflys§ muKs' ;reK yd jDoaO hk wjia:d foflys§ Tyqg ,efnkqfhaa ishhg mKyla muKs' ukao wfkla ishhg mKy ;srKh jkafka Tyq fuf,dj .; lrk p¾hdjkag wkqrEmj neúks' kuq;a hful= is;ska wruqKlg meñfKa o ta wruqK Tiafia isg l%shd;aul jkafka kï merKs l¾uhkaf.a úmdl wdfydaisl¾u .Khg we;=<;a lsßug Tyqg yelshdj we;' ta ñksid" ukiska Wiia i;ajfhl= ùu ksidfjks' fuu mokfï isg mqoa., fm!reI j¾Okh i|yd fcHd;sI hd;=ld¾ñl WmfoaYkh ^Astro-Ritual Counseling& l%shd;aul lrkq ,nk nj fmkajdosh hq;=h' mqo. a ,fhl=f.a fm!reIh j¾Okh lr .ekSu i|yd w;HdjYH idOl w;r udkj wjYH;d uq,sl fõ' udkj wjYH;d hkak ufkdaúµdj ;=< w¾: olajd we;af;a zzwdydr " kskao' weÿï "me<ÿï iy ,sx.sl wjYH;dzz hk tajdh' fuu udkj wjYH;d fcH;sIh ;=< zzw¾:" O¾u" ldu iy fudalaI hkqfjka yeÈkafõ' fPH;s¾fõoh ;=< úia;r flfrk fuu mqoa., wjYH;d y÷kd.; yels flakaøfha Ndjia:dkhka o fjku y÷kd.; yel' 1' w¾: 2' O¾u 3' ldu 4' fudalaI

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2 - 6 - 10 1- 5 - 9 3 - 7 - 11 4 - 8 -12 14

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mqoa.,hdg w¾:hla jkafka Tyq i;= ;ekam;a fyda mßyrKh lrkq ,nk Okhhs'tneúka mqoa.,hdg w¾:h ie,fik Ndjia:dk fudkjdo hkak úuiSfï § Tyqf.a mq¾j l¾u Yla;shg wkqj kshñ;j we;s ;ekam;a yd mßyrKh flfrk Okh ms<sn|j"mjq, weia fmkSu" ÿr n,d lghq;= lsßu hkdÈh úuish yels l=gqïNia:dkh jeo.;a fjhs' tmuKl=oq fkdj ;ekam;a yd mrsyrKh flfrk Okh ms<sn|j Tyqg we;sjk .eg¿ yd ndOl fudkjdo lshd úuiSu;a i;=rka" i;=relï" frda." Khnr" kvqyn iïnkaO f;dr;=re ms
úoHd;aul fcHd;sIh( úoHd;aul fcHd;sI ,sms ix.%yh

ìß| w;r ÿla lror we;s ùug we;s bvlv" úYaj .%y is;h s fï i;ajeks Ndjfhka úuiSu isÿ flf¾' mqoa.,fhl=f.a úkaokSh mlaIhg iyh jk wdodhï ud¾." tajd wod< jk wjia:d fukau fojk újdyhlska ,eìh yels M, m%fhdack fudkjdo hkak;a úufikafka tfldf
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1' urKdYh Thanatos wdl%uKYS,SNdjh - Aggression, Death 2' ðú;dYh Eros wdorh - Love" ldudYdj - Sex

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f*%dhSähdkq úYaf,aIlhska fmkajd fokafka fuu i;r wdldr mqoa., wdYhka yg.ekSu wdldr ;=klg isÿjk njhs' tajd ^bâ Id& iajdNdúl ksi¾. wdYdjka" ^Bf.da Ego& iajdNdúl ksi¾> wdYdjka hgm;a lrk h:d¾:jdÈ Ndú;dj iy ^iqm¾ Bf.da Super Ego& iudch ;=<ska ,nk fmdÿ wdpdr O¾u moaO;Ska f,i fmkajd § we;' Tjqka úiska fufia fmkajd ÿka tu mqo. a , wdYhka fcH;sIfha§ hful=f.a flakaor igyfkka o y÷kd .kak mq¿jka fõ' flakaor igyk ,shk wdldr i;rls' iQ¾h flakaø igyk" pkaø flakaø igyk" ,.ak flakaø igyk iy kjdxYl flakøa igyk ta y;rhs' fuys pkaø flakøa fhka iy kjdxYl flakaøfhka f*%dhSâhdkq ^bâ id& iajdNúl ksi¾. WdYdjka yÿkd.; yels fjhs' ,.ak flakøa fhka ^Bf.da Ego& iajdNdúl ksi¾. wdYdjka hgm;a lrk h:d¾;jd§ Ndú;dj y÷kd .;yelsh' hful=f.a iQ¾h flakaø igyk ;=<ska ^iqm¾ Bf.da Super Ego& iudch ;=<ska ,nk fmdÿ wdpdr O¾u moaO;Ska ljf¾±hs y÷kd .ekSug yelsh' fï wdldrhg mqoa., ls%hdj,Ska úfNaoh lrk f*%dhSâhdkq ufkdajµ;aul Ñka;lhska fmkajd fokafka mqo. a , fm!reIh f.dvkexùfuys,d fuu ;;a;ajhka idOkSh Positive yd ksfYaOkSh Negative whqßka n,mEï lrk njhs' mqqoa., flakaø igyk ke;fyd;a úYaj .%y is;hu ms<sn| ksrjq,a ukilska lreKq úu¾Ykh lsßfï § hful=f.a mqoa., fm!reIh yÿkd .eksu yelshdj ,efnkq we;' jrdyñrfha 17

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fyda cd;ld,xldrfha fyda ±lafjk ixialD; Yaf,dalhl w¾:h úu¾Ykh lsßfu § fuu by; idlÉcd l< lreKq iu.ska ;=,kd;aulj úuiSfuka hful=f.a mj;sk fm!reI wdndO y÷kd.; yelsjd fiau Bg l< hq;= m%;sl¾u ljf¾o lshd is;sh yels fjhs' wm fj; fhduq jqk flakaø igykla weiqßka Tng fuys oS lreKq bÈßm;a lsßug woyia lruq' fuu flakøa ysñlre ol=Kq m,df;a l;r.ug fkdÿfrys ;rula È<s÷ mjq,l Wm; ,enq wfhls' Wm; 1984'11'23 wlaIdxY 6 3 N foaYdxY 81 7 E N+ flakaøShj Wmka fõ,dj 11'20 ^24mefhka& Wmka kel; yd mdoh - wkqr 01 oYd fYaIh Yksg 16 j¾Ihlao 3 udihkao 13 Èkla o ysñ jqfhah' mdi,a wOHdmkh idudkH fm< olajd ye±re fyf;u miqj fld
fuf,i wjdikdjka; brKulg Ndckh jq mqoa.,hl=f.a udkisl ixj¾Okh yd fm!reI j¾Okh i|yd Tyqf.a flakaø igyk Wmfhda.S lr.kafka flfiao lshd úuid n,uq' 18

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Wm;ska Tyqg ysñ jq ,.ak iajNdjh msßlaiSfï § fun÷ ;;ajhla lsisfi;a <.dúh fkdyels tlla jk nj fmks hk kuqÿ fudyqf.a ,.ak ia:qgfhys Wmka fõ,dj jk úg .; jq wxYl m%udKh 24'31'15'la jq neúka th ;rula ÿrg ie,ls,, a g .; hq;j = we;' tu wxYl m%udKh ksfhdackh lrk kjdxYlh wêm;s .%yhd kjdxYl flakaøfha iy ,.ak flakaøfha o 06 jekafka ;ekam;aj ys£u ms<sn|j ie,ls,a,g .ekSfï§ Wmka N=l; a oYdj wkqj 2004 jir ueo Nd.h jk úg Wla; brKug i;=re n,fõ. ls%hd;aul ùfï m%;sm,hla f,i Tyqg uqyqK oSug isÿù we;s nj fmkS hhs' mqoa.,hl=f.a udkj wjYH;d fcH;sIh ;=< zzw¾:" O¾u" ldu iy fudalaIZZ hkqfjka y÷kajd we;s nj wm l<ska i|yka l< w;r w¾: fyj;a mqoa., l=gqïN rlaIkh ms<sn|j lreKq úuiSfï§ jeo.;a jk 2"6iy 10 hk Ndj jeo.;a jk w;r bka 6 jekafka we;s jeo.;alu fuu flakaø igyk ;=<ska ±ka Tng fudkjg meyeÈ<s jkq we;' úfYaIfhka fudyqf.a 6 jk Ndjh ulr rdYshhs' rdyq iy fla;= hk cdhd .%yhskf a .ka tla mfilg meñKSu fya;=fjka n,j;aj isá fikiqreg whs;s rdYshla úu;a l=c fyj;a w.yreg fikiqre i;=re n,fhka hq;=j l%shd;aulúu;a fuys ±lsh yels ,laIKhla úu ksid yd w.yre Wm;ska kD;H,smaid wjia:dfjys miqùu;a hk fy;=fjka ckañhdg ndOl .%yhd njg w.yre m;aj we;' fudyqf.a wkd.; l=gqïN rlaIK lshj,sh 6 jk Ndjfha we;s jq n,meu u; ksfYaOkh ù ndOlhla meK ke.s wdldrh b;du;a úiañ;h' kuq;a ,.akdêm;s jq rúg w.yref.a we;s ñ;%;djh u; wmg udkisl ixj¾Okh Wfoid hï msájy,la ,o yels nj fmkajd Èh yelsh' oekg fuu mqoa.,hdg nqO uy oYdfõ isl=ref.a w;=re oYdj .;jk neúka fuu ld, jljdkqj Bg ;j;a msgqn,hla imhk nj fmks hhs' 19

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kuq;a fuys,d ndOl jYfhka bÈm;a jk ;jo lreKq lsym s hla jk nj ie,kls,a,g .; hq;=j we;' ms;Dldrl uD;Dldrl iy mq;% ldrl rú wudjl ;sÓfha miq jq i÷ yd nqO hk .%yhska uD;Dia:dkh f,i i,lk isõjekafka fla;= .%yhd iu. ixfhda. ù ys£u tu ;;ajhhs' rdyq .%yhdf.a ima;u oDIaÀhg ,lafjñka fla;= .%yhdf.a .%yKhg yiqj ys¢k tu .%yhskaf.a iqNM, ,nd.ekSu uola wmyiq lreKls' ;j;a mfil fuu flakaø ysñhdf.a uõmshkaf.a n,mEu we;s nj fmkShk lreKls' mqoa., fm!reI j¾Okh i|yd b;du;a w;HjYh lreKla jk uõ fifkyi yd msh fifkyi l=vd ld,fha ,eîfï m%udKh u; Tyqf.a fyda wehf.a fm!reIh Okd;aul yd >DKd;aul f.dvke.sug n,mdkq ,nhs' fuu flakaø igyk wkqj tu uõ fifkyi yd msh fifkyi ,eìug ndOdjla /ila bÈßm;a ù we;s nj fmfka' tfiau ifydaor ifydaoßhkaf.a Woõ Wmldr iy Tjqkaf.a iajNdjh u; o mqoa., fm!reIh j¾Okh Okd;aulj yd iDKd;a u lj we;s ù ug n,mdkq ,nhs ' fuu fla k a o % f ha Nd;Dia:dkh fyj;a ifydaor ifydaoßhka ms
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fï i|yd Tyq fhduq ljrfha Tyqf.a ,.ak iajNdjhhs' flakaø ysñlref.a ,.akh isxy ,.akhhs' isxyhd ;udg jeÿk m%ydrh l=ulao lshd fkdúuik w;r th l=uk ÈYdjlska meñKsfhao hkak ms<sn|j úuid n,d lghq;= lrk i;ajhls' ta wkqj fuu flakaø ysñshdo lghq;= lsßug fmdhqI f.k §ug iu;a ù we;s w;r TkEu ÿkaÅ; wjia:djla ñ;% iy.; iu is;ska bjish yels mqoa.,hl= njg ckañhd m;alr we;' zzbjik okd remq hqohg ch fldäh ZZ hkqfjka fmdrfKa mjid we;s Wmudj isyshg .; hq;= wjia:dj meñK we;s nj flakaø ysñhd is;g .; hq;=j we;' tfiau mj;sk ÿlaLodhS ;;a;j a h úfYaIfhka frda.S ;;a;j a hka iqj ùu i|yd hï ld,hla .; jk neúka Bg l,a Èh hq;= fjhs' ta w;r;=r udkisl ixj¾Okh i|yd ukig wêm;s i÷ .%yhdf.a n,h j¾Okh lr.eksu i|yd ud;D ldrl m;a;k s s uEKshkag yg Ndrhla ù fndaê mqcdjla isÿlsÍu hym;a nj mejish yelsh' hd;= ld¾ñl ms<sfj;la f,i tfia isÿ l< yels w;r ufkda úµd;aul m%;sldrhla f,i yd udkisl 21

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