Impression Management You never get a second chance to make a first impression . . .
Nonverbal Communication Definition:
The way in which people communicate, intentionally or unintentionally, without words
Types of nonverbal communication:
facial expressions, tones of voice, gestures, body position and movement, touch, and eye gaze
Uses of Nonverbal Communication 1)Express emotion 2)Convey attitudes 3)Communicate personality traits
5) Repeat, or compliment the spoken language
6) Contradict verbal communication 7) Substitute for the verbal message
4)Facilitate, or modify verbal communication
Facial Expressions
What are these babies experiencing?
Happiness
Sadness
Fear
Anger
Disgust
Surprise
Smile Detection
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/min
Women are better encoders and decoders of nonverbal cues. Why?
Nonverbal Behavior (Kraut & Johnson, 1979)
B. Smiling While Watching Hockey
A. Smiling While Bowling
Fa c ing P ins Fa c ing C o m p an io n s
Other outcomes
Percent of Time Smiling
45 40 35 30 25 20 15 10 5 0 Strikes/Spares
45 40 35 30 25 20 15 10 5 0 Good Outcomes
Fans Alone Fans Interacting
Bad Outcomes
Facial Displays are Socially Motivated Fridlund (1991)
Participants viewed funny film under 1 of 4 conditions
Alone Friend in other room doing another task Friend in other room watching same film Friend in room with you
Measures: Smiling (EMG) and self-reported happiness What was found??
It is relatively easy to control facial expressions so we look to other nonverbal cues to provide additional information: • Eye contact • Body movements • Posture (and gait) • Touching (and interpersonal distance)
Nonverbal “Leakage”
Definition: the unintentional transmission of information through nonverbal channels of communication. Might occur because (a) don’t think to control nonverbals (b) aren’t able to control nonverbals (c) try too hard to control
Voice leaks more easily Women pick up on “leaks” more than men
Lie Detection
Two Truths and a Lie
Individual Differences in Lie Detection (Aamodt & Mitchell, 2004)
Group
Accuracy %
Criminals
65.40
Secret service
64.12
Psychologists
61.56
Judges
59.01
Cops
55.16
Federal officers
54.54
Students
54.20
Detectives
51.16
Parole officers
40.42
Deceptive Behaviors (DePaulo et al, Psychological Bulletin, 2003)
120 studies / 158 behaviors 4992 participants 25% non–U.S.
DePaulo 2003 Liars:
Make a more negative impression and are more tense Less forthcoming than truth tellers Tell less compelling tales Made statements that were not as plausible, logical, or consistent with other statements Provided fewer details in their statements
Their stories include fewer ordinary imperfections and unusual contents. Were less likely to admit a lack of memory Made fewer spontaneous corrections