India.docx

I was 24 years old living in India I had a nice job nice car nice hair still no girlfriend like Neha every relationship started with great expectations and ended in great depression have you had problems in your relationships how did you fix it Cantus chair ladies and gentlemen when I was 24 I was still waiting for Cupid to shoot the arrow and find me the perfect partner guess what it seems Cupid doesn't live in India soon I went to the one woman I trust my mama there she was sitting on the floor doing yoga mama I want a wife she said no problem we can fix it ladies and gentlemen did you hear what my mama said she said we can that's right my mother was offering to find a bride for me she immediately picked up the phone started calling all her friends looking for potential brides soon

arrangements were made for my meeting with the first prospect there she was Wow she looked like a movie star from Bollywood she looked at me like I was George Clooney didn't I say I have nice hair I imagined spending the rest of my life holding her hand listening to music and doing hot yoga cupid has shot the and we fell in love four weeks later on July the 4th we got married on America's Independence day I lost my independence only after our marriage I realized she was not really smart she was also very hot-tempered just like me we had problems she liked outdoors I liked indoors she loved swimming I feared drowning she liked cooking I like to tell her how I miss my mama's cooking we had problems of the problems I used logic are used emotion I even showed her a role model why can't you just be

perfect like me within six months they grew apart there was no holding of hands no music no yoga looking for solutions I read the top 20 books on relationships guess what they don't work then I asked my friend Jay he just had his divorce Jay said man life is sharp don't suffer separate no Jay I just want to fix it exactly my lawyer will fix it I called my mama guess what she said we can next day she spoke to both of us here is what she said you will never find a partner who's 100% perfect it doesn't matter whether you pick your partner or someone else picks for you most people think that they fall in love because of Cupid's arrow but in reality what keeps you in love his Cupid's bow and string you see the bow and the string have a great partnership the more the string pulls back the move the bow

bends ego is what pulls the string still the mighty bow bends because it cares for the partner if she pulls you bent if you pull she bends it both of you decide to pull less and Bend more the partnership survives that's the only way you can fix any relationship when I look back to my strained relationships and lost friendships I understood Mama's wisdom the core problem was why unwillingness to bend more to adjust to attempt to accept to pull less since that day I changed my ways when she wanted to go out I joined her when she wanted to swim I joined her at the shallow end when I became nice she became nicer soon she started cooking better than mama last month my wife's in DeLand I celebrated our anniversary for the 17th time with our two children yes that's the same wife my dear friends what do you think I'll be now perfect partners No

do we still fight yes the difference is that now even when we fight we are still holding hands my dear friends if you have any problem in any relationship try to pull less and Bend more if you do I'm sure we can Cantus chair you