Advices 4the Husbands - Malayalam

`À¯m¡·mÀ¡v 40 D]tZi§Ä Zm¼XymhImi§sf¡pdn¨ NÀ¨Ifn apgps¡ kv{XoIÄ¡v ]pcpj·mtcmSpÅ _m[yXIfmWv apg¨pImWmdpÅXv. kz´w `mcyamtcmSv ]pcpj·mÀ s]cpamtdWvSsX§ns\sb¶Xv A]qÀhambn am{Xta \mw tIÄ¡mdpÅq. "\n§fn Gähpw D¯aÀ kz´w `mcyamtcmSv Gähpw \Ã\nebn hÀ¯n¡p¶hcmsW'¶v {]hmNI³ ]dªn«pWvStÃm. Xnf¡amÀ¶ Cu XncpsamgnbpsS {]mtbmKnI ]Xn¸mbn kzbwamdm³ apkvenw `À¯m¡·mÀ¡v klmbIamtb¡mhp¶ \mÂ]Xp D]tZi§Ä: 1. ssZh`àn ]peÀ¯pI. hninjym IpSpw_t¯mSpÅ \nsâ s]cpamä§fnepw kao]\§fnepw 2. kzIpSpw_t¯mSpÅ \nsâ kÂs]cpamäw \ns¶ ssZh¯nte¡Sp¸n¡m\pÅ amÀ¤amsW¶v kZm HmÀ¯ncn¡pI. 3. ssZhm\pkcW Imcy§fn `mcybpambpÅ \nsâ klIcWhpw {]t_m[\ {]hÀ¯\ {]hÀ¯\§fnse AhcpsS ]¦mfn¯hpw Dc¸phcp¯pIbpw B amÀ¤¯Â IjvS\jvS§Ä kln¡m³ k¶²X {]ISn¸n¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 4. kXykÔX, hnizkvXX, D¯a t\XrXzw, D¯chmZn¯t_m[w XpS§nb icnbmb ]ucpj¯nsâ khntijKpW§Ä \ntâXm¡n amäpI. 5. JÆmw (Imcyw t\m¡n \S¯p¶h³) F¶, ]pcpj]Zhnsb¡pdn¨ JpÀB\nI {]tbmKs¯, D¯a t\XrXzw, D¯chmZn¯t_m[w, ]cnKW\, aaX, XpS§nb hninjvS KpW§fneqsS icnbmb hn[w DÄs¡mÅm³ {ian¡pI. tkzÑm{]a¯X, Xmt´m¶n¯w, `ojWnbpw hnc«epw F¶o KÀlWobamb ZpÀKpW§fneqsS AXv a\Ênem¡mXncn¡pI. 6. `mcybpsS clky§Ä kq£n¡pI. 7. hogvNIÄ t\m¡n \S¡msXbpw sXän²mcW Dfhm¡msXbpw KpWtZmjn¡epw A`nImayamb Bßtcmj {]IS\§fpw BImhp¶XmWv. 8. \n\¡v F{XXs¶ tPmenXnc¡pWvSmbmepw `mtcymsSm¯ncn¡m\pw IfnXamiIfpw \ÀtamànIfpw cm¡YIfpw ]dbm\pw kabw IsWvS¯pI. 9. AhÄt¡ähpw CjvSapÅ t]cpIfn Ahsf hnfn¡pIbpw a[pchpw arZpehpamb A`nkwt_m[\IÄ \S¯pIbpw sN¿pI. 10. Ahsf¡pdn¨v AÛpXw IqdpIbpw AhfpsS kuµcys¯bpw BImc kujvThs¯bpw ]mNIsshZKv[ys¯bpw {]iwkn¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 11. Nne {]tXyI kµÀ`§fn \nsâ km¶n[y¯n \nsâ A{i²apXseSp¯v ]c]pcpj·mcn I®pIfpS¡n \n¡p¶Xv \o AhKWn¨p IfbcpXv. 12. tIm]t{Im[§Ä shSnªv kIe kab§fnepw kuayXtbmSpw arZpeXtbmSpw IqSn s]cpamdpI. \nsâ Bhiy§Ä IÂ]\m cq]w hns«mgnªv At]£m kzc¯nembncn¡s«. 13. `wKnbpw Ae¦mchpw Dt]£n¡p¶Xv emfnXyamsW¶v hnebncp¯mXncn¡pI. XoÀ¨bmbpw B hnebncp¯Â PohnXs¯ Aet¦mes¸Sp¯pIbpw A]IS§fnte¡v \bn¡pIbpw sN¿pw. 14. \nsâ FÃm A`nemj§fnepw ]²XnIfnepw `mcytbmsSm¯v NÀ¨sN¿pIbpw Ahfpambn IqSnbmtemN\ \S¯pIbpw sN¿pI, AhfpsS A`n{]mbhpw ]cnKWn¡pI. Hcp PohnX ]¦mfnsbt¸mse AhtfmSv s]cpamdpI.

15. \nsâ apgph³ clky§fptSbpw tI{µamb Ahsf hnizmk¯nseSp¡pIbpw XZznjbIambn Ahsf t_m[hXnbm¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 16. F{X sNdpXpw ]cnNnXhpamIs«, AhÄ \n\¡v Xcp¶ FÃm hkvXp¡tfbpw am\n¡pI. 17. AhfpsS PohnX¯nse {]tXyImhiy§sfbpw tlm_nIsfbpw thWvShn[w ]cnKWn¡pIbpw \nsâ kPoh ]cnKW\bn AhfpsS hnjb§fpsWvS¶v Ahsf Xcys¸Sp¯pIbpw sN¿pI. 18. hnt\mZ]cn]mSnIfnepw bm{XIfnepw `mcybpsS klhmkhpw km¶n[yhpw AhKWn¡mXncn¡pI. 19. \ntâsX¶v \n\¡pd¸pÅ sXäpIfn \o `mcytbmSv am¸nc¡pI. Imcy§Ä a\Ênem¡nsImSp¡p¶ Hcp hnImct¯mSpIqSnbmhWaXv. AÃmsX, tZjys¸SpItbm k¦Ss¸SpItbm sNbvXv sImWvSmhcpXv. 20. `mcy \n\¡v Ae¦mcs§msfmcp¡n¯cpw {]Imcw \o AhÄ¡pw Ae¦mc§sfmcp¡ns¡mSp¡pI. 21. AhfpsS BtcmKy{]XnkÔn L«§fn Zbm ImcpWyhnImc§tfmsS \o AhfpsS Nmc¯v Xs¶ \nebpd¸n¡pI. 22. F{X \nÊmc kwKXnIfmsW¦nepw `mcy \nt¶mSmhiys¸Sp¶sX´pw kwLSn¸n¨p sImSp¡m³ \o ad¡mXncn¡pI. 23. NÀ¨Ifnepw kw`mjW§fnepw arZpeXbpw ss\Àaeyhpw ]peÀ¯pIbpw \nsâ A`n{]mb§Ä¡v t\Àhn]coXamsW¦nepw icnbmb A`n{]mbw kzoIcn¡m\pÅ a\Êv ImWn¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 24. `mcybn \n¶v A{]Xy£amIp¶ bm{XmthfIfnepw aäpw t^m¬ aptJ\bpw aäp amÀK§fneqsSbpw `mcybpambn \nc´c_Ôw ]peÀ¯pI. 25. hn«p\n¶Xn\ptijw ]p\xkamKan¡pt¼mÄ XSwsI«n \nÀ¯nb kvt\lw IcIhnsªmgpIs«. 26. ]p©ncnXqhp¶ apJhpambn ho«nte¡v Ibdns¨ÃpI. km[n¡psa¦n hnfn¨p sImtWvSm, s_ÃSnt¨m km¶n[yadnbn¨v IS¶psNÃpI. ho«n kvt\l¯nsâbpw XamiIfpsSbpw A´co£w krjvSn¡pIbpw kvt\lþkt´mjhnImc§Ä XfwsI«n \nÀ¯pIbpw sN¿pI. 27. Ahfn ZriyamIp¶ thZ\IfptSbpw {]bmk§fptSbpw hnImk§Ä¡p t\sc AÚX \Sn¡mXn¡pI. F¶Ã AXnsâ ImcW§Ä IsWvS¯m\pw kvt\lw sImWvSv NnInÕn¡m\pw [rXnIq«pIbpw sN¿pI. 28. BÀ¯hw, KÀ`[mcWw, {]khm\´cw F¶o L«§fn AhfpsS imcocnIhpw am\knIhpamb AhØIÄ khntijw ]cnKWn¡pIbpw A¯cw kµÀ`§fn kvt\lt¯msSbpw kl\t¯msSbpw ImcpWyt¯msSbpw AhtfmSv hÀ¯n¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 29. \nsâ amXmhpw `mcybpw X½nepWvSmhp¶ {]iv\§Ä, AhcncphcpsSbpw ASp¸¯n\pw cÚn¸n\pw klmbIamhpwhn[w _p²n]qÀhIambpw kmaÀYyt¯msSbpw ssIImcyw sN¿pI.

30. aäpÅhcpsS km¶n[y¯n \nsâ `mcysb Ipäs¸Sp¯mXncn¡p. F¶m KpWtZmjn¨pw D]tZin¨pw \obpt±in¡p¶ \nehmc¯nte¡hsf DbÀ¯m³ {ian¨psImWvSncn¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 31. `£Ww ]mIw sN¿p¶Xnepw hoSv \nb{´n¡p¶Xnepw `mcybptSXmb coXnIÄ hnaÀi\hnt[bam¡mXncn¡pIbpw D½, Iq«pImcsâ `mcy XpS§nbhcpsS coXnIfpambn Xpe\w sNbvXv kwkmcn¡pIbpw sN¿mXncn¡pI. 32. `mcybpsS amXm]nXm¡sf BZcn¡pIbpw AhÀ¡v kz´w amXm]nXm¡fpsS Øm\w hIsh¨psImSp¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 33. `mcybpsS ho«pImscbpw Iq«pImcnIsfbpw BZcn¡pIbpw _lpam\n¡pIbpw sN¿pI. 34. \nsâ ap¼msI DbÀ¶phcp¶ {]iv\§Ä _p²nbpw bpànbpap]tbmKn¨v ]Tn¡pI. 35. CcphcpsSbpw B`y´camb {]iv\]cnlmc¯n\v \nc´cw {ian¨psImWvSncn¡pI. k¦oÀWkmlNcy§fn aämsc¦nepambn IqSnbmtemN\ \S¯m³ \nÀ_ÔnXamhpIbmsW¦n \nsâ _ÔphmsW¦nÂIqSn kz`mcysb¡pdn¨v \o AbmtfmSv ]c¯n ]dbmXncn¡pI. 36. Zm¼Xy {]iv\§fn \n§fncphcpsSbpw amXm]nXm¡fnsemcmsfbpw CSs]So¡mXncn¡pI. ImcWw, kzm`mhnIambpw kz´w aItâtbm aIfpsStbm `mK¯mWtÃm GsXmcp amXmhpw ]nXmhpw \n¡pI. \n§Ä¡nSbn kvt\lhpw ImcpWyhpaÃm¯ asä´pw IS¯nhnSm³ \St¶¡mhp¶ _mly {ia§sf IcpXnbncn¡pI. 37. \nÊmc Imcy§fn A\mhiyambn FSp¯pNmSpIbpw tIm]n¡pIbpw sN¿p¶Xv Hgnhm¡pI. \n§fpsS \ne]mSpIfpw {]XnIcW§fpw Imcy§fpsS Kuch¯n\\pkrXambncn¡pIbpw \nÀamWmßIambncn¡pIbpw sN¿m³ {i²n¡pI. 38. ho«n `mcybpsS {IaoIcW§sf am\n¡pIbpw \n§fpsS Bhiy§Ä Ahbv¡\pkrXambn cq]s¸Sp¯pIbpw sN¿pI. 39. \n\¡v kabw e`n¡p¶ apd¡v _m[yXIfnepw tPmenIfnepw Ahsf klmbn¡m³ BÀ¯n ImWn¡pI. km[\§Ä hm§pI, Ip«nIfpsSbnSbnepWvSmhp¶ {]iv\§Ä ]dªv XoÀ¡pI, `mcapÅ ^ÀWn¨dpIfpw aäpw hln¡pI XpS§n {]bmkIcamb Imcy§fnepw Ip«nItfmsSm¯ncn¡p¶XpÄs¸sSbpÅ sNdnb Imcy§fnepsams¡ \nÀtem`w klIcn¡mhp¶XmWv. 40. ho«n `mcybpsS Iq«pImcnIfmb hà AXnYnIfpw h¶m BXnYysamcp¡p¶Xn ]camh[n Ahsf klmbn¡m³ ]cn{ian¡pIbpw AXnYnbpsS IqsS IqSpX kabw sNehgn¡m³ AhÄ¡v kuIcysamcp¡pIbpw sN¿pI.

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