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What’s the secret to running a great youth ministry?

Mitch Miller says the secret lies in remembering who you're serving. While I was at my old church, I got phone calls from youth leaders all over the US asking me for advice. I was more than happy to share with them what I knew, but to be honest, I think I left most of them disappointed. Truth be told, they we’re looking for a secret and there just isn’t one. Youth ministry strategy depends on so many things. You have to take into account your region, the demographic of your church, your local culture, the age of your kids and so much more. It’s a combination of talent, spiritual gifting, hard work and the hand of God. But there is one big thing we need to remember: youth ministry is people ministry. This is absolutely foundational. If you don’t get this, you fail!

We all have our problems During my time as a youth leader, I realised kids had the exact same problems adults did (drugs, porn, cutting, bitterness, depression and all kinds of other things). In addition, I found that kids ask the exact same questions as adults do. They wanted to know why they had illnesses, how to get over heartache, why there was a hell and if God was going to take care of them. I also realised that they are just as messed up as adults are. They had incredible stress from school, they we’re under insane peer pressure all the time, they had secrets that bothered them and thoughts that disturbed them. Why? Because they’re people.

Do you know your kids? The kids in your group aren’t just high schoolers or a group of teens you have to keep excited. They’re real, live, breathing people. The kids in your youth group will one day be mothers, fathers, husbands, wives, workers, leaders, and who knows what else. So as overly simple as this sounds – treat them like it. 

Don’t give them a sugar coated version of church - they want the real deal

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Don’t just give them entertainment (though I’m all about having a blast) - they want community

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Don’t teach them a flashy, fun version of theology - they want rich, robust theology

They are people! If you have that in the forefront of your mind, you will probably stop searching for a secret.

16 games and ideas to help memorise the Bible Below are a whole stack of ideas that you might be able to use at your youth group or camp, to help people memorise parts of scripture, and have fun doing it! Want even more youth group activities at your fingertips? Download your free PDF copy of Fervr's 39 awesome youth group games, icebreakers and activities now!

1. SMS Memory Verse Write the memory verse out on a piece of paper using only the numbers used to write the words in an sms message, ie. the numbers that correspond to the letters on the keypad. (Eg. “843 56733 = “the lord”). Obviously there will be a number of words that will correspond to a pattern of numbers but that’s all part of the fun for the kids to work out the memory verse. They can use their mobile phones for this game to help them work it out. Split the group into however many teams needed and if there is a person on each team who has credit and is willing to spend it, then you could say whoever is first to text the memory verse to the leader’s mobile wins. Otherwise the winner can be whoever is first to decode it and write it out correctly.

2. Mad Gab Memory Verse This is a good game for introducing a new memory verse. Just like the card game ‘Mad Gab’ from Mattel©. It’s a game of words and phrases, it’s not what you say, it’s what you hear. Say the words “Day Leo Fur Rings” a few times and you’ll find you’re saying. “daily offerings!”, just sound it out. Write up the memory verse in Mad Gab style (eg. “Iron hot ash aimed off day goes bell” = I am not ashamed of the gospel). If it’s a large memory verse split it into sections (ie. If there are 3 sections to the memory verse then make 3 rounds to the game, and when a team has solved the first section, give them the second, and so on til they solve the whole verse). Players work in teams and compete against each other to solve the memory verse first, and when they have solved it, run up to the white board and write it out in full.

3. Human buzzer – fill in the blanks (From p. 78 Programs 2 Go by Ken Moser) This is a good game for introducing a new memory verse. Using a white board, put underscore dashes on the board for every letter in each word of the memory verse eg. Jesus wept = _ _ _ _ _

_ _ _ _.

Divide everybody into 2 groups. Each group elects someone to be the buzzer and another to be the contestant. The ‘buzzer sits on a chair out the front while the contestant stands behind them with their hands on the head of the buzzer, when they want to answer a question the lightly press the buzzer to make the sound for that team. The game is played in rounds so that the each person in the team has an opportunity to be the buzzer or contestant. When a contestant gets a question right they are allowed to select 1 letter of the alphabet (apart from vowels) to be uncovered on the board. Have special rounds where contestants are allowed to choose vowels or solve the memory verse. You will need to prepare at least 26 questions for the game and they can include bible questions, youth group questions, celebrity questions, etc.

4. Jigsaw Puzzle (From p. 75 Creative Christian Ideas by Ken Moser) Write the memory verse on cardboard and then cut it up to form a jigsaw puzzle. Split everyone into groups and give one jigsaw puzzle to each group. The team that pieces the memory verse together first is the winner.

5. Pass the Parcel (From p. 79 Creative Christian Ideas by Ken Moser) Hide a word of the memory verse in each layer of the parcel (with or without prizes). With music playing, pass the parcel around the group till the music stops and then unravel a layer of the parcel. Repeat till all layers are unravelled and all words have been revealed. Have the group place the memory verse in order and say out lout together.

6. Eat Out! Memory Verse Get 2 disposable paper bowls for each word of the memory verse. Write one memory verse word on each bowl (if it’s a long verse write a few words) so that there is two sets of bowls with the complete memory verse in each set. Split into 2 teams and give one set of bowls to each team. Have each bowl filled with some sot of food (eg. Cereal, crumbled dry weet-bix, chips, custard, etc.) so that the word/s cannot be read underneath. Do a “ready, set, go!” and the team that finishes their food first, arranges the memory verse in proper order, and read it out is the winner. Warning: You will want to check for food allergies among the contestants first, and let people sit out who really don’t want to be a part of it.

7. Balloon Darts Print off 2 copies of the memory verse on different coloured paper and put the words of the memory verse into about 5-6 balloons. Blow up the balloons and stick them to the wall. Split the group into 2 teams and give them some darts. The teams won’t know which balloons will have their memory verse words in it. When all the balloons have been popped, the first team to arrange the memory verse and read it out is the winner. Warning: Don’t let kids go up to the wall until all the balloons have been popped and no one is throwing any darts.

8. Chinese Whispers This operates just like the Chinese whispers you played at school. Get everyone in a big circle (or into smaller circles if the group is too big, but the bigger the group the better for this game). Tell the memory verse to the first person in the group and then they have to pass it on to the next person by memory, and

so on… At the end of the group, see who has the memory verse most accurate. This activity will work as an introductory memory verse activity as well. Download your free PDF copy of Fervr's 39 awesome youth group games, icebreakers and activities now!

9. Application Pictures Ask the group “what situations would it be useful to know this memory verse?” and then draw pictures of those situations on the white board/butchers paper. The aim is for them to see how memorising the bible is useful in life. Alternatively, you can split them into groups to come up with their own situations and pictures, then present it back to the group.

10. Memory Verse Skits Split into smaller groups and create a skit that demonstrates how the memory verse might be applied to a real life situation. This is much like “Application Pictures” except it’s “Application Skits”!

11. Word for Word Relay (From p. 85 Creative Christian Ideas by Ken Moser) Form teams for a relay race where each team member has to run up to the whiteboard and write one word of the memory verse (in correct order) until the entire verse is written. If time permits can do multiple rounds with different instructions e.g. Hop/jump to the whiteboard. Can also do with a memory verse jigsaw puzzle.

12. Throw and say (From p. 84 Creative Christian Ideas by Ken Moser) See who knows the memory verse, then write it up on the board. Get everyone to stand in a circle and have a ball to pass around the group. As you catch the ball you say one word of the memory verse and then pass it to another who says the next word, and so on till the memory verse is said in full. Time how long it takes to say the memory verse and try and see how fast the group can say the memory verse. Try to beat the previous time.

13. Newspaper Slice Divide the memory verse up into sections then divide the youth group into smaller groups. Hand out a newspaper to each group and give 10 mins to slice up words and/or letters out of the newspaper to make up their section of the memory verse and glue onto a piece of paper. Awards for most creative.

14. Sing it (From p. 82 Creative Christian Ideas by Ken Moser) Split into groups and have each group do the memory verse in a different music genre (eg. Advertising jingle, high school musical, rap, soap opera TV theme song, Opera, Country and Western etc). Record the songs if you have the technology and use them in the coming weeks to remember the verse. Alternatively, use a memory verse song already written (eg. Colin Buchanan) to teach the memory verse. You can play the song on CD and sing along or play it live! (playing live might be best, because the CD can be a bit lame).

15. Pass the Parcel revision Teach the memory verse to the group. Make a parcel with prizes in each layer. Have the group sit in a circle and pass the parcel around the group to each person while they say one word of the memory verse each out loud, whoever has the parcel when the memory verse has been said through gets to unwrap a layer. Repeat the process saying the memory verse each time until all the layers have been unwrapped (some kids will miss out on a prize, but this will teach them that life isn’t always fair… they’ve got to learn somewhere!).

16. Memory verse challenge (From p. 94 Creative Christian Ideas by Ken Moser) See who can recall both the memory verses for the term. For an extra challenge you can see how many verses they can recall from the year! Do this activity near the end of term, and even get them to do it in groups sometimes so they can work out the memory verses together by writing down as many as they can recall on a piece of paper.

Five super fun youth group games

A few weeks back we asked what your favourite youth groups games are. Here are some of the best games you sent in! (Got another game we should know about? Let us know here)

Fork, spoon and knife 1. Every player receives a plastic fork, spoon, and knife. 2. You pair off into teams of two and stand face to face. 3. Place your spoon, fork, and knife face down in your back pocket. (if they don’t have a back pocket, you can stick them in the top of your pants). You are not allowed to touch them until the next step. 4. Leader will call out either 'fork' 'spoon' or 'knife' and the first player of each team to grab the correct one from their back pocket without looking wins and moves on to next round until last person standing.

Thanks Aria from Radiate Youth, Utah.

Giant hungry, hungry hippos 1. Split youth into four teams in corners of the room. 2. Each team has a skateboard/rolling platform with a rope tied to one end, a helmet, and two buckets. 3. In the centre of the room is an area filled with ball-pit balls. One member of each team straps on the helmet, lies down on the board, and grabs a bucket. Everyone else gets ready to push/pull the person. 4. When the game starts, team members push their "hippo" into the centre, where they will use the bucket to collect balls. 5. The other team members will then pull their hippo back and move the balls to their team bucket. 6. The game ends when there are no more balls in the centre of the room. 7. Whoever has the most balls at the end of the end of the game wins!

Thanks Jordan from UNTD YTH, Hope Valley, South Australia.

The garbage can game 1. Place a large garbage can/bin in the centre of the room and have youth form a circle around the can holding hands.

2. A leader yells, "Go"! Then everyone begins pulling in an attempt to get someone (anyone) to touch the can with any part of their body. 3. If someone touches the can, they're out. 4. If at any time someone's hands become unclasped BOTH students are out. 5. The circle will get smaller and smaller until you're down to two people, the one that does not get "out" is the winner.

You may want to play this one boys only and girls only. Thanks Laurel from Ignite Student Ministries, Elbow Lake, Minnesota.

Balloons and cups 1. Set out two tables. Place a row of paper/plastic cups right down the middle of each table, lengthwise. 2. One chosen youth goes to one table and another chosen youth goes to another table, and each are handed a balloon. 3. A one-minute timer sounds, and the youth are told to blow up the balloon, then try and make the air from their balloon knock the cups over. 4. Whoever knocks over all the cups first (or the most cups), before the timer stops, wins! 5. An alternative is to use the SAME table for both teams. Try to blow the plastic cups off on to the other side of the table.

Thanks Cameron from Propel Youth, Oklahoma.

Bucket Ball This game is like netball but with someone holding a bucket (netball is like basketball, but you can’t dribble). 1. Split youth into two teams. 2. One member of each team holds a bucket for their team to shoot into. They stand on a chair at the opposite end of the room to their team. 3. When the ball is released, teammates need to pass the ball to one another in order to shoot it into their teammates bucket.

4. There is no running with the ball. 5. The opposing team needs to be an arm’s length away from the person holding the ball. 6. The winner is the team with the most points at the end of the game.

This is quite an active game and can get dangerous when people get too close to the youth on the chair. Make sure you leave an arm’s length between the person on the chair and all other players. Thanks to Tom from Blacktown Anglican Youth in Sydney, Australia!

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