What Is Love

love is not a path. love is a merger with an individual, a deep intimacy of two hearts -- so deep that the two hearts start dancing in the same harmony. although the hearts are two, the harmony is one, the music is one, the dance is one. a man is more head-oriented. he thinks for and against. it is really very difficult for a man to say a total yes or a total no. he is a split personality. some part of him says yes, some part of him says no. the woman functions through her heart, which knows no division. if it says yes it is total, and yes is beautiful only when it is total. if it says no it is beautiful. anything which is total has a beauty. anything which is half and half, fifty-fifty, is schizophrenic. there is a tremendous desire and longing for love, but love needs great awareness. only then can it reach its highest climax -- and that highest climax is marriage. it has nothing to do with law. it is a merging of two hearts into totality. it is the functioning of two persons in synchronicity -- that is marriage.