Sinai Newsletter - Nov-dec 2009

SINAI NEWS November/December 2009 • Cheshvan - Tevet 5770

Shabbat & Holiday Schedule Shabbat Vayera

Nov 28

Genesis 18:1 - 22:24 Nov 6 Minyan Katan 5:30 pm 6th Grade Dinner 6 pm Family Shabbat Service 7 pm

Shabbat Vayishlach

Nov 7

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

Shabbat Chayei Sara Genesis 23:1 - 25:18 Nov 13 Shabbat Service Celebrating Israel 6:15 pm Nov 14

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am Justin Weil Bar Mitzvah 10 am

Shabbat Toldot

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

Genesis 32:4 - 36:43 Dec 4 Shabbat Service 6:15 pm Dec 5

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

Shabbat Vayeshev Genesis 37:1 - 40:23 Dec 11 Minyan Katan 5:30 pm Chanukah Dinner 6 pm Chanukah Service 7 pm Dec 12

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

In this issue Rabbi’s Corner, Young Families

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Cantor’s Notes, Reflections

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Lifelong Jewish Learning

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School Events, Adult Learning

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President’s Message

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Brit Nashim, ACC Campership Concert

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November Calendar

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December Calendar

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What’s Greening at Sinai

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Genesis 25:19 - 28:9 Nov 20 Shabbat Service w/ Scholar in Residence 6:15 pm

Shabbat Miketz Genesis 41:1 - 44:17 Dec 18 Shabbat Service 6:15 pm

Brotherhood, Women of Sinai

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Nov 21

Dec 19

Social Action, Bar Mitzvah

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Mitbach Sinai, Personals, Chanukah Dinner

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News from Emet VeShalom

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Mah Jongg Friend’zy

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Rachel Baum

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Sinai Make a Difference

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Donations

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Seniors Havurah

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Meet the Sinai Staff

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Yahrzeits

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Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am Young Families Havdalah & Potluck 5:00 pm

Shabbat Vayetzei Genesis 28:10 - 32:3 Nov 27 Shabbat Service & Sanctuary/ Social Hall Door Dedication 6:15 pm

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

Shabbat Vayigash Genesis 44:18 - 47:27 Dec 25 Shabbat Service 6:15 pm Chinese Food Dinner 7:30 pm Dec 26

Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

Rabbi David B. Cohen • Cantor Rebecca Robins • Rabbi Emeritus Jay R. Brickman Director of Lifelong Jewish Learning Sherry H. Blumberg, Ph.D., R.J.E. Director of Administration Karen Lancina • Program Coordinator Jen Friedman • Sinai News Nicole Sether Congregation Sinai • 8223 N. Port Washington Road• Fox Point, WI 53217 414.352.2970• 414.352.0944 (fax)• www.congregationsinai.org

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Rabbi’s Corner Friday night, November 27th, a set of new doors for the sanctuary and social hall will be dedicated. This last phase of the renovation and addition project will be dedicated to the memories of Jay Lieberman and his son Larry Lieberman, may their memories be for a blessing. The beautiful stained glass doors were made possible by a generous gift from Joan Lieberman. The door’s creation was the result of a long process of collaboration with internationally known stained glass artists, David and Michelle Plachte-Zuieback. Residents of Northern CaliforLarry Lieberman nia, David and Michelle visited Sinai three years ago to meet with the design committee for the renovation and expansion. Over the past year, Susan Solvang, Anne Ghory Goodman, Patti Levy and Chip Mann have worked closely with the artists and with the donor to achieve an artistic outcome in keeping with the unique feeling of our foyer. The doors were chosen because the current doors, when closed, are nearly invisible. If you do happen to see that there are doors there, there is no sense of what might lay behind them – in one case the sanctuary and the other the social hall. We wanted to find a way to subtly signal the difference between the two rooms, one of which is the center of our prayer life, the other the focus of our celebrations.

In addition to the stained glass, the artists and design group chose a number of scriptural citations for the doors. The social hall doors feature the words from the third chapter of Kohellet (Ecclesiastes), “To everything there is a purpose and a time for every experience under heaven.” The sanctuary doors include, among other quotes, the Aramaic phrase from the Talmud, “Where heaven and earth touch.” Jay Leiberman The doors will be magnificent, they will function as a way to designate the purpose of the sanctuary and social hall. What’s more, the symbolic stained glass and the words from our sacred writings will make them a most compelling teaching tool. We look forward to celebrating the dedication of the doors with you at Shabbat services, Thanksgiving weekend. Rabbi David Cohen

Artists: David and Michelle Plachte Zuieback

The Young Families Committee (with children through second grade) invites you (and older siblings) to join us for a Fun-filled Potluck "Schtick" Dinner, Havdallah, Songs and Crafts on Saturday, November 21, 5-7 pm at Congregation Sinai. Come with a family "Schtick" (song, craft, humorous skit, or other idea) to share with the group.

RSVP at http://youngfamilieshavdallahpotluck.eventbrite.com Questions?? Call Mark or Carmel Sweet, 962-8196 or [email protected].

A-F please bring pasta * G-K side dish * L-Z dessert

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Cantor’s Notes

Reflections

Shabbat at Sinai Following the month of Tishrei, packed with the joyful holidays of Rosh Hashanah, Sukkot and Simchat Torah, and the introspective observances of S'lichot and Yom Kippur, comes the month of Cheshvan. Our sages refer to the month of Cheshvan as Mar Cheshvan, or 'bitter' Cheshvan because it is absolutely free of holidays. While for synaoguge leaders across the world, perhaps the bitterness of Cheshvan is sweetened with a bit of rest from holiday planning, preparing, leading and celebrating - for all of us, Cheshvan can provide an opportunity to look again to Shabbat as a measure of peace and comfort, joy and sweetness. For every person, Shabbat is rich with opportunity. Opportunities to pray, to eat, to study, to dance, to sing, to relax, to refresh...the possibilities of what Shabbat can bring to our lives are endless, as we can each make Shabbat the experience we want it to be for ourselves and our families. At Sinai, we're taking a new look at Shabbat prayer, and providing a variety of Shabbat worship opportunities each month, to help you find an easy way to make Shabbat prayer a meaningful part of your Shabbat experience. Each month, on the first Friday of the month (check the Sinai News and the website for a few exceptions), we'll gather for a festive evening of family Shabbat worship. At 5:30, we'll gather for Minyan Katan. This short and lively Shabbat experience is for our youngest congregants, through 1st grade. Bring your parents or grandparents and sing

Sinai Office Holiday Hours

and play with us as we welcome Shabbat in story and song. At 6:00, we'll gather our families for Shabbat dinner with their children of similar ages, followed by our 7:00 PM service. This family-friendly service is great for children, their grandparents, parents, and friends. Join us in prayer, song and story for a fun and energy filled Kabbalat Shabbat. On the third Shabbat of the month, join us for Shabbat Limud, A Shabbat of Learning. Come worship and learn with us at 6:15 PM. Each of these services will feature a speaker, sermon, text study or other learning experience to help enhance our Shabbat prayer with the gift of learning. Check out our calendar for topics! On the fourth Shabbat of the month, at 6:15 PM, join us for Shabbat Tikkun haNefesh, A Sabbath of Healing the Soul. While our weeks can be filled with the hectic goings on of everyday life, Shabbat is an opportunity for us to rest, be refreshed, and reflect on the quiet and calm that we can find in Shabbat. Take an opportunity to find a few moments of quiet and reflection with us through music, meditation and reflection. Through our Shabbat prayer, we will seek, together, some healing of our souls. Perhaps one of these worship frameworks will enable you to enhance your Shabbat experience, and find a bit of sweetness in the month of Cheshvan. We so look forward to celebrating Shabbat with you, and praying together. Shabbat Shalom! Cantor Rebecca Robins

November 26 closed November 27 closed December 24 closing at noon December 25 closed December 31 closing at noon January 1 closed

Ashkenazim do not eat rice on Passover. Although Biblical law prohibits only the eating of leaven, rabbis interpreted the swelling of rice and beans as similar to the leavening process. This scrupulous interpretation of the law was provoked by historic persecution suffered at the instigation of the Church. Being stricter in observance would hopefully encourage God’s intervention on our behalf. In the more liberal world of medieval Islam, there was fruitful interaction with Arab poets, which led to beautiful new hymns for our liturgy. Dialogue between Maimonides and Arab philosophers provoked creation of his masterpiece work, Guide to the Perplexed. Sephardim are generally less strict in the observance of Jewish law. With resurgence of traditional practice in Reform Synagogues, we are well advised not to go overboard in detail, but be guided by the example of our more casual Sephardic forebears. Rabbi Jay Brickman

Minyan Katan We Sing Shabbat, We Sing Shalom! November 6, 5:30 PM December 11, 5:30 PM followed by the Chanukah Dinner! Join us for a short & lively Shabbat experience for our youngest congregants, through 1st grade. Bring your parents or grandparents & sing & play with us as we welcome Shabbat in story & song! Next Date – December 11, 5:30 PM, followed by the Chanukah Dinner!

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Lifelong Jewish Learning Primary Grades Elementary Grades Young children can learn to honor their parents, While the fifth commandment does not clarify how especially the father, by not sitting in his place at the table we are to honor our parents, Jewish commentators suggest in the home, nor in the synagogue, if that if a person carries out the first four commandments, the father has a special place he likes the fifth commandment will follow naturally. In the Talmud to sit. (Yoreh Derech 240:2) In addi- discussion centers on how a child honors the parents, and tion, the the major thrust is that the To HONOR our parents names child act in a manor to t h a t As some of you may know, my Mother has been please the parent by fulfillchildren really declining in health and her ability to cope with time, ing the Mitzvot, honoring call par- money and living in general. It is a problem that many of us God, not e n t s who are Baby Boomers face. As she is less and less able to cursing, c a n cope, she depends more and more on me; the parent and a n d s h o w child roles become confused and sometimes reversed. A c e l e respect fellow congregant at Sinai is facing a similar situation, and b r a t i n g a n d she suggested that we have a course or learning session on S h a b honor. Our sages suggest the Jewish texts that might give us a Jewish way to handle b a t . that “my mother” or “my fawhat we, the children acting like par- Children ther” is appropriate when ents, could use to “honor” our par- this age speaking about the parent. ents who are now like our children. I o f t e n To show honor by naming was very moved by the thought and like to the role is one way to keep have chosen to incorporate the ques- p l e a s e honoring a parent, even parents, so the discussion tion into this bi-monthly article. when they are old. The initial commandment is is appropriate for today. in Exodus 20:12 “Honor your father and mother that you may long endure on the land that the Eternal has Teens Adults assigned you.” There are many disDuring this age, In several places in cussions about what it means “to our Psalms and prayers we when teens and young honor.” There are no easy answers, honor may vary with ask God not to forget us adults are separating from the individual who honors and the one who will receive the when we are old. For me, the parent and establishing honor. We do know that the Hebrew root of honor is Kaf that has always been a retheir own identity, it is espeBet Dalet, and it can mean honor, and “heavy.” It can be a minder that I should not cially important for the comheavy burden “ to honor” someone. Conversely, struggling forget my parents as they mandment to be considered. to maintain an elderly parent’s dignity and honor can be a aged. Keeping in touch, And this is the time when great teacher and a great gift. contrasting the other menwhether weekly or monthly, I hope that these reflections here, and the sugges- reaching out to them, learntion of honoring parents can be explored. In Leviticus 19 tions for educating our children and ourselves will prove ing about them as people, the commandment reads useful and thought provoking. These are only a beginning not just parents was a way “You shall fear/be in awe of in the short space of an article. I invite you to write and to of honoring them. With the your mother and father.” add your ideas and suggestions. death of each parent our Dr. Sherry Blumberg First, the mother is menchance to learn his or her

tioned before the father, secondly, the word Kaf, Bet Daled is changed to Yud Resh Alef, to fear or be in awe of. Perhaps there are different times to place mothers and fathers first. Perhaps, it is the Torah teaching us that both roles are important. In addition, today’s preference is usually to translate Yud, Resh Alef as “awe.” As a person strives to separate, they will learn how much the parent has done for them, and then usually they can be in awe of the parent.

stories is lost. So asking and listening to their perceptions about their lives is a way of honoring them. Adults can grow by comparing the story of the parent to their memories of the event. And when the roles reverse, finding ways of calling them “my mother or my father” and remembering that when we were helpless, they did try to care for us in the best way they knew how is a way to honor them. As they listened to our needs and wants when we were little, so too, we can listen, and find patience.

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Upcoming School Events Exciting Programming in Addition to our Regular Sunday/Thursday programming includes: Sunday, November 15, 10:00 a.m. –12:00 p.m. K4-2nd Grade Family Education Program: L’Dor Va Dor A multigenerational exploration of honoring our parents, grandparents and children. Thursday, December 3, 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. 6th Grade Family B’nei Mitzvah Program Sunday, December 6, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. 3rd Grade Parents Education Program: Siddureinu (Our Siddur) Sunday, December 13 Whole School Chanukah Play More details to follow…

You are invited to join us for our Family Shabbat Service on Friday, November 6th at 7 p.m. Our Sixth Graders will lead their leadership. Our young people bring a special energy and excitement that you should not miss! This family friendly service is GREAT for all ages! Join us at 5:30 p.m for Minyan Katan.

Mazal Tov… To our Consecration Students and Families of 2009! Harrison Gollin, son of Patricia and Andrew Gollin Elijah Laber, son of Elaine Palmer-Laber and Eron Laber

Adult Education The goals of Congregation Sinai’s adult learning programs are: To encourage learners to experience a wide variety of Jewish topics; to deepen and intensify a Jewish adult’s knowledge, skill, value and interest in Judaism; and to challenge the adult learner to think and feel deeply about Jewish life and learning. We strive to be a learning congregation that inspires the learning of our young by modeling the learning of their parents and grandparents. When you study as an adult it is of your own choice. Congregation Sinai offers a wide variety of courses. And, because of the many requirements on adults (work, family, community) some of the courses are of short duration. Other courses are ongoing. We encourage you to choose the courses that fit your time and interest. We hope you will stretch your mind and soul and try things that may surprise you. November’s courses are: “I hope you have children just like you: the Torah’s Take on Judaism’s First Families” with Rabbi David Cohen November 3, 10, 17, 24, 7:30 pm Sunday Mornings Ethics Discussions: “Jewish Business Ethics” Sunday, November 8, 10:30 am with Rabbi Cohen, David Cobb and others Scholar in Residence: Dr. Rachel Baum “Jewish Identity in a Time of Mixed Marriage: Are We Still a Tribe?” November 20-22 December’s courses are: “Our Covenant, Our Life Cycle and Our People” with Cantor Rebecca Robins December 1, 8, 22, 7:30 pm The December Dilemma: “Parenting Jewish Children in December” Sunday, December 6, 10:30 am

Gabriel Newman, son of Amy and Dan Newman

Sunday Morning Ethics Discussion: “War and Peace” with Dr. Blumberg and special guests December 20, 10:30 am

Cecilia Parkes, daughter of Monica and Joshua Parkes

Don’t miss the ongoing Senior’s Havurah: November 23

Alexander Stelzer, son of Brenda and Marc Stelzer

To sign up: http://www.eventbrite.com/rss organizer_list_events/266742216

Malcolm Lile, son of Sandy Saltzstein and Darrin Lile

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President’s Message: Message from Rosh Hashanah Shabbat Shalom. I am Judi Ketten and I am honored to stand before you this evening as president of Congregation Sinai. When Rabbi Cohen told me that I was to speak tonight, I knew this could be my most important opportunity to reach a large part of our community who may not often come to synagogue throughout the year. Well, my hope is, that after tonight, you will want to come back more often. So I sat and thought, hoping that my words would inspire, motivate, maybe entertain and definitely move you to action and personal change. Then the Rabbi tells me, Judi, not to cause you any undue stress, but many of the congregants who do not know you, might judge the job that you are doing by your words tonight. So, I want to remind you, I am not the Rabbi, and I am no competition for his ability to teach and to move people as he does so beautifully with his words. For those of you who do know me, you know that stepping forward to accept responsibility is part of my being AND I cannot separate my Judaism from who I am. So I stand here tonight to speak from my heart and share with you my dream for Sinai In May I began my first term as president, chairing a Search Committee that successfully completed its mission. We have officially split the job of Synagogue Administrator into two very strong part-time positions, director of administration, and program coordinator. If you have met our two new professionals, Karen Lancina and Jen Friedman, you already understand how fortunate we are to have such competent, experienced and energetic staff. Karen utilizes her excellent technical business administration skills, as well as her leadership, communication and interpersonal skills that the position requires. Jen exudes enthusiasm, and she will be primarily responsible for co-

ordinating simchas, membership engagement, public relations and facilities usage. What an outstanding team! Not to boast, but the innovative staffing arrangement has attracted the attention of other area synagogues, who, rumor has it, refer to us as the successful “Sinai model.” Following the rabbi’s sermon on health care, I want to speak about the health of our synagogue. I want to reassure everyone that our congregational future is in good hands and that our Board can be counted on to bring the vitality and quality of Jewish life forward at Congregation Sinai. Our staff and our Board of Trustees are working together so we don't lose sight of our shared mission and purpose. We create and initiate as individuals, but we collaborate and reflect as a team. Yes we do have a creative, tenacious board of Directors. I am continually grateful to them for sharing their precious time and talents. We have had the unenviable task of struggling to maintain a fiscally responsible budget in these unforeseen and terribly trying times. We appreciate each of you who continue to support our congregation. As Rabbi Cohen has reminded us, we are a covenantal community, not a contingent one; we support our synagogue even at times we may not personally need it, just as others supported it when we have needed it. And this is even more important when the economy is as challenging as it is currently. The Board of Directors does more than worry about finances; they also help maintain the momentum of congregational life. Here are a couple of examples of our current projects. We recently approved a creative proposal to bring young members, under the age of 35, into our congregation to insure a strong future. We are continually looking for innovative ideas to bring new families to our congregation. We need each of you to be a personal emissary for our Sinai. New membership is critical, and, as always, we warmly wel-

come all new members into our spiritual community; we are an intimate congregation that can extend its warm embrace to all. For several years our congregation has been working on creating a user-friendly, exciting web site. It began with the dedication of Jim Salinsky, and this year Sandy Saltzstein made it all happen. I have to thank her for her tenacity and her genuinely hard work. The new congregational web site is launched and improvements are still being made. This was all accomplished with a generous grant by the Bader Foundation. Please check out our new fresh look at www.congregationsinai.org. We all know these are exceptionally challenging times. We are focusing on renewing energy through our many exceptional volunteers. We need each and every one of you. I am passionate. I work to be organized. I need each of you. There are opportunities for one-time volunteer efforts to help plan a congregational program, as well as the chance to serve on committees, committees that go beyond just talk, to actually accomplishing. Our social action committee is following up on its amazing past year with new programs and volunteer opportunities in the wider Milwaukee community. My own experience has taught me that Sinai is open to anyone, on any level, anyone who wants to help out. We are unusually inclusive. I’ve also learned that the deeper your involvement, the more meaningful and even spiritually uplifting. Call me. I want my phone ringing off the hook and my inbox to be full! The more congregants that are involved, the stronger the tapestry of our synagogue life. Whether Judaism is a legacy you inherited from your parents and grandparents, or something you’ve come to later in life; no matter where you might be in your Jewish journey, we want to extend a hand and embrace you. There is a special place for each of you in our diverse and inclusive Sinai family. As the Ner Tamid, the eternal light, shines brightly over the

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President’s Message: Message from Rosh Hashanah continued ark, we commit to keeping the light on for each of you. I am sure I speak for everyone here when I express our thanks and gratitude to Rabbi Cohen and Cantor Robins along with our melodic choir for an eloquent and beautiful service. Also, a huge thank you to Dr. Sherry Blumberg, Jeni Goldbaum, Annie Golding and the school volunteers, as well as, staff, and our volunteers who have worked so hard to make these High Holy Day services possible; especially

my dear friend Stacy Schwab, who continues to lend her organizational skills to make sure all is where it should be, when it should be. It is an amazing amount of shared work to orchestrate everything that needs to be done. We all appreciate every volunteer’s dedication. We all look forward to the future of the coming year and to ensuring the vitality of our community. In my heart, I feel the challenge to maintain and strengthen this generation and the next generation’s connection and com-

mitment to the Jewish people and the Jewish State. I invite each of you to be part of my dream. On behalf of the entire Sinai Board of Directors, Michael and I wish you Shanah Tovah. May we all be renewed for a good year; a year of health, happiness and shalom throughout Israel and the rest of our world. Shabbat Shalom and Shanah Tovah! Judi Ketten

Brit Nashim B’rit Nashim means “Covenant of Women.” We are a group of women who meet one evening each month, for programs of Jewish and personal content. We also have an annual Shabbat retreat during the winter. Our group, which started about 14 years ago, was formed as a Jewish women's spirituality group, designed to be a forum for women to gather to share common interests and to build the foundation of a community of women within the larger community of Congregation Sinai. We have, in fact, formed close personal bonds and grown into a true "covenant" of women who support each other in all areas of our lives. The only requirements to join B’rit Nashim are that you are a woman, a member of Congregation Sinai, and that you are looking for a group of

women who are committed to each other. There is no cost to be a member except for any expenses that might incur from the projects we undertake. Our members take turns leading or planning the meetings; sharing our diverse talents, interests, ideas and experiences with one another. From time to time, we also bring in outside presenters. Some examples of our past activities include sessions on: Jewish artists and writers, ecology and its relationship to Judaism, cooking sessions, including making rugela, gefilte fish, and sushi; book discussions; crafts, such as making our own books, dream catchers and felted purses; and putting together the congregation’s Chanukah packages for Sinai’s college students and blankets for SDC. And of course, we always have food! One highlight in our experience as a group, is our

annual winter Shabbat retreat. This is a time when we get away from our daily routines to rejoice together. We always plan meaningful and enjoyable activities however, we find that it is really not the activity that we are doing, but rather the fact that we are together that matters. For, most importantly, we have become trusted friends. Each fall, B’rit Nashim is open to new members. We find that this is a great opportunity to get to know additional women, who bring wonderful new energy and input to our "covenant." We invite you to join us. Potential members can come to our open meeting Monday, November 9th. For further information, please call Toby Colton at 351-5205 or Joanne Roberts at 351-6486.

ACC Campership Concert There's nothing like a Campfire Sing-A-Long! Do you love camp? Do you love to sing? How about singing at camp?? Join the Cantors of Wisconsin, Rabbi Cohen and all your friends for an amazing night of Shirah! On December 5, at 5:30 PM we'll gather at Congregation Sinai to bid farewell to Shabbat, and raise some money for kids to have

a chance to spend the summer at Jewish Camp. This evening is FREE for you to come and rock at! All ages are welcome - camper or camper-at-heart! Won't you consider bringing a small contribution to help send another kid to Jewish camp this summer and to give them the camping experience you love? COW will divide all monies raised

between JCC Camp Interlaken, Ramah Wisconsin and the ACC (American Conference of Cantors) URJ Camping Initiative. For more information, call or email Cantor Robins. Can't wait to sing with us? RSVP at http:// campsingalong.eventbrite.com See you there!

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Chug Ivrit 9:30 am K4-6th Grade Classes 10 am Affirmation 11 am Mini-U 5 pm

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Brotherhood Coffee 9 am Chug Ivrit 9:30 am K4-6th Grade Classes 10 am K4-2nd Grade Family Ed 10:30 am Affirmation 11 am Mini-U 5 pm

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Aleph Bet Yoga 8:45 am Adult Hebrew 6 pm Rabbi Brickman Class 6:30 pm Beit Midrash 7:30 pm

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Thanksgiving Office Closed

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Brotherhood Spirituality Group 7:45 am Conversational Hebrew 2:30 pm 3-6th Grade Classes 4 pm Board Meeting 7 pm Adult Hebrew 7:15 pm

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Finance Committee Meeting 7:30 am Conversational Hebrew 2:30 pm 3-6th Grade Classes 4 pm Adult Hebrew 7:15 pm

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Conversational Hebrew 2:30 pm 3-6th Grade Classes 4 pm Executive Committee Meeting 7 pm Adult Hebrew 7:15 pm

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Office Closed Shabbat Tikkun HaNefesh Sanctuary/Social Hall Door Dedication 6:15 pm

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Scholar in Residence: Rachel Baum Through the Eyes of Women 9:30 am Lunch & Learn 12 pm Shabbat Limud Service 6:15 pm

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Through the Eyes of Women 9:30 am Lunch & Learn 12 pm Shabbat Service 6:15 pm

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Through the Eyes of Women 9:30 am Lunch & Learn 12 pm Minyan Katan 5:30 pm 6th Grade Shabbat Dinner 6 pm Family Shabbat Service 7 pm

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Scholar in Residence: Rachel Baum Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am Young Families Havdallah & Potluck 5 pm

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Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am Justin Weil Bar Mitzvah 10 am

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Chug Ivrit 9:30 am K4-6th Grade Classes 10 am Sunday Roundtable 10:30 am Affirmation 11 am Mini-U 5 pm Adult Hebrew 7:15 pm

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Chanukah 2nd Candle Chug Ivrit 9:30 am All School Chanukah Program 10 am K4-6th Grade Classes 10 am Affirmation 11 am Mini-U 5 pm

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Brotherhood Coffee 9 am Chug Ivrit 9:30 am K4-6th Grade Classes 10 am 3rd Grade Family Ed 10 am The December Dilema 10:30 am Affirmation 11 am Mini-U 5 pm

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Chanukah 5th Candle Bible Study 9:30 am Mah Jongg 7 pm

Chanukah 4th Candle Finance Committee Meeting 7:30 am Alef Bet Yoga 8:45 am Adult Hebrew 6 pm

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No School Office Closes at 12 pm

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Chanukah 6th Candle Brotherhood Spirituality Group 7:45 am Conversational Hebrew 2:30 pm 3-6th Grade Classes 4 pm Board Meeting 7 pm

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Finance Committee Meeting 7:30 am Conversational Hebrew 2:30 pm 3-6th Grade Classes 4 pm Adult Hebrew 7:15 pm

Conversational Hebrew 2:30 pm 3-5th Grade Classes 4 pm 6th Grade Family B’nei Mitzvah Ed 7 pm Executive Committee Meeting 7 pm

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Office Closed Shabbat Tikkun HaNefesh 6:15 pm Chinese Food Dinner 7:30 pm

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Chanukah 7th Candle Through the Eyes of Women 9:30 am Lunch & Learn 12 pm Shabbat Limud Service 6:15 pm

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Erev Chanukah Through the Eyes of Women 9:30 am Lunch & Learn 12 pm Minyan Katan 5:30 pm Chanukah Service 7 pm

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Chanukah 8th Candle Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

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Chanukah 1st Candle Torah Study 8 am Morning Minyan 9:30 am

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Torah Study 8 am Sukkot Service 9:30 am Campership Sing-a-long 5:30 pm

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What’s Greening at Sinai “The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely, or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quite alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that God wishes to see people happy amidst the simple beauty of nature. ...I firmly believe that nature brings solace in all troubles.” Anne Frank Our six-sided Sukkah Garden achieved its goal of beautifying Sinai’s Sukkah. Despite an attack of a rather nasty tomato blight that wiped out our gorgeous tomato plants in literally one night, we had gourds aplenty for the students in grades 3-6 to harvest and string up inside the Sukkah. We also were able to use the corn stalks for “schach” on the roof. A heartfelt thank you to all who hauled dirt, planted seeds, and weeded and watered through the spring and summer. A special thank you goes out to Naomi Cobb for her vision and amazing gardening talents. We look forward to sharing this process together as a community next spring. In other Greening of Sinai Committee news, the committee presented stainless steel, reusable water bottles to Rabbi Cohen and Cantor Robins on the first day of Sunday school to use on the bimah in place of plastic water bottles. We hope the Rabbi and Cantor use them in good health! We are continuing to work on ways to reduce garbage and insure that all rooms at the synagogue have recycling bins. If you have an idea for a Greening project, want to join the Sukkah garden project next year, or be a part of the Greening of Sinai Committee, please contact Deb Schermer @ [email protected]. The Greening of Sinai Committee is charged with raising awareness of environmental issues and helping Sinai become as “green” as possible. We want to hear your ideas, interests and musings. Tip of the month: How Do I Junk Junk Mail? A few facts and figures to consider: · 100 million trees and 28 billion gallons of water were used to produce U.S. mail for just one year

A 5th grader hangs his gourd in the Sukkah.

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In 2005 over 114 billion pieces of bulk advertising mail were sent out in the U.S. (a 15% increase from 2000) The average adult spends 70 hours a year dealing with junk mail. 50% of all U.S. mail is discarded unopened.

How can I get off those lists? 1. Contact the Direct Marketing Association to be removed from many companies' mass marketing mailing lists for up to five years. Learn how at www.dmachoice.org/MPS/proto1.php. 2. Call the following companies directly to ask to be removed from their mailing lists: Val-Pak Coupons (1-800-676-6878), America Online Discs (1-800827-6364), and Publisher's Clearinghouse Sweepstakes (1-800-645-9242). 3. Every loose-leaf bundle of business or supermarket fliers must be delivered along with an address postcard. Locate this address card - the cards usually have an advertisement and a photograph of a missing child (ADVO is the most common). Mail the address card to the address printed on the card and ask to be removed from their mailing list. Your letter carrier's routine is to give each house a bundle of fliers so, once you stop receiving the address card (s), tape a "No Bulk Mail" sign inside your mailbox. You can also opt-out online at www.advo.com/ consumersupport.html. Deb Schermer and Karen Schudson The Greening of Sinai Committee

Naomi Cobb helps a 3rd grader harvest a gourd.

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Brotherhood Coffees Just in......don’t miss the first brotherhood coffee of the season....Sunday, November 15th, 10:30 am-Noon. Join us for "Dinner on a dime". Four of Sinai's frugal spenders will present their list of "10 favorite restaurants!” Each list will focus on cost, quality of food, and general atmosphere of their favorite dining spots in the Milwaukee area. Expect a diverse list of choices and good discussion from Damien Jaques, Michael Waxman, Marc Kartman, and a surprise female participant who will extol the virtues of "eating green". Free coffee, bagels, juice, coffee cake, etc. will be served. Come early, stay late, and enjoy some mouth watering , pocket friendly discussion on "Dinner on a dime" ! No RSVP needed. See you Sunday morning November 15th! And don’t miss December’s brotherhood coffee "Why Big Bird is a Mensch", Sunday, December 6 at 10:30Noon. Milwaukee Public Television General Manager Ellis Bromberg tells us how MPTV's programs and related services reflect the station's unique mission and values state-

ments.

Ellis has been General Manager of Milwaukee Public Television, which operates Channels 10 and 36, since 2000. He has a joint appointment at MATC, which is licensee of the stations, as the college’s Dean of Television and Video Production. Ellis has spent more than 30 years in public broadcasting, 10 years as Station Manager of WILL-TV in Champaign, Illinois, and before that in programming and news management positions at the PBS stations in Albany and Binghamton, New York. Early in his career he was also editor of the Binghamton Jewish community’s weekly newspaper. A native of New York City, Ellis earned his M.A. in Journalism from the Ohio State University, and his B.A. from the State University of New York at Binghamton. His wife, Mel, is the principal of her own consulting company, WaterShed International. Their daughter, Kyra, is an actress in New York City. The Brombergs live in Glendale.

Thank you to all who baked or contributed to this year’s Break the Fast. Over 240 hungry congregants enjoyed a traditional Kiddush with homemade kugels and desserts. Nobody went hungry. The tables were plentiful thanks to all of your hard work. Laura

Women of Sinai News On October 14th I attended a luncheon for the organization Planned Parenthood. I felt proud to be a Jewish woman that afternoon. I was surrounded by two of Sinai’s past Presidents, two former administrators, a fellow yoga student, our current President and many congregants. It felt like a true community. There were 400 women who attended this luncheon and so many came from Milwaukee’s Jewish Community and specifically Congregation Sinai. Again, I felt proud to be amongst such a group of strong women. This past month, our weight watchers group had its first potluck dinner. Members brought either an entrée or a dessert to share. There was a huge bowl of butternut squash soup (2 points/serving), two styles of vegetable quesadillas, portabella mushroom sandwiches, stuffed mushrooms, and pumpkin fluff. (The pumpkin fluff was to die for). We shared recipes and enjoyed a social evening together. Our group donated food to a local food pantry as part of the National Lose for Good Campaign thus making our group weight loss a tzedukah project. The weight watchers group will be starting a new session on November 10th, come join this healthy lifestyle. Yoga continues in the sun filled Worship and Learning Space on Tuesday mornings at 8:30. At a recent session, Susan shared a variety of stretches that could be used while traveling. During this upcoming holiday and travel season, consider coming to yoga and learning the neck, back and leg

stretches to make travel on cramped airplanes more comfortable. Mah Jongg usually meets on the last Wednesday of the month but due to Thanksgiving and the winter break schedule we will be meeting on November 18th and December 16th at 7:00. New members are always welcome. There will be a second community Mah Jongg Friendzy on December 6th. Please see the attached flyer for information and registration material. The new membership letters are out with an enclosed dues envelope. Please consider joining the Women of Sinai at either the Chai level of $36.00 or as a Woman of Valor which is a $72.00 contribution. Your dues continue to support many activities for our B’nei Mitzvah students as well as our younger students. We also support Ritual events throughout the year including the Break the Fast, (this year we fed over 240 congregants), Koach, where we feed 150 retirees and other events. Your dues also helped to purchase the beautiful Ner Tamid which hangs in our new Worship and Learning Space. Stay well and warm, Laura Waisbren

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Join Social Action at Congregation Sinai Congregation Sinai has a long and extensive history of Social Action. • Over the years, congregants have been providing meals to the Interfaith Meal Program. • The Synagogue and Tzedakah fund have been providing paper goods and support for the Bethesda summer meal program which serves several thousand people during the summer months. • Congregants have participated in the Solar Cooker Project in Darfur. http://www.jewishworldwatch.org/donate/ solarcookerproject.htm • B’nai Mitzvah students and Religious school classes have held food drives, clothing collections, toy and sports equipment drives, and much more for their favorite causes and have gone on school-organized social action activities into the community. • Our Rabbis have spoken on a myriad of topics from the Bimah. • Panels, workshops and lectures have been held. Last year and this, the Social action committee is continuing this tradition of engagement in community and the furthering of social justice causes in Milwaukee. • Our collaboration with the Social Development Commission’s Family Shelter has resulted in 4 interactive events at

the Shelter, including this past October 18th. Look to our website and e-news for photos. Congregants have also led numerous knitting, beading and dance sessions at the Shelter. • Congregants have donated clothing, diapers, bed linens, winter coats, hats & gloves, back packs & school supplies, art supplies & coloring books, toys & games and toiletries to the Family Shelter in our monthly barrel drives. Thank you all for your donations. • The Greening committee spearheaded a Sukkah garden, harvested it for decorating the sukkah, has reviewed cleaning supply use in the Temple, explored ways of reducing our footprint…and more • The Social Action pages of Sinai’s Web site is expanding – and will contain more ways to learn about what we are doing and what you can do. • We are planning our first panel of the year – news to follow in future newsletters. So, join us and help determine Sinai’s path into Social Action. Just contact Idy Goodman at [email protected]/ 414-351-3386 or Tom St. John at [email protected] /414/964-8537.

SOCIAL ACTION COMMITTEE MAGNETS ARE HERE! The magnet enclosed with this newsletter lists the items that Congregation Sinai will be collecting monthly for donation to the SDC Family Shelter. We hope that this magnet will help your family remember what to collect for the shelter each month. Your participation and donations are greatly appreciated by the residents of the shelter.

Bar Mitzvah Justin Weil Justin Jerome Weil will become a Bar Mitzvah on November 14th, 2009. Justin is the son of Monica and Jeffrey Weil, older brother to Jessica and grandson of Judi z”l and Richard Kahn. Justin attends 7th grade at the Whitefish Bay Middle School. Justin is a self proclaimed “sport nut”. He plays Whitefish Bay soccer, Junior Dukes Basketball, runs cross country, and plays Whitefish Bay Little League baseball. Some more of Justin’s hobbies are: skiing, video games, fantasy sports, watching T.V., playing trumpet, being with friends, and riding his bike/scooter. Justin is looking forward to spending his special day with his family and friends. He wishes his “Gumma” could be here as well, but he knows she was very proud of him and his accomplishments. Justin and his parents would like to give special thanks to Rabbi Cohen, Cantor Robins and Linda Ross for their support and guidance as we prepared for this special day.

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Mitbach Sinai

Personals

Mitbach Sinai brings a group of congregants together at 6 p.m. on the third Monday evening of each month to socialize and create in the kitchen. Under the expert guidance of congregant Jill Weinshel, a professional, culinary school-trained chef, food-loving adults — from teens to 70-somethings — craft delicacies for Congregation Sinai events. Launched recently, this group is poised to grow in number and direction and your ideas are welcome. Join us soon for an evening of connection and conviviality in the kitchen. Check synagogue calendar to confirm Mitbach Sinai dates, in case of holiday or other conflicts. Please bring a donation of $5-$10 to cover the cost of ingredients. For more information contact Jill Weinshel at [email protected]

Welcome to New Members: Lynn & Mike Falender, Lisa Farber, Patricia & Andrew Gollin, Pip & David Lowe, Susan & Trip Stern Mazel Tov to: Steve and Anne Kravit on the marriage of their daughter Alison to Tim O'Brien Condolences to: Janet Fishman on the death of her husband Marvin Fishman. And Leslie, Susan and Mark on the death of their father. Dr. Larry Polacheck on the death of his mother, Dorothy Polocheck

Chanukah Dinner & New Member Blessing Friday, December 11, 2009 Join us to celebrate the first night of Chanukah with dinner & dreidels, menorahs & music and & lots of latkes!

6:00 PM Congregational Chanukah Dinner $12 adults, $10 children under 12, $5 children 4 and under Maximum $45 per family

7:00 PM Family Shabbat & Chanukah Service RSVP at http://chanukah2009.eventbrite.com

Design-Your-Own Chanukiyah Contest! Don’t Forget the Design-Your-Own Chanukiyah Contest! Bring your homemade Chanukiyot (Chanukah menorahs) with you to dinner, and the winning families will be announced at the end of services. A special prize will be awarded. Don’t forget: A chanukiyah has eight candle holders for each night of chanukah and one shamash, or helper candle that is higher than all the other candles. (That’s 9 candles total!) Be as creative as possible!

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News from our sister congregation in Israel For Congregation Emet veShalom Nahariya Kehillat Emet VeShalom, the only Progressive synagogue in Nahariya and the Western Galilee, is pleased to send you this update on what we have been doing as well as a High Holy Day message from Rabbi Horowitz. Kabbalat Shabbat Our Kabbalat Shabbat services continue each week at 6:30 pm, with a large and engaged congregation. We invite you to join with Rabbi Horowitz and our congregation when you are next in Israel – help us welcome the Sabbath Bride! New *Betty Sokolovsky Memorial Video Library Betty Sokolovsky, her husband and three children left Argentina and made aliyah to Israel in 2002. A beloved member of Emet veShalom, she struggled with cancer, and unfortunately died in 2007. In her memory, a gift was made to create the Betty Sokolovsky Memorial Video Library. This will allow our congregation to stock videos that assist us in learning Hebrew, share interesting movies at our movie nights in multiple languages, and enrich the learning opportunities for our children. To celebrate the opening of the library, a movie night was held in Betty’s honor on September 12. As is our custom for all social events, each participant was asked to bring an item of nonperishable food, such as flour, rice, or honey, that can be included in a gift basket of holiday food for the needy. Youth

Our Youth have been very active, sending children of many ages to camping programs and Israeli Progressive Movement Youth Activities. We look forward to another successful year of growing our programs for the young members of our congregation. Community Programs and Activities Many participants in our community programs and activities enjoyed the end of the Year Party at 108 Weizman Street. Many activities were held during last year, many of which were made possible with the generous funding of the Federation of Northern New Jersey. Message from Rabbi Horowitz: The Beginning of the Year Now the Days of Awe, Rosh Hashannah and Yom Kippur are approaching. These are days of renewal and repentance.During Rosh HaShanna we listen to the shofar. Everyone perceives its calls with his ears, but those who really listen to it listen with their hearts. The difference between listening with the ears and listening with the heart is clear. The one who listens only with his ears is like a person who hears the noise of a plane flying overhead, or the voice of a street vendor selling goods he doesn’t need. These sounds go in one ear and out the other. This is not the way the heart listens. The Mishnah says, “If someone happens to be behind the temple and listens to the shofar and his heart is focuses on it, he has ful-

filled the mitzvah." Often during the year our conscience tries to prevent us from acting negatively, but we ignore its dictates. Now at Rosh Hashannah, we have the opportunity to say to our conscience, “Here we are!” Man is born pure, and the purpose of his life is to remain thus, but life takes us in other directions. Teshuva tries to return us to the state in which we were before we turned away. The first day of Rosh Hashannah is the first of the New Year, of a new account that we open, of new behavior that is much better than the way we conducted ourselves during the past year. This day is the beginning of the ten days of repentance which conclude with Yom Kippur. Only a person who follows the commands of Rosh Hashannah and Yom Kippur can have faith that he is celebrating these two festivals correctly and that the Days of Awe will not pass in a normal routine. We are grateful that our congregation, the only Reform synagogue in Nahariya and the Western Galilee, is flourishing and going from strength to strength! We offer the community an opportunity to participate in an egalitarian and pluralistic Judaism and the freedom to express Judaism as one chooses. We extend an invitation to you to visit us when you are in Israel. Celebrate Shabbat and holidays with us! Visits to our community and contact and support from our friends abroad are very meaningful to us. On behalf of the leadership and members of Emet veShalom, we would like to wish you a Happy, Healthy and Peaceful New Year. May you, your family and friends have a year of goodness and may Israel and the entire world find peace. Rabbi Israel Horowitz Sharon Mann For Congregation Emet veShalom Nahariya

Mark your calendars for a family learning adventure you will not forget!

Sinai Family Retreat at OSRUI Camp January 15-17, 2010

“Will the real Freedom Fighters please stand!” Reserve your place now, space is limited Call or email [email protected]

Mah Jongg Friend’zy

Sunday December 6, 2009 1:00 PM- 4:00 PM Congregation Emanu-El B’ne Jeshurun Surlow Community Hall 2020 W. Brown Deer Road Cost $15 ~Join us for an afternoon of social play and sisterhood~ Community Wide Mah Jongg Event and Raffle

Co-Sponsored by the Sisterhoods of Beth El Ner Tamid Synagogue, Congregation Beth Israel, Congregation EmanuEl B’ne Jeshurun, Congregation Shalom, Congregation Sinai, Temple Menorah, Congregation Emanu-El of Waukesha and KOACH Bring non-perishable food donation for the Jewish Community Food Pantry. Proceeds of this event will benefit KOACH- an education and social program for adults. Please direct any questions to one of our sponsors ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Send your reservation and $15 payment made out to Mah Jongg Friend’zy by December 1st to: Mah Jongg Friend’zy CEEBJ, 2020 W. Brown Deer Rd. Milwaukee WI, 53217 Name- ______________________________________________________________________ Phone-______________________________________________________________________ Address/ZIP_________________________________________________________________ Please make a table for me. I am a ____Beginner _____Intermediate _____Fast player I have a foursome, please seat me with _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____ Check ___MasterCard ____VISA Credit Card # ________________________________________ Exp. Date _____________ Signature____________________________________________ Three digit code_______ Total amount enclosed $___________________

CONGREGATION SINAI SCHOLAR IN RESIDENCE DR. RACHEL N. BAUM

WHO ARE “OUR PEOPLE”: JEWISH IDENTITY IN A TIME OF MIXED MARRIAGE OR…ARE WE STILL A TRIBE? Friday night, Nov. 20: The Tribe Outdated? Challenges to Jewish Identity in the 21st Century Services 6:15, Dr. Baum will speak during services Saturday Luncheon and Talk, Nov. 21: Jewish Identity in the Shadow of the Shoah: What post Holocaust thinkers teach us about Jewish identity Luncheon at 12, $18.00 members, $25.00 non-members Dr. Baum will speak after the lunch Sunday morning, Nov. 22: Our People in the 21st Century: The Challenges and Opportunities of Intermarriage 10:30 in Worship and Learning Space Dr. Rachel Baum is the coordinator of the Jewish Studies major at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. She earned her doctorate at UWM in English and wrote a dissertation on the Holocaust. She has been a very popular teacher in Modern Jewish thought and Jewish identity issues. A published author, she also is the advisor to the Hillel Milwaukee.

Please RSVP to http://rachelbaumatsinai.eventbrite.com or [email protected]

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Sinai makes a difference! On Sunday, October 18th, Sinai Congregants and grades 4, 5, and 6 spent a meaningful morning at the SDC Family Support Center Emergency Shelter. Activities in-

cluded: Children’s arts and crafts, pumpkin decorating , blanket making, assembling toiletry kits, dancing and installing shelving.

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Donations Donations received as of October 7. Andy Brickman Museum Fund In memory of David Colburn Stephen Colburn In memory of Mary Fishman Janet and Marvin Fishman Barbara Eiseman Memorial Fund for Spiritual Growth In honor of the marriage of Jan Rosenberg and Marty Barnes Gloria Krasno Miriam Miringoff Kitchen Fund In honor of Amitay Ginsberg becoming a bar mitzvah In honor of Dr. Dick Lernor’s birthday In memory of Judy Posner and Peggy Jacobson’s mother In memory of Paula Simon’s father Judi and Michael Ketten In honor of Judi Ketten Linda and Shep Mollick Tzedakah Fund In memory of Max Fershtman Naomi and Mort Soifer In memory of Esther Larkey Jay Larkey In honor of Dr. Paul Loewenstein’s birthday Karen and Neil Wahlberg In memory of Irving Malawsky Lois Malawsky In memory of Charlotte Schwartz Dorothy Schmidt In memory of Abraham Tepps Anna Tepps Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund In appreciation Meredith and Bill Feldman Family of Dorothy Hindin Avrum and Dannette Lank For making the High Holy Days memorable Bernice Fagan and family

With gratitude for grandson’s baby naming Keith and Joanne Roberts

Michael Kahn Avrum and Dannette Lank

In memory of Andy Cherniack Marcia and Gerry Cherniack

For making the High Holy Days memorable Bernice Fagan and family

In memory of Thomas Hassel and Beverly Hassel Manburg Toots and Mannie Hassel

In honor of Drew Kaufmann’s bar mitzvah Mary and Jamie Kaufmann

In memory of Joseph Ghory Ward Ghory

Robert Grant Marks Youth Fund In memory of Jerome Marks and Robert Grant Marks Brynn and Jerry Bloch

In honor of Mrs. Jerry Kahn’s birthday Bettie and Dave Meltzer In honor of Rosalie Kahn’s 80th birthday Ann Pereles

Passport to Israel Fund In memory of Amour Gershan Jill and Bob Gershan

In honor of Drew Kaufmann’s bar mitzvah Mary and Jamie Kaufmann

In memory of Milton Katz Deb, Moshe, Cyd and Gabe Katz

In memory of Gertrude Kerns Joan and Pat Kerns

Contributions made to the Temple In memory of William Dinkes Jamie Berger and family

In memory of Louis Kaufman Jody Kaufman Loewenstein and Paul Loewenstein In memory of Lottie Lubar Lubar Family Foundation Marianne and Shel Lubar Esther and Robert Sametz In memory of Jim Muchin Toots Hassel In memory of Jonathan Resek Donna Resek In memory of Sara Shafton Barbara Shafton In memory of Michael Shapiro Donna Resek Beth and Ron Shapiro In memory of Jeffrey C. Siegel Joan Lubar, Isaac and Charlotte Siegel Cantor’s Discretionary Fund In appreciation Meredith and Bill Feldman

In honor of Sue Freeman’s birthday For Manny Hassel’s speedy recovery For Mort Newald’s speedy recovery Marian Brill In memory of Paul Gratch Harvey, Laurie, Cere, Anna and Maddie Shovers In memory of Miriam Kahn Goodman-Bensman White fish Bay Funeral Home In honor of Rosalie Kahn’s birthday Bunny Fried and Sally Reinee Mr. & Mrs. Robert Mandel In honor of Bob and Sandy Meldman’s granddaughter’s bat mitzvah Dr. and Mrs. Mort Soifer In honor of the marriage of Dr. and Mrs. Al Meyers grandson Mr. and Mrs. Robert Goldstein

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Donations, continued In honor of Dorothy Schmidt’s 80th birthday Ethel and Ben Stern In memory of Charlotte Schwartz Maureen Eichenbaum In honor of Tom St. Johns birthday Jeanette and Bruce Peckerman

In memory of Jean Golper Margery and Irvin Becker In memory of Andee Bram’s mother Linda and Bill Ross In memory Louise Friedlander Jean and Ted Friedlander

and Dr. Paul Loewenstein In memory of Racine Meyerowitz Dorothy and Al Meyers In memory of Charlotte Schwartz Dorothy and Al Meyers

In memory of Dr. Abram Levine Joan C. Levine

Music Fund In memory of Albert Cherniack Gerald Cherniack

In memory of Fanny Padway The Padway family

In honor of Cantor Robins Linda and Shep Mollick

In memory of Donald Mandel Caroline and Bill Schulhof

In memory of Edward Rosenburg Marcia and Gerry Cherniack

In memory of Kurt Meyer Ilse Brauer

In memory of Ida Rugowitz Harriet and Howard Weiss

Lieberman Memorial Arts Fund In memory of my beloved husband, Jay Lieberman and son, Larry Lieberman Joan Lieberman

In memory of Jim Phillips’s father Jean Pereles-Strouse

In memory of Florence Waxman The Waxman family

Jacob M. Fine and Family Library Fund In memory of Harry Brauer Ilse Brauer

Chesed (Caring) Fund In memory of Andee Bram’s mother Barbara and Ariel Friedlander

In memory of Sam Butlein Jayne and Eric Butlein

In memory of Ishmael Bratt Rosalee and Herb Bratt

In memory of Robert Fishkin Pauline Zarne

In memory of Carl Diamond Joni Ansfield and family

Floral and Oneg Fund In memory of Bessie Becker

In memory of Esther Gliber Jody Kaufman Loewenstein

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Landscape Fund In memory of Maureen Kahn Richard Kahn

Prayer book Fund In memory of David Orenstein and Ruth F. Orenstein Marlene and Bert Bilsky In memory of Sandra Rotter Robert Schlossmann Social Action Committee In memory of Jim Katz Dean and Laurie Segal

“Who exactly is a senior?” A thriller that shuttles from It depends on who you ask: AARP considers anyRome to Jerusalem and Back one of 50 to be a senior. Others say 65. Some again, in search of "Titus's Last even say 65 is the new 45. We, on the other Mistake." If you love novels hand, refuse to label. Instead, we use the folthat blend history with non lowing definition: A senior can be anyone, of stop action, this one is for you! any age, who values the wisdom that accrues over decades of living. If you appreciate good Upcoming Book Review: The conversation, peppered with penetrating inLast Ember on November 22 sights, the Seniors Havurah is for you. Every at 1:00 p.m. fourth Tuesday of the month.

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Meet the Sinai Staff Karen Berk Lancina: I moved to Milwaukee in July, 1993 and while preparing to relocate from the Chicago area, I started researching the Jewish Community and the synagogues in Milwaukee. It was very important to me to find a place where I would fit, feel comfortable, be at home, and have a sense of community. Sinai was, and is, one of those places for me. Since then, I’ve held several professional positions in, and around, the Milwaukee area, met my husband and my stepson, got married, bought our first house and had twins. One of the constants throughout my life in Milwaukee is and continues to be Sinai. Based on my past career in Benefits and Human Resource Management, I became the Director of Administration in September, 2009 to oversee the day-to-day operations of the Synagogue, manage the Synagogue’s financial operations and the facility. So, the next time you are in the building, please stop by and introduce yourself. I’ll look forward to meeting you and helping you in any way I can. Jen Friedman: Shalom! I am thrilled to be a part of this wonderful Sinai community in a professional capacity as Program Coordinator. My husband Ari and I have been members of Congregation Sinai for six years. We, and our three children, believe we have found a true home at Sinai for learning, community and spirituality. As the daughter of a reform rabbi in Boston, I grew up in synagogue life and have always found great comfort within these walls. For the last fifteen years I have been immersed in the Milwaukee Jewish Community professionally and through an array of volunteer opportunities. My experience as Regional Director for the Wisconsin B’nai B’rith Youth Organization and President of the Milwaukee Section of National Council of Jewish Women, have provided me the necessary planning, organizational and outreach skills to fulfill my role as Program Coordinator at Congregation Sinai. I am greatly looking forward to assisting you in planning your next simcha, event or program at Sinai. I want to hear your wonderful ideas and help you bring them to life! Is there a program or an interest group you would like to see at Sinai? Together we can make it happen! If you know someone who has not heard about our exciting and vibrant Sinai community, I would be proud to tell them about our gem of a congregation. There is no reason to be the best kept secret – let’s share it! Please stop in and say hello. Ilene Wasserman: A Milwaukee native, I have spent my life involved in the synagogue and Jewish community. After graduating from UWM, I worked in public accounting, the private sector, and for the last 4 years in

the non-profit Jewish community. I have been the bookkeeper at Congregation Sinai for the past two years and have enjoyed every minute of it. My husband Jeff and I have a son in college in Portland, OR. Please come and say hello. Karen Hintz: I was hired October 2008 as the secretary to Rabbi Cohen and Cantor Robins. Before coming to Congregation Sinai I was the Executive Assistant to the CEO, CFO and Principals at MLG Commercial in Brookfield for 8+ years. I have 3 adult children who are pursuing very different lives. My daughter lives in Mexico and teaches English. I have one son who is a Staff Sergeant in the Air Force. He is part of the crew on a RC-135 and his is job is Airborne Maintenance Technician. My youngest son is a senior at UWM majoring in Finance. He plans to pursue his master’s degree at Creighton University on Omaha, NE. My interests are taking care of my home and garden, Mexican culture and cuisine and studying yoga and meditation. Jeri Danz: Congregation Sinai has been home to me for many years. My parents were among the founding members of the temple so now I feel I have come full circle working here. I am the school assistant and thoroughly enjoy those I work with and for. I really enjoyed seeing my kids, Nicholas (26), Jordan (23) and Rebecca (19) attend the same synagogue I grew up in. Milwaukee has always been home to me except for my college years at UW-Eau Claire, where I met my husband, Michael of 31 years. I earned my degree in Social Work and worked at the Arthritis Foundation for many years. When I am not at the Temple, I also have another parttime job at the Milwaukee Jewish Council for Community Relations. I look forward to meeting you all. Tim Tyler: I started working at Congregation Sinai on October 14th, 2008 as the Head Maintenance/Custodial person. One thing that I extremely enjoy about working with and for the congregation at Sinai is that I was welcomed in as part of the Sinai family. Everyone that I came in contact with during my first year here at Sinai has welcomed me in with open arms. Prior to coming to Sinai, I had no knowledge of the Jewish faith, and now I understand more, but am still learning. I, myself, am American Indian and like any family, am open to answering questions on my faith and traditions. I look forward to meeting those that I have not and working for Sinai for many years to come. Dick Kaeppel: For 36 years I served as the head custodian here at Congrega-

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Meet the Sinai Staff continued tion Sinai. After a very brief period away, I have returned to Sinai in a part time capacity. I come in to help with Hebrew School and Religious School, Friday Shabbat Services, B’nei Mitzvah and Saturday morning Torah Study and Minyan. I keep coming back because I love the people and the kids. After all of these years, I have come to know so many of you through your lifecycle events. My wife Sharon knows that I think Congregation Sinai is truly a special place and I enjoy my time here. Come say hello any time!

Tracey Hassinger: For the past ten years, I have been an active addition to the Sinai community as the ever-present Kitchen Matron. You have probably seen me bustling about during Friday services, providing those endless goodies. Or perhaps on the weekends, along with my mother, Cheryl, offering a lending hand for a congregational event. Please know that your needs are her primary concern to better serve the temple. So, introduce yourself and get to know us!

November Yarhzeits November 6, 2009 William Cobb Joan Frazer Mary Ghory Howard Gordon Marvin Heifetz Margaret “Peggy” Juda Roger Katz Dorothy Lubotsky Lillian Peck Herbert Polacheck Samuel D. Saffro Ann Shafton Martin Siegel Cora Skinner Richard Teweles November 13, 2009 Saul Arbit Alan Bromley Lee Cherniack Bernice Cohen

Ateret Cohn Sarah Fleder Bertha Goldberger Melvin Goldberger Bertheld Hefter Jean Heilbronner John J. Higgins Joseph Hoffman Miriam Hool Arthur Koven Norman Leib Marilyn L. Look Oscar S. Meyer Elizabeth Newald Fred L. Raffel Kenneth Ross Howard James Seesel Jr. Anna Sherman November 20, 2009 Louis Eisenberg Bessie Fleishman

Shirley Glick Carl Greenfield Nancy Hindin Carol Ikenn Meyer Lebed Mildred Levy Mollie Lipschultz Zelda Margolin Albert Ostermann Dorothy Pollak Peter Pumpian Hod Schudson Abraham Schwedelson Alfred Shovers Edward Stillman Cecilia Warschauer Willie Weiss November 27, 2009 Allan Berger Loretta Cohn Helen Cook

Ann Derengowski Joseph Falk Bertha Feld Helen Fisher Herbert Kahn Joshua Kestelman Samuel Lipschultz Arnold Miller William A. Padway Kisa Peskina Harry Schwartz Rita Teplin Irene Warschauer Joann Weber Michael Weinberg Bessie Weiss Richard Werner Ardis J. Zarem

December Yarhzeits December 4, 2009 Dorothy Brickman Fred Feld Michael Fleysh Theodore Friedlander, Sr. Janette Manheim Mae Miles Joanne Mendeloff Misaqi Beatrice Muchin Mark Roth Lew Sangor Lillian Schwartz Nathan Shlimovitz Dr. John David Silbar December 11, 2009 Sidney Atinsky

Allan Bein Jack Blutstein David Cooper Ruth Diamond Goldmann Florence Frank Fannie Gershan Pauline Goldstein Duane Hill Lena Brown Jacobs Judi Kahn Barbara Kantor Kaplan Laurence Luff Edwin “Ted” Ostermann Ethel Sedlet Alan Shor Anders Solvang

Elayne Staller Sadie Stern Delbert Wile December 18, 2009 Aaron Bram Rose Cooper Toni Ettenheim Jack Freeman Arthur Goldstein Ian Ikenn Laurie Ikenn Arthur Levin Stanley M. Ottenstein Zelma Ottenstein Alfred Padway Judith Kerns Pence

Joan Prince William Rofes Dr. Alex Sigal Anita Feld Silbar Bess Urich Ann Urkofsky December 25, 2009 Lawrence Ball Bee Brill Benjamin Fagan Harry Feldman Bessie Kahn Anne Klein Manuel Padway Esther Soifer Rabbi Cary David Yales

Congregation Sinai

8223 N. Port Washington Road, Fox Point, WI 53217 Member of the Union for Reform Judaism CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED

Board of Trustees, 2009-2010

Judi Ketten President Marc Kartman Vice President John Mann Vice President Nick Padway Vice President David Cobb Treasurer Sandy Saltzstein Secretary Marlene Lauwasser Past President Patti Levy Past President Jim Salinsky Past President Susan Fishbach Fundraising Jenni Goldbaum Youth Education Idy Goodman Social Action Hugh Hoffman Finance Ruth Lebed Rofes Outreach Steve Moglowsky Finance Bobbi Rector Israel Tom St John Social Action Beth Shapiro Communications Susan Solvang Gift Shop Jim Stillman Brotherhood Mark Sweet Young Families Laura Waisbren Women of Sinai Congregation Jill Weinshel Celebrations

Do we have any Harley riders in our congregation who want to take a weekend ride with other members? Do you like to brew your own beer? Does game night at Sinai pique your interest? Sinai's Membership Committee is looking for your input! We would love to put together special interest groups but need to know what you want! If you have any suggestions or want to get involved, please email [email protected] with your ideas. Carrie Ellerbrock and Elyse Cohn, Membership Co-Chairs