Patience

PATIENCE Sabhr – meaning of patience; control our desire Ability to accept things as they are until a certain point _patience is a source of hope and happiness, becoming closer to Allah, morethan u can imagine is immeasurable 3 kinds of patience: 1) patient upon obedient- finding it hard to obey Allah’s rules 2to be patient when a trouble befalls u- when something happens to u like u had an accident or sm1 died

3)to be patient will find it hard to abstain from sins- do not drink wine A^udhu billaahi minash-shaytaanir-rajeem ‫أعوذو بال من الشيطان الرجيم‬ dadi3e: 3:133-134 3:133 Be quick in the race for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a Garden whose width is that (of the whole) of the heavens and of the earth, prepared for the righteous,WasariAAoo ila maghfiratin min rabbikum wajannatin AAarduha alssamawatu waalardu oAAiddat lilmuttaqeena 134 Those who spend (freely), whether in prosperity, or in adversity; who restrain anger, and pardon (all) men;- for Allah loves those who do good;Allatheena yunfiqoona fee alssarrai waalddarrai waalkathimeena alghaytha waalAAafeena AAani alnnasi waAllahu yuhibbu almuhsineena

u want to be loved by Allah, to be the Musinnin ( the righteous) , or the Muminin ( believers) - -- > you need to be patient how can we control our patient, how we control our temper, how can we be relaxed: we should sit down or lay down then say I sek refuge in Allah from Shaytan-evil take a deep breath and remember Allah remember that nothing happened w/o Allah’s permission "Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the remembrance of Allah. for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction.

Allatheena amanoo watatmainnu quloobuhum bithikri Allahi ala bithikri Allahi tatmainnu alquloobu Transliteration 28: Allatheena amanoo watatmainnu quloobuhum bithikri Allahi ala bithikri Allahi tatmainnu alquloobu Yusuf Ali 28: "Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the remembrance of Allah. for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction. Allah did that what he had ordained to do guard the gate of Shaytan hadith:Umm Salamah wife of the Prophet said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (saw) say: There is not one slave (of Allah) who is put through a trial and says: "Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi raaji'un (to Allah we belong, and to Him is our return) Oh, Allah, help me through my ordeal and grant me better than it after." except Allah helped him through his ordeal and gave him better than it after. She said: So when Abu Salamah (her husband) died, I said what I was told to say by the Messenger of Allah (saw) and Allah (swt) granted me better than him…the Prophet of Allah (saw)." [Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Al-Tirmidhi and Abu Da'ud]. (pbuh) This is Duaa asking for Patience which Prophet( pbuh) teach us to say when we need patience when suffering hardship: oh Allah i am your servant, Son of your servant, son of Your maid servant, my forlock is in your Hand, your command over me is forever, executed and your decree over me is just, i ask you by every name belonging to You, which you named yourself with, or revealed in your book or You to any of your creation, or You have preservend in the knowledge of unseen with You, that is You make departure for my sorrow and release of my anxiety alhamdulillah- when u have nothing or given something in everything give thanks hadith when Prophet (pbuh) teach his daughter and son in law what is better than what they were asking?

subhan Allah x 33 Prophet said alhamdulillah x 33 Allahu akbar x 34 and that are better than what you were asking b4 go to bed 94:5-6 5 ً‫ن مَعَ ا ْل ُعسْ ِر ُيسْرا‬ ّ ِ‫َفإ‬ Transliteration 5: Fainna maAAa alAAusri yusran Yusuf Ali 5: So, verily, with every difficulty, there is relief: ‫س ِر ُيسْرًا‬ ْ ‫ن مَعَ ا ْل ُع‬ ّ ‫ِإ‬ Transliteration 6: Inna maAAa alAAusri yusran Yusuf Ali 6: Verily, with every difficulty there is relief.

1- The meaning of pat ience QS 32 :24 : ‫ّا‬ ‫َا ل‬ َ ‫ِن‬ ‫ْر‬ ‫ِأم‬ ‫َب‬ ‫ُون‬ ‫ْد‬ ‫َه‬ ‫ًي‬ ‫ّة‬ ‫ِم‬ ‫ْ أئ‬ ‫ُم‬ ‫ْه‬ ‫ِن‬ ‫َا م‬ ‫ْن‬ ‫َل‬ ‫َع‬ ‫َج‬ ‫و‬ ‫ُون‬ َ ‫ِن‬ ‫ُوق‬ ‫َا ي‬ ‫ِن‬ ‫َات‬ ‫ِآي‬ ‫ُوا ب‬ ‫َان‬ ‫َك‬ ‫ُوا و‬ ‫َب‬ َ ‫ص‬ WajaAAalna minhum aimmatan yahdoona biamrina lamma sabaroo wakanoo biayatina yooqinoona And We appointed, from among them, leaders, giving guidance under Our command, so long as they persevered with patience and continued to have faith in Our Signs. Yusuf Ali 24: And We appointed, from among them, leaders, giving guidance under Our command, so long as they persevered with patience and continued to have faith in Our Signs.

2 -Tests in l i fe and pat ience QS : 29 : 2 - 3Yusu f A l i 2 : Do men th ink tha t they wi l l be l e f t a lone on say ing , "We be l i eve" , and tha t they wi l l not be t es ted? Yusu f A l i 3 : We d id t es t those be fo re them, and A l l ah wi l l ce r ta in l y know those who a re t rue f rom those who a re f a l se . Yusu f A l i 45 : Nay , seek (A l l ah ' s ) he lp wi th pat ien t perseve rance and prayer : I t i s i ndeed hard , excep t t o those who br ing a l ow ly sp i r i t , Qs : 2 :153 Yusu f A l i 153 : O ye who be l i eve ! seek he lp wi th pat ien t perseve rance and prayer ; f o r A l l ah i s wi th those who pat ien t l y perseve re . 3 :200 200 ْ ‫ُوا‬ ‫ِر‬ ‫َاب‬ ‫َص‬ ‫ْو‬ ‫ُوا‬ ‫ْب‬ ِ ‫ْ اص‬ ‫ُوا‬ ‫َن‬ ‫َ آم‬ ‫ِين‬ ‫ّذ‬ ‫َا ال‬ ‫ّه‬ ‫َا أي‬ ‫ي‬ ‫ُون‬ َ ‫ِح‬ ‫ْل‬ ‫ُف‬ ‫ْت‬ ‫ُم‬ ‫ّك‬ ‫َل‬ ‫َع‬ ‫ّل‬ ‫ْ ال‬ ‫ُوا‬ ‫ّق‬ ‫َات‬ ‫ْو‬ ‫ُوا‬ ‫ِط‬ ‫َاب‬ ‫َر‬ ‫و‬ Yusuf Ali 200: O ye who believe! Persevere in patience and constancy; vie in such perseverance; strengthen each other; and fear Allah. that ye may prosper. QS : 11:115 Yusuf Ali 115: And be steadfast in patience; for verily Allah will not suffer the reward of the righteous to perish

Yusu f A l i 55 : Pa t i en t l y , then , perseve re : f o r the Promise o f A l l ah i s t rue : and ask f o rg iveness f o r thy f au l t , and ce leb ra te the Pra i ses o f thy Lo rd i n the even ing and i n the morn ing . Qs : 41 :35 Yusu f A l i 35 : And no one wi l l be gran ted such goodness excep t those who exe rc i se pat ience and se l f - res t ra in t , - none but persons o f the grea tes t good f o r tune . QS : 103 :2 - 3

Yusu f A l i 2 : Ver i l y Man i s i n l o ss , Yusu f A l i 3 : Exce such as have Fa i th , and do r i gh teous deeds , and ( j o in t oge ther ) i n the mutua l t each ing o f Tru th , and o f Pa t i ence and Cons tancy. QS : 94 :5 - 6

Yusu f A l i 5 : So , ver i l y , wi th every d i f f i cu l t y , the re re l i e f : Yusu f A l i 6 : Ver i l y , wi th every d i f f i cu l t y re l i e f . 3-Bel ievers and pat ience QS 2 :45

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Yusu f A l i 45 : Nay , seek (A l l ah ' s ) he lp wi th pat ien t perseve rance and prayer : I t i s i ndeed hard , excep t t o those who br ing a l ow ly sp i r i t , 4-Pat ience i s a source of hope and happiness QS : 13:22 ْ ‫ُوا‬ ‫َام‬ ‫َأق‬ ‫ْو‬ ‫ِم‬ ‫َب‬ ّ ‫ِر‬ ‫ْه‬ ‫َج‬ ‫َاء و‬ ‫ِغ‬ ‫ْت‬ ‫ْ اب‬ ‫ُوا‬ ‫َب‬ َ ‫َص‬ ‫ِين‬ ‫ّذ‬ ‫َال‬ ‫و‬ ‫ُون‬ َ ‫َؤ‬ ‫ْر‬ ‫َد‬ ‫َي‬ ‫ًو‬ ‫َة‬ ‫ِي‬ ‫َن‬ ‫َل‬ ‫َع‬ ‫ّا و‬ ‫ِر‬ ‫ْس‬ ‫ُم‬ ‫َاه‬ ‫ْن‬ ‫َق‬ ‫َز‬ ‫ّا ر‬ ‫ْم‬ ِ ‫ُوا‬ ‫َق‬ ‫َأنف‬ ‫َو‬ ‫َة‬ ‫ّل‬ ‫الص‬ ‫ّار‬ ِ ‫َ الد‬ ‫ْب‬ ‫ُق‬ ‫ْع‬ ‫ُم‬ ‫َل‬ َ ‫ِك‬ ‫َئ‬ ‫ْل‬ ‫َ أو‬ ‫َة‬ ‫ّئ‬ ‫ّي‬ ‫ِ الس‬ ‫َة‬ ‫َن‬ ‫َس‬ ‫ِال‬ ْ ‫ب‬ Yusuf Ali 22: Those who patiently persevere, seeking the countenance of their Lord; Establish regular prayers; spend, out of (the gifts) We have bestowed for their sustenance, secretly and openly; and turn off Evil with good: for such there is the final attainment of the (eternal) home,hadith: the propet (pbuh) said ( Wondrous are the believer's affairs . For hin there is good in all his affairs, and this is so only for the believer , when something pleasing happens to him , he is grateful, and that is good for him , and when something displeading happens to him he is patient , and that is good for him ( sahih Muslim) 5-Lessons f rom the hol ly prophet l i fe hadith:Ibn Abbas (radhiallahu anhu) narrated that according to 'Umar bin Al-Khattab(radhiallahu anhu) … “Underneath his (Prophet’s) head there was a leather pillow stuffed with palm fibers, and leaves of a saut tree were piled at his feet, and above his head hung a few water skins. On seeing the marks of the mat imprinted on his side, I wept. He said, 'Why are

you weep ing? ’ I rep l i ed , 'O A l l ah ’ s Messenger ! Caesa r and Khos rau a re l ead ing the l i f e ( i . e . l uxu r ious l i f e ) whi le you , A l l ah ’ s Messenger though you a re , i s l i v i ng i n des t i tu te . ’ The Prophet ( sa l l a l l ahu ‘ a l ayh i wa sa l l am) then rep l i ed , 'Won ’ t you be sa t i s f i ed tha t they en joy th i s wor ld and we the Herea f te r ? ( Bukhar i ) Abdu l l ah B in Mas ’ud ( radh ia l l ahu anhu) nar ra ted tha t once the Prophet ( sa l l a l l ahu ‘ a l ayh i wa sa l l am) was o f fe r ing prayers a t the Ka ’ba . Abu J ah l was s i t t i ng wi th some o f h i s compan ions . One o f them sa id t o the o thers , “Who amongs t you wi l l br ing the abdomina l conten ts ( i n tes t ines , etc . ) o f a came l o f Ban i so and so and put i t on the back o f Muhammad, when he pros t ra tes?” The most un fo r tuna te o f them got up and brought i t . He wa i ted t i l l the Prophet ( sa l l a l l ahu ‘ a l ayh i wa sa l l am) pros t ra ted and then p laced i t on h i s back between h i s shou lde rs . I was watch ing but cou ld not do any th ing . I wish I had some peop le wi th me t o ho ld out aga ins t them. They s ta r ted l augh ing and f a l l i ng one anothe r . A l l ah ’ s Messenger ( sa l l a l l ahu he)did not lift his head up till Fatimah (Prohet's daughter) came and threw that( camel's abdomina contents ) away from his back....( Bukhari)