Parents And Children

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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wK-fgT[ ns/ pZu/ 1H d[BhnK #u ;ko/ wK-fgT[ nkgD/ pZfunK bJh pj[s fwjBs eod/ jB. gkbD-g'FB ns/ gVQkT[D fijhnK f}zw/tkohnK sK ;ko/ fJ; GktBk Bkb eod/ jB fe e'Jh e;o Bk ofj ikt/ . i/ e o wK-fgT[ nkgD/ pZ f unK dhnK nfijhnK f}zw/tkohnK fBGKT[d/ jh jB sK fco T[BQK ~ nkgD/ pZfunK dk ihtB, F[G nwbK dk XkoBh ns/ T[&Zu/ nkuoB tkbk pDkT[D tZb th Mksh wkoBh nfs b'Vh_dh (very important) j?. fiB jfo fjod? Bkw[ Bk pf;U fsB wks ehi? jfo pKMk Ò fsB ;[zRh d/j fcofj fpB[ Bkt? UfJ yfg yfg w[J/ eoKMk Ò (gzBk 697) r[opkDh d/ fJ; c[owkB nB[;ko fi; th wB[Zy dk fjodk oZph r[DK tkbk BjhI pfDnk T[j fjodk fe;/ wK dk j't/ iK fgT[ dk, T[j pKM ofjD dh fBnkJh jh j?. fJj rZb ekft ouBk ftZu b\}h noE w[skfpe e/tb wK T[&Zs/ fbyh j'Jh ikgdh j? go fJ; ~ jo/e wB[Zy T[&Zs/ Y[ekT[Dk ukjhdk j?, Bk fe e/tb wK T[&Zs/ ;[s[ ngokX eos j? i/s/ Ò iBBh uhfs B okyf; s/s/ Ò•Ò

(gzBk 478)

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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fJZE/ b\} @@iBBh## s'I e/tb @wK# sZe ;hws noE BjhI b?D/ pbfe T[; wB[Zyh fposh ~ b?Dk j? i' wK torh j[zdh j?. wK jo/e gb d[fBnkth ezw-eki eodh j'Jh th nkgD/ fXnkB ftZu nkgD/ pZu/ d/ ;[Zy-d[Zy ~ gfjb (priority) fdzdh j?. n?;h wK fposh ;ko// wB[ZyK #u j'Dh ukjhdh j? feT[Ife n?;h fposh tkbk wB[Zy d{finK dhnK w[FebK, d[ZyK, sebh\K ~ nkgD/ fXnkB ftZu oZy e/, T[BQK d/ d[Zy-dod ~ nkgDk ;wM e/, T[BQK d/ d[ZyK ~ d{o eodk j? iK dZ[y d/ ;wÉ T[BQK d/ d[Zy ftZu Fohe j[zdk j?. fJsBk jh BjhI pbfe j'oBK d/ ehs/ n"r[DK iK rbshnK ~ t/y e/ nDfvZm eodk j? T[BQK ~ fcNekodk iK ;}k BjhI fdzdk ns/ Bk jh T[BQK ~ M{mk s/ BhtK mfjokT[_dk j?, n?;h fposh tkbk fjodk jh @wK# efjbkT[_dk j?. 2H ;kfJz; d/ fJ; i[r ftZu pZfunK ~ ihtB iku f;ykT[Dh ns/ gq/fos eoBk wK-fgT[ bJh fJBQK bk}wh j' frnk j? fiBQK fe o'}kBk o'Nh ykDk ns/ jo/e gb ;kj b?Dk. wK-fgT[ dk gfjbk \o} fJj pDdk j? fe T[j nkgD/ ihtB ns/ nkgDhnK o[uhnK dk w[skfbnk eoB fe n;hI feZE/ yVQ/ jK, ;kvk ihtB fwnko eh j? ? ;kvh wkfJe ns/ gdkoEtkd dh o[uh fesBh gqpb j? ? d{finK Bkb Jho]k ns/ T{u-Bhu dh GktBk ;kv/ #u fesBh j? ? n;hI fiZs-jko, wkB-ngwkB ns/ frbQ/, fFet/-fFekfJsK ns/ fJ}Zs dk ;tkb w[Zy oZy e/ MrV/ fJfsnkfd, n?;/ ;G w[ZfdnK pko/ nkgD/ ihtB #u feZE/ yVQ/ jK ? fJ;/ f]nkb ~ ftukofdnK wK-fgT[ ~ nkgD// r[DK ~ tXkT[D tZb T[dZw eoBk ukjhdk j? ns/ n"r{DK ~ d{o eoB dk T[gokbk eoBk ukjhdk j?. i/eo wKfgT[ dh fJj tkbh fposh BjhI pDdh sK Xosh dh w[Feb d[rDh j' iKdh j? feT[Ife r[opkDh nB[;ko n"r[DK ~ d{o eoe/ jh nkswefwbD pko/ ;'u ;ed/ jK. uko bktK d/ Gkt noEK okjhI ns/

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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wK-fgT[ ns/ pZu/

r[opkDh d/ fJ; c[owkB okjhI th fJj' ;wMkfJnk frnk j? fe fwfbn? fwfbnk Bk fwb? fwb? fwfbnk i/ j'fJ Ò nzso nksw? i' fwb? fwfbnk ejhn? ;'fJ Ò (gzBk 791) ;' fijV/ gsh-gsBh fynkbK d/ fwbD pknd nkgDh ;zskB g?dk eoDr/ T[j ;zskB fJ; ;z;ko bJh bkj/tzd ;kps j't/rh. fJ; eoe/ i' wB[Zy ftnkj s'I gfjb'I jh nkgD/ pko/ w[skfbnk (self analysis) eod/ jB fe w/ohnK o[uhnK ns/ nkdsK wkVhnK jB sK n?;/ wB[ZyK ~ ftnkj eokT[D s'I gfjbK nkgD/ nkg dk ;[Xko eoe/, wro'I ftnkj[sk ihtB tZb tZXDk ukjhdk j?. b/feB fiBQK d/ ftnkj j' u[Ze/ jB ns/ i/eo T[j nkgDhnK wkVhnK nkdsK d/ fFeko th jB sK n?;/ wB[ZyK ~ pZuk izwD dk fynkb SZv jh d/Dk ukjhdk j?. fJ; soQK n;hI ;ko/ ;wki, d/F, e"w ns/ fJ; d[BhnK dk Gbk eo ;eKr/. go id'I n;hI n?;/ ftukoK ~ fSZe/ Nzr e/ nkgDhnK wkVhnK nkdsK ekoB, nkgD/ pZfunK ~ izw e/, T[BQK #u th n?;hnK wkVhnK nkdsK gk fdzd/ jK sK n;hI d/F, e"w, ;wki ns/ fJ; ;koh d[BhnK Bkb }[bw eod/ jK. fJj gkg ;G s'I tZvk j? fe n;hI nkgD/ pZfunK ~ fJe uzrk (ideal) wB[Zy pDk e/ d[Bhnk ~ d/D dh pikJ/, wkVhnK nkdsK tkbk wB[Zy d[BhnK ~ dJhJ/. t?;/ th wK-fgT[ ~ nZi eZbQ ;wK jh BjhI fwbdk fe T[j nkgD/ pZfunK ~ xVB bJh ;wK eZYD. ;' n?;/ wK-fgT[ ~ e/tb fJZe pZuk jh izwDk ukjhdk j? sk fe T[; T[&Zs/ b'Vh_dk ;wK brk e/ fJ; iZr dk, e"w dk, d/F dk, nkgDk ns/ T[; pZu/ dk th Gbk eo ;eD sk fe T[; pZu/ ~ ehwsh r[DK dk r[bd;sk pDk e/ fJ; ;wki dh Bt/I f;foUI f;oiDk bJh g/F ehsk ik ;e/.

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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3H pZu/ ftrVd/ fet/I jB, fJ; w;b/ d/ nB/eK ekoB j' ;ed/ jB, go e[M e[ w[Zy ekoB fJ; soQK jB, fit/I fe L i)

i' wK-fgT[ jo/e ;w/I nkg; #u bVQd/ ofjzd/ jB ns/ fJe d{i/ Bkb #s/ nkgD/ nk;-gk; tkb/ j'oBK wB[ZyK Bkb ftZE pDkJh (disharmony) oZyd/ jB. i' wK-fgT[ nkg; ftZu, pZfunK Bkb iK j'oK Bkb p'b-e[p'b tosd/ jB, B"eo, iwkdkoBh, u"ehdko, nkfd Bkb Bht/_, eq'fXs, rkbQK Go/ bfj}/ ftZu p'bd/ jB sK n?;/ wK-fgT[ dk tshok t/y e/ pZu/ th nkgD/ ndko/ (circle) ftZu bVBk ns/ e[p'bK tkbk tshok tosd/ jB. i/eo wK-fgT[ jkth (dominating) ;[Gkn d/ j[zd/ jB sK pZuk th nkgD/ G?D-Gok ns/ pknd ftZu ihtB ;kEh s/ jkth j[zdk j?.

ii)

i' wK-fgT[ nkgDh B"eoh ns/ XzX/ #u wkfJnk ewkT[D #u w;s ofjzd/ jB, n?;/ wkg/ nkgD/ g/F/ (career), ezw-Xzd/, gVQkJh d/ s|w/ (degree priority), eko'pko tXkT[D ftu yfus ofjD d/ ekoB pZu/ d/ ufoZso ~ nDd/yk eo fdzd/ jB.

iii)

i' wK-fgT[ jw/Fk pZfunK ~ r[Z;k eod/, fMVed/ ns/ bknBsK gkT[_d/ ofjzd/ jB. d{finK ;kjwD/ nkgD/ pZu/ ~ BhtK (let-down, inferior) eoko eod/ ofjzd/ jB ns/ T[BQK d/ n"r[D co'b-co'b e/ d{finK ~ ;[DkT[_d/ ofjzd/ jB.

iv)

eJh wK-fgT[ g[fb; dh soQK pZu/ dh skV (okyh) jh eod/ ofjzd/ jB ns/ eJh wkg/ nkgD/ pZu/ dh

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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gVQkJh, e?ohno, y/v ns/ f;js pko/ pj[s f}nkdk fXnkB (overprotective, overfeeding and overcautious) oZyd/ jB, f;ZN/ ti'I ;G e[M ipohI (by force) T[BQK #s/ E'gd/ (impose) ofjzd/ jB. pZu/ dh iK fe;/ f;nkD/ dh ;bkj th BjhI b+d/. fe;/ dh e'Jh th rZb iK okJ/ ;[DB dh ;fjBFhbsk T[BQK wkfgnK ftZu j[zdh jh Bjh_. T[BQK ;G rZbK dk p[ok n;o pZu/ d/ feodko #s/ g+dk j?. v)

i' wK-fgT[ ezi{; ns/ j[zfdnK-;[zfdnK th pZu/ dh tk}ph wzr g{oh BjhI eod/.

vi)

id'I wkg/ pZu/ ~ vok-Xwek e/ nkgDk efjDk s/ wBtk b+d/ jB go pZu/ ~ vog'e F];hns (personality) tkbk pDk fdzd/ jB. fe;h g[fb; iK G{s dk voktk d/-d/ e/ vokT[_d/ ofjzd/ jB. go id'I edh w"ek fwbD s/ pZuk G?Vk ezw eo b+dk j? ns/ g[fb; iK G{s BjhI nkT[_dk sK T[j pZuk ;wM iKdk j? fe id'I edh G?Vk ezw eoBk j't/ sk fe; soQK eo ;ehdk j?. fJ; soQK pZu/ d/ ftrVB d/ pj[s f}nkdk w"e/ pD iKd/ jB.

vii)

i' wK-fgT[ pZu/ dk fwZso Bk pD e/, fgnko Bkb rZbK wBtkT[D d/ pdb/ nkgD/ tZvg[D/ dk nfj;k; E'gd/ ofjzd/ jB.

viii)

i' wK-fgT[ pZu/ dh wo}h edh th BjhI ubD d/&Id/ pbfe jw/Fk nkgDk ek~B \"}h sohe/ Bkb wBtkT[_d/ ofjzd/ jB.

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

ix)

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i' wK-fgT[ }ks, pokdoh, nj[dk (status) nwhoh ftykt/ (show off) dh o/; #u g? iKd/ jB ns/ jo tes fJ; d"V ftZu bZr iKd/ jB fe fet/I fdZ;Dk j? ns/ pZu/ ~ fJj :kd eokT[_d/ ofjzd/ jB fe T[j nwho xo dk T[&Zuh iks-e[Zb dk j?. nfij/ wkg/ nkgD/ pZu/ ~ nkgDh jo/e rbs nkds (skF y/vDk, feZNh gkoNh, fv;e' ikDk, Fokp ghDk, fpT{Nh-gkobo ikDk, c?FB nkfd) ~ :'r (justify) eoko eotkT[_d/ ofjzd/ jB. go id'I pZuk fJ; okj s/ N[o e/ ftrV iKdk j? ns/ wkfgnK Bkb eq'Xh j' e/ fSZEk g? e/ p'bdk j? sK T[j' wK-fgT[ (i' nkg ;Zu d/ wkor s'I w[Beo ;h) T[; pZu/ Bkb d{oh gk p?md/ jB. pZu/ tZb'I d{oh g? ikD s/ d[Zyh j[zd/ jB ns/ T[; ~ wkc BjhI eod/ jB. ekoB fJe' jh j? fe xo #u r[owfs (;Zuh fiT{Dh) dh ;KM BjhI ehsh rJh. n?;/ xoK #u f}nkdk nkwdB, ekoK, e'mhnK, nj[Zd/ (status) sK pD iKd/ jB, go xo dk wkj"b nFKs pfDnk ofjzdk j?, xo e'Jh nkT[Dk BjhI ukj[zdk, xo d/ ihn e/tb ;oK (inn) tKr{z oks ~ ;"D jh nkT[_d/ jB. xo d/ ;ko/ ihn pkjo o'Nh ykDh, j'NbK, gkoNhnK, fcbwK t/yDhnK nkfd ekoB p/u?B f}zdrh fpskT[_d/ jB. xo ftZu nkg;h fwbtosB (relationship) ftrV iKdk j?, e'Jh ;KM BjhI ofjzdh ns/ fuzsk, fceo, bVkJh, wB-w[Nkt ftZu ;ko/ xo d/ ihn v[Zp/ ofjzd/ jB.

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wK-fgT[ ns/ pZu/

i' wK-fgT[ Xow d/ ;ko/ eoweKv g{o/ eod/ jB go Bkb'-Bkb, j/ok c/oh, M{m, fBzdk, u[rbh, frb/-fFet/, fBj'o/ T[&Zu/ Bht/I p'b ns/ pyhbh eod/ ofjzd/ jB. feZNh, fv;e' iK fdykt/ d/ e'Jh th ezw eod/ ofjzd/ jB ns/ shoEK s/ th iKd/ ofjzd/ jB. efjzd/ jB fe pZ; ! ;G e[M uZbdk j?. nfij/ wK-fgT[ dk pZuk nuBu/s jh gyzv (hypocrisy) f;Zy b+dk j?. n?;/ fdykt/ (phony practice) d/ ekoB T[BQK dh f}zdrh ftZu nzfwqs sK fjod/ ftZu'I BjhI c[ZNdk ns/ nkgD/ pZu/ ~ th nzfwqswJh ihtB pko/ g/qoBk (Inspiration) BjhI d/ gkT[_d/ f;ZN/ ti'I pZuk th fJ; s'I ftotk jh ofj iKdk j?. n?;/ wkg/ nkgD/ g/e/ ;j[o/ gotkoK ~ iK Xkowe ;EkBK ~ fBzdd/ ns/ nkgD/ Xow d/ b'eK Bkb th B\os eod/ ofjzd/ jB ns/ Xkowesk s'I nkg ns/ pZfunK ~ wfjo{w eo fdzd/ jB. f;ZN/ ti'I nfij/ pZu/ T[gokw j' e/ fJ; ihtB s'I d[yh ns/ eJh d\k gkrbykB/ ub/ iKd/ jB iK nkswjZfsnk (suicide) eoB sZe gj[zu iKd/ jB.

4H i' wK-fgT[ fdB-fsT[jko, dhtkbh, nkfd ;wÉ xoK #u i{nk$skFK y/vd/ jB iK fcbwK t/yD #u rbskB ofjzd/ jB nfij/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/, T[&Zu/ s/ ;[Zu/ nkuoD tkb/ wB[Zy BjhI pD gkT[_d/ . T[BQK d/ pZu/ xo, ;e{b, ekbi ns/ w"ek fwbD s/ feXo'I th u'oh eod/ jB. i)

nfij/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/ nBwshJ/ (|?ow}Qph) d/ pZfunK Bkb BZ; e/ ny"sh fgnko ftnkj

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(so called love marriage) eotk b+d/ jB. ii)

nfij/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/ FokpK, f;roN, n\hw, voZr} (drugs) d/ BF/ ftZu c; iKd/ jB. iii)

nfij/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/ tZv/ j' e/ fe;/ dk esb eoB'I th BjhI ;zrd/ ns/ i/ okiBhse (politician) pD ikD sk fe;/ th XVQ/ iK Xow d/ b'eK dh ikB b?D'I th r[o/} BjhI eod/. iv)

nfij/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/ fe;/ dh p/Nh dh gZs b[ZND'I th BjhI vod/. v)

nfij/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/ jh tZv/ j' e/ ezw XzX/ ftZu jo/e fe;w dk M{m-co/p, Bebh wkb t/uD (smuggling and drugs) dk XzXk th eod/ jB. 5H fJj ;kok e[M i' ;kv/ u[so\hI tkgo fojk j?, fJ; ;G dk w{b ekoB n?;/ wK-fgT[ jh jB ! }ok j'o ftukohJ/. 6H ;ohoe ns/ i}pksh s"o s/ pZuk f}nkdkso wK d/ B/V/ j[zdk j?. fJ; eoe/ wK d/ tsho/ dk n;o pZu/ d/ r[Dntr[D dk bykfJe j[zdk j?. Gkt pZu/ d/ r[D-ntr[D s'I pZu/ d/ wK-fgT[ d/ r[D-ntr[D dk gsk bZrdk j?. i' wktK nkgD/ gsh dh i/p (pocket) #u'I g?;/ u[oKdhnK jB T[BQK d/ pZu/ (Bk ukj[zd/ j'fJnK th) u'oh ~ fJZe tkf}p nkds ;wM e/ ngDk b+d/ jB. MrVkb{ ;[Gkn j'D ekoB ;j[o/ gotko Bkb MrV/ gkT[D, j'oBK foFs/dkoK dh fBzfdnk iK pyhbh eodhnK jB ns/ nkgD/ g/e/

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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gotko dhnK tfvnkJhnK (M{mhnK skohcK) eodhnK ofjzdhnK jB, T[BQK d/ pZu/ T[bko fuZs, T[gokw, T[dk;hB, jhB GktBk tkb/ pD iKd/ jB. f;ZN/ ti'I T[j wktK wB[Zysk dk jh y{B eo ojhnK j[zdhnK jB. fijVk pZuk T[BQK dh wkVh eos{s dh e[mkbh #u xfVnk ik fojk j[zdk j?, T[j tZvk j' e/ fJ; d[Bhnk bJh }fjws pD iKdk j?. 7H fi; wK ~ fJj nkds g? ikt/ fe T[j jo/e ;w/I nkgD/ Xow, XVQ/, ;wki ~ fBzddh jh oj/ sK T[; wK dk pZuk nkgD/ ;wki, d/F, e"w ~ B\os dh fBrkj Bkb t/yD bZrdk j? ns/ UVe ;G s'I d{o BZ; ikD d/ wB;{p/ pDkT_[dk ns/ fco BZ; jh iKdk j? ns/ nkgD/ Xow s'I pk|h j' iKdk j?. 8H fiBQK wktK dh ;[jps, ;zrs (company) #u, r[of;Zy, r[ow[y, nzfwqsXkoh ;j/bhnK j'D sK pZu/ s/ uzrk n;o g+dk j?. c?FB, rfjD/fdyktk, uNewNe, FokpK dhnK gkoNhnK ns/ feZNh gkoNhnK ftZu w;s b'eK Bkb T[&ZmD-p?mD tkbhnK wktK dk pZu/ s/ pj[s wkVk n;o g+dk j?. 9HH i' wktK ;Z; ns/ tZfvnK dk ;fseko ns/ fgnko Bkb ;/tk eodhnK jB, T[BQK dh fJ; uzrh GktBk dk n;o th pZu/ s/ uzrk jh g?Idk j? go nkgD/ wsbp bJh iK w{zj uVQk e/ pXk uZNh ;/tk eoB tkbh wK dk n;o fJj g+dk j? fe T[;dk pZuk th ;/tk-Gkt tkbk BjhI pD gkT[_dk. 10H T[gob/ ftuko/ n"r[D i/eo fgT[ #u th j'D sK th pZuk n"r[DK dk jh XkoBh j't/rk go pj[sks #u wktK dk n;o pZu/ s/ f}nkdk j[zdk j?. wK r[of;Zyh dh XkoBh j't/ go fgT[ Fokph j't/, rkbQK eZYdk j't/ sK th pZu/ s/ rzdk n;o jh g+dk j?. eJh

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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pZu/ fgsk dh Fokp ghD dh nkds s'I B\os eoB bZr g+d/ jB. go eJh tko fgT[ dh Fokp ghD dh nkds ekoB g[Zso th Fokp ghDk F[o{ eo fdzd/ jB ns/ e[VhnK th Fokph w[zv/ Bkb ftnkj eokT[Dk g;zd eodhnK jB. eJh EktK s/ e[VhnK foFsk fJ; eoe/ s[Vtk b+dhnK jB fe i/eo w[zvk Fokp BjhI gh_dk sK n;hI ;wki, ;';kfJNh #u p?m BjhI ;eKr/. n?;hnK E'EhnK dbhbK d/ nk;o/ Fokph gsh ~ gotkB ehsk iKdk j? ns/ Fokp Bk ghDfgbkT[D tkb/ gsh ~ fgSV/ (backward) f]nkbK tkbk ns/ Bk;wM (dummy) ;wfMnk iKdk j?. 11H nZi eZbQ pZu/ d/ tZyo/-tZyo/ ;"D tkb/ ewo/ (bed room) dk fotki g? u[Zek j? b/feB fJ; tZyo/ ewo/ ;dek pZu/ NhHthH ns/ wkVhnK fcbwK t/yd/ ns/ ezfgT{No, fJzNoB?N okjhI nkgDk ;wK }kfJnk eod/ jB. fJZE/ sZe jh BjhI pbfe t/yD #u nkT[_dk j? fe e[Vh fJzNoB?N okjhI fe;/ w[zv/ ~ fuZmh gkT[&Idh ofjzdh j?, go wK-fgT[ ~ T[; tes gsk bZfrnk id'I e[Vh T[; wzv/ Bkb BZ; e/ ubh rJh. fJj B"ps fJ; eoe/ nkJh feT[âfe wK-fgT[ nt/;b/ ;B. T[BQK ~ BjhI gsk ;h fe pZuk o'} fJzNoB?N s/ eh eodk j?. wK-fgT[ ~ jo/e gb pZu/ dhnK joesK, nkdsK ns/ ykfjFK dh fBrokBh eod/ ofjDk ukjhdk j? go fJ; fBrokBh pko/ pZu/ ~ gsk Bjh bZrDk ukjhdk fe w/oh skV ehsh ik ojh j?. wK-fgT[ ýyD fe w/o/ pZu/ dh fejVh ;zrs j? ? e"D-e"D ;kv/ xo nkT[&Idk j? ? fe; dk uzrk ns/ wzdk n;o ;kv/ pZu/ s/ g+dk j? ? ns/ pZuk nkgD/ ewo/ ftZu eh eodk j? ? 12H fJ; b/y ftZu T[gobh ehsh ftuko nB[;ko ;k~ fJj wzBDk gt/rk fe n"bkd dk r[DK iK ntr[DK Gog{o j'Dk gotko d/ wkj"b s/ fBoGo eodk j?. fe;ws iK fgZSb/ iBwK

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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d/ GkrK Bkb eVh ~ i'VBk n;bhns ftZu ;ZukJh s'I T[ãek jh w{zj w'VBk (escape) f;ZX j't/rk (fitÉ ep{so fpZbh ~ t/y e/ nZyK pzd eo bt/). t?;/ sK wK-fgT[ d/ ihB} (genes - B;b) dk n;o th pZu/ dh ;'uDh s/ pj[s j[zdk j?. i' e[M th r[D ns/ n"r[D tv/fonK dhnK orQK ftZu j[zd/ jB T[j pZu/ #u g?dkfJF ;wÉ jh xo eo iKd/ jB. nkT[D tkb/ :[Zr ftZu ;kfJz; dh y'i okjhI pZu/ d/ izwQD s'I gfjbK jh wkfgnK #u'I n?;/-n?;/ n"r[D eZY bJ/ ikDr/ fiBQK ekoB T[BQK d/ ihtB ghfVQs ;B. ;kfJz; dh fJ; y'i ns/ fwjBs ;dek wK-fgT[ d/ n"r[DK s'I Bt/I izwd/ pZu/ ~ w[es eotk fbnk ikt/rk. y?o ! n;hI sK nZi dh jkbs pko/ ftuko eo oj/ jK. Gkt/I ;kfJz; dh fJ; y'i Bkb wB[Zy ;[yh j' ;e/rk iK Bjh_, go r[o{ dh wZs okjhI nZi th wkBf;e o'rK, ftekoK, n"r[Dk o{gh izwK s'I S[Nekok fwb ;edk j?. go fJ; ftuko s'I n;hI w[es BjhI j' gktKr/ fe ;zrs-e[;zrs (effect of good or bad company) dk n;o, pZu/ dh xkVs #s/ uzrk-wzdk }o{o g+dk j?. eJh uzr/ wK-fgT[ d/ pZu/ wkVh ;[jps ekoB e[okj/ g? iKd/ jB ns/ eJhnK d/ wK-fgT[ uzr/ ihtB d/ XkoBh BjhI j[zd/ go ;zrs uzrh fwbD ekoD pZu/ uzrh okj s/ th g? iKd/ jB (e'Jh wzB jh BjhI gkT[&Idk fe fJj pZuk cbkD/ G?V/ wK-fgT[ dk pZuk j?). 13H i' wktK pZuk izwD (9 wjhB/) d/ d"okB uzr/ r[D, uzr/ wkj"b, uzrhnK g[;seK, r[opkDh ehosB, ;zrhs, g{ik gkm ns/ uzrh uzrh ;zrs eodhnK jB, T[BQK wktK d/ pZfunK s/ uzrk n;o g+dk j?. go i' wktK nfij/ ;w/I (9 wjhB/ #u) rzd/, vokT[D/ Bktb, fcbwK, feskpK ns/ ;hohnb t/ydhnK jB, n]pkoK ns/ NhHthH s/ ]poK ftZu d[Bhnk dh wko ekN d/ MrV/ ;[DdhnK, gsh iK xo/b{ MrfVnK, fBzdk, u[rbh, G?Vh p'bh ns/ fyZM e/ p'bdhnK

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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ofjzdhnK jB, n?;hnK wktK d/ pZu/ s/ (T[; B" wjhB/ d/ d"okB) th pj[s wkVk n;o g+dk j?. i' wktK nfij/ ;w/I ;fji, ;zs'y, fwmk; BjhI f;ZydhnK ns/ r[Z;/ dk wkj"b oZydhnK jB, T[BQK d/ pZu/ sbyh ;[Gkn, p/;po, p/u?B, nFKs (impatient) ns/ r[Z;/ dh fposh tkb/ pDd/ jB. fe;/ s'I jko BjhI yKd/, fiZsD bJh d[yh-d[yh ofjzd/ jB ns/ jw/Fk Bok} ns/ fuVfuV/ ;[Gkn #u jh ofjzd/ jB. nfijhnK gsBhnK d/ gsh fXnkB oZyD fe gsBh ~ tZX s'I tZX uzr/, ;[ykt/_, fwZm/ ns/ uzrh ;zrs d/ wkj"b #u oZfynk ikt/ i' fe jo/e gsh dk nkgDk fBih \o} j?, go i/ gsh Bk fXnkB eo/ sK nkgD/ pZu/ dh GbkJh tk;s/ fJ; (9 wjhB/) d"okB gsBh nkgD/ nkg ~ ;zGkb e/ ;[ykt/I fwZm/-mzv/ wkj"b #u ot/. nkgDk fdwkrh ;zs[bB poeoko oZy/ ns/ nkgD/ wB ~ fNekT[ ftZu oZyD dk :sB eo/. fiBQK d/ gsh fXnkB BjhI eod/ T[j gsBhnK eJh d\k fyZM e/ nkgD/ gsh ~ efjzdhnK jB fe w+ xo p?mh jK s[;hI pkjo feT[I fcod/ gJ/ j' iK e'Jh Bk e'Jh frb/Q fFet/ fFekfJs ekoB d[yh-d[yh ofjzdhnK jB. go fJ; 9 wjhB/ d/ ;w/I #u n?;/ ;[Gk ekoB pZu/ s/ wkVk jh n;o g+dk j?. wK ~ s/ n?;/ ;w/ I T[&Zuh Fy;hns ns/ r[o{nK dk ihtB gVQ e/ nkgD/ nkg ~ o[jkBhns d/ wkj"b ftZu jh oZyDk ukjhdk j?. nkT[ ih s{ nkT[ jwko? jfo i;[ ;qtB ;[BktBk Ò•Ò ojkT[ Ò s[X[ nkts w/ok wB[ sB[ jfonk jfo i;[ s[w ;zfr rktBk Ò (gzBk1018) n?;h ;zrs ns/ fJ; fe;w dh ftukoXkok tkbk wkj"b wK ns/ pZu/ bJh pj[s bkGekoh f;ZX j[zdk j?. 14H

wK-fgT[ ~ xo dk wkj"b NhHthH, rkD/, fcbwK d/

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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wK-fgT[ ns/ pZu/

pdb/ fJZe d{i/ Bkb fgnko, jwdodh, ;[yktK ns/ feskpK gVQB gVQkT[D tkbk pDkT[Dk ukjhdk j?. fJ; d/ Bkb-Bkb tZX s'I tZX Xkowesk nwbh s"o #s/ fiT{Dh ns/ f;ykT[Dh ukjhdh j?. 15H pZu/ dh jo/e rbsh s'I i' T[j eo u[Zek j? iK nZr'I nkT[D tkbhnK rbshnK ekoD eh eh B[e;kB j[zd/ jB, pZu/ ~ ikD{ eokfJnk ikt/ ns/ pZu/ ~ nkgD/ nkg s/ nk}kd wro nkgDh S[gh nZy dh fBrokBh j/m SZv fdZsk ikt/. fJj nk}kdh dk wsbp pZu/ ~ nkgD/ g?oK s/ yV/Q j'D bJh s}opk jh j?, xo'I eZYDk Bjh_. n?;/ pZu/ w}p{s nkuoD tkb/ pD e/ ;koh d[Bhnk #u ekw:kp j[zd/ jB. i' wK-fgT[ pZu/ ~ Xkowe wkj"b (practical being with truthful living) fdzd/ jB, T[BQK d/ ihtB dh fJZe-fJZe gZb o{gh fJZN pZu/ dh GbkJh dh fJwkos T[;koh bJh ezw nkT[_dh j?. go eJh wK-fgT[ nkg sK uzr/ j[zd/ jB go rbs nkdsK$f]nkbK tkb/ foFs/dkoK iK pZu/ dh wkVh ;zrs dk fXnkB BjhI oZyd/. f;ZN/ ti'I wkfgnK d/ ehwsh r[D fg&ZS/ ofj iKd/ jB ns/ pZuk wkV/ gk;/ N[o g+dk j?. uzr/ wK-fgT[ dk ;[u/s j'Dk bk}wh j?. 16HH

17H wK-fgT[ ~ nkgD/ Xow dh tZX s'I tZX ikDekoh ns/ nwbh s"o s/ fiT{D dh nkds gkT[Dh ukjhdh j?. i/eo wKfgT[ ~ nkgD/ Xow dh ;jh ikDekoh BjhI j't/rh sK T[j nwbK Gog{o uzrh fiT{Dh th BjhI ihT{ ;eDr/ ns/ Bk jh pZu/ ~ e[M ;wMk ;eDr/ fe ;kvk Xow ;kvh eh ofjB[wkJh eodk j?. i/ eo wK-fgT[ ~ nkgD/ Xow dh ;jh ikDekoh j't/ ns/ ihtB th T[; frnkB nB[;ko jh j't/ sK fJBQK d'tK rZbK dk n;o pZu/ s/ uzrk jh g+dk j?. wK-fgT[ Gkt/I nkgD/ Xow dh jo/e uzrh rZb pZu/ Bkb ;KMh eoB go d{i/ XowK dh fBokdoh eoe/ Bjh_. w}Qp-

fdb ~ fdbK dh okj

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gq;sh dk phi BjhI gkT[Dk toBk pZuk d{i/ XowK d/ wB[ZyK Bkb fgnko tkbk tshok BjhI eo ;e/rk, ;zgqdkfJe fxqDk (communal hatred) dk fFeko j' ikt/rk ns/ T[; nzdo fcoek gq;sh dk }fjo Go ikt/rk. jK go ! pZu/ ~ ;ko/ XowK dh s[bBkswe ;'Mh eoke/ (healthy comparison) nkgD/ Xow d/ uzr/ r[DK dh ;'Mh eokT[Dh, wkVh rZb Bjh_, fJj uzrk T[gokbk j?.