DISCIPLESHIP TRAINING PROGRAMME, MUMBAI JESUS YOUTH changing the face of the earth
MAY 2005
Interpersonal Relationship Ten Suggestions for Good Relations
1. Talk to people: Be the first to acknowledge others. You never know when your kind word or cheerful greeting makes the difference in someone’s day!
2. Smile at people: Experts suggest that you smile even if it masks less-than-wonderful feelings. Usually a smile helps your day take a positive turn. Besides, it takes only 14 facial muscles to smile and 72 to frown!
3. Call people by name: Others are genuinely flattered and listen better when addressed personally. 4. Become a friend: Be tolerant and helpful. Remember the saying, “If you want a friend, be a friend.”
5. Be cordial and tactful: Good manners are always in style. Treat others, as you would like to be treated.
6. Show genuine interest: We can learn from everyone. We all have talents, skills, and shortcomings. 7. Show your generosity: Be especially generous with praise, thanks and appreciation. 8. Give consideration to others: Become aware of feelings, experiences, religious and cultural influences and personal circumstances. There is always another perspective.
9. Be more aware: Notice the things which surround you. What can you do that could really make a difference in someone’s day?
10. Have a sense of humour: The ability to find the lighter side of a situation could save emotional energy, hurt feelings and added stress.