Communication Skills
LET’S DISCOVER THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION…
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WHAT DO WE UNDERSTAND BY A “SKILL”?
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At the end of the workshop we will learn… what is Good and what is Bad Communication some basic skills to become a Good Communicator Aksh Optifibre Limited
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… and also
to recognize & overcome barriers
advantages of listening to speak confidently to communicate effectively Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Research shows, communication is…
55% body language
7% words
38% style Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Why Communication… • • • • • •
to express our emotions achieve joint understanding to get things done pass on and obtain information reach decisions develop relationships
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Home Truths about Communication… •
Good Communication can’t exist without honest listening
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We do not try HARD to get our message across
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We do not take advantage of various media available to us
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We all could improve our communication skills
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It cannot be perfected Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Ways & effects of Communication Formal
Less Flexible, More Accurate but less responsive (JAGRITI…)
Informal
More Flexible, Less Accurate but responsive (Grapevine/Rumors) Aksh Optifibre Limited
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What is Communication… •
art of getting your message across effectively through: •Spoken words – first & simplest way •Body Language – can make or mar •Written words – reflects importance •Visuals – leaves greatest impact
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Types & Methods Written
Letters, Memos, Reports…
Spoken
Conversations, Interviews, Phone Calls, Requests… Gestures Facial expressions, Actions, Voice Tone, Silence, Stance… Visuals Photographs, Paintings, Videos, Film… Multimedia Television, Newspaper, Magazines, Internet… Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Communication : The Flow Channel Delivery
Formulating Message
Sender
Feedback
Receiver Perception
Response Understanding Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Effective Communication… – Is scarcer than quality water – Is measured by results or actions – Does not need to be very complex – Is aimed at informing others – Is complete and clear Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Barriers to Effective Communication… Personal Barriers • Your style and character (rude, polite, shy,
outspoken) • Preparation & presentation • Lack of clarity (pronunciation, pitch, etc.) • Lack of credibility • Timing
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Barriers to Effective Communication… Proper Pronunciation Communication
Help
Pen
Buffalo
Career
Guest
Colonel
Buffet
Bouquet
Rendezvous
Bulb
Fax
Prakash
Pradeep
Chandrajeet
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Barriers to Effective Communication… Organisational Barriers • Culture • Environment • Size & structure • Pace of activity
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Barriers to Effective Communication… Process Barriers • Channel/Medium • Irrelevant Information loading • Lack of Response or Feedback • Inappropriate Questions
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Overcoming the Barriers… Say to yourself, “I will get Response” Come up with a topic for discussion everyday Start improving upon pronunciation Develop habit of reading – start with the English newspaper / Comics Understand first, then communicate Don’t be afraid of asking questions Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Body Language…
Facial Expressions Gestures Posture
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Body Language… Clearing throat, "whew" sound, Whistling, smoking, pinching flesh
Nervousness
covering mouth, jiggling money or keys, tugging ears, wringing hands.
Short breaths, "tsk" sound, tightly clenched hands, wringing hands, Fist like gestures pointing index finger
Frustration
rubbing hand through hair rubbing back of neck.
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Body Language… Openness
Arms crossed, sideways glance, touchingrubbing nose, rubbing eyes, buttoned coat, drawing away
Open hands, unbuttoned coat
Defensiveness
Insecurity Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Body Language… Cooperation
Steepled hands, hands behind back, back stiffened, hands in coat pockets with thumb out, hands on tapels of coat
Upper body in sprinter's position, open hands, sitting on edge of chair, hand to face gestures, unbuttoning coat.
Confidence
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Body Language… Look out for some more clues on Body Language in the given handout…
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SPEAKING SKILLS Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Speaking… “A wise man reflects before be speaks; a fool speaks, and then reflects on what he has uttered.” - French Proverb.
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While Speaking… – Take initiative – Be polite – Be pleasant (smile, jokes) – Be clear and concise (tone, accent, emphasis, pronunciation) – Cite negative opinions honestly, but in a positive manner – Seek Feedback Aksh Optifibre Limited
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While Speaking over phone… – Write down in advance what you want to say and in what order – Smile – Speak slowly – Always be polite and friendly – For long messages, follow a script – Get confirmation – Monitor your time Aksh Optifibre Limited
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WRITING SKILLS
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Clarity in Writing…
Rs 1000000000 Rs. 10,00,00,000/Rs. 10 Crore
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While Writing… Plan what you want to say in your letter/ report Reread the letter when you have finished Check spelling & punctuation, then send Use simple language – avoid ambiguous words Aksh Optifibre Limited
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While Writing… “KISS” (Edit the letter by cutting ruthlessly). Be kind to others’ eyes (font size, clarity) Be creative (use tables, graphs) Use the language YOU are better at
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Keep in mind while writing • Visualize the reader when you are writing • Don’t write unbroken paragraphs • Use numbered paragraphs to make cross-referencing easier • Punctuation plays the role of body language in writing Aksh Optifibre Limited
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Keep in mind while writing … • Use headings and subheadings. • Use ruled sheets instead of plain ones. • Don’t print without thoroughly checking your sources.
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LISTENING SKILLS
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Listening Order in which we learn
Speaking
Reading
16%
Writing 9% Aksh Optifibre Limited
45%
30%
Order in which we are taught
Listening – why is it important?
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Objective of Listening is… – – – –
to to to to
receive information understand effectively enhance clarity empathize
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So, while Listening… – – – – –
Avoid distractions Do not interrupt unnecessarily Be active (show interest) Paraphrase what you’ve heard Throw an echo
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What Listening Looks like... • The Listener keeps looking at the speaker
• The Listener’s body is in ‘open’ position • The listener is smiling with a pleasant & encouraging expression • Listener looks relaxed but alert, neither tense nor slouching • Listener utters humming sounds Aksh Optifibre Limited
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PRESENTATION SKILLS
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While Presenting… – – – – – –
Research (find out facts & figures) Prepare (Introduce, Discuss, Conclude) Rehearse Be confident Present Use proper media
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5 styles of communicating to manage conflicts You feel confident but uncooperative
You win and other person loses
“Run Away”
You don’t feel confident or cooperative
You lose
“Yes, Boss”
You feel cooperative but unconfident
You let the other person win
“Let’s Trade”
You feel partly cooperative & confident
You both win a bit and lose a bit
Mutual Cooperation & Confidence
You help one another to win
“Go for it”
“Let’s both win”
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“I HEAR, I forget I SEE, I remember I DO, I understand”
THANK YOU… Aksh Optifibre Limited
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