Interpersonal Social Skills

Interpersonal Social Skills

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Following Instructions 1. Looks at the person 2. Thinks about what is being said 3. Acknowledges the request; asks for more information, if needed 4. Does the task immediately 5. Checks back after completing the task

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Asking Permission 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Looks at the person Uses “Please” Asks the proper person Says “Thank you” Does only what the permission was given for If borrowing an item, is careful wit it and returns it in good condition 3

Listening 1. 2. 3. 4.

Stops other activities Looks at the speaker Sits quietly, ignores distractions Acknowledges what is said shows interest, concern 5. Asks questions, if needed, for understanding 6. Repeats the information to self 4

Accepting Responsibility 1. Thinks about the situation 2. Thinks about actions if you make a mistake, admit you wert wrong. Say “I did” 3. Apologizes if appropriate 4. Figures out if there is a way to rectify the situation 5. Say what you could have done differently 6. Takes the consequences 5

Demonstrating Respect for Other 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13.

Gives a deserved compliment Asks permission to borrow property Respects other’ property; uses it wit care Looks at the other person Listens to the person when they are speaking to you, even if you do not agree Speaks so others ca hear Stops when asked Speaks in a kind manner with a pleasant voice expresses interest, concern Accepts differences in people Provides help to someone in need Addresses people by name/title, as requested Says “Please” and “Thank You” 6

Following Rules 1. Listens 2. Understands the rules 3. Asks questions to clarify what you do not understand 4. Respects/follows the rules. Does what is requests

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Accepting No /Accepting Feedback

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