Groomingprogrampresentation.pdf

“Al-Tahayyo: Towards Excellence” Program by- M.H.B, Daerato Tolabaul Kulliyatul Muminoon & ITNC • Topics and Subtopics • Kutub al-Dawah References and Material

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT & GROOMING PROGRAM FOR MUMINEEN YOUNGSTERS Program Description: ▪ This pilot project is intended for mumineen youngsters. Candidates for this program will comprise of those who

can use a little help in developing their “SOFT SKILLS”. For this first project, candidates will be chosen from financially stable households. ▪ The points covered in this document comprise of two sections as categorized by the author of kitaab al-Najah while analyzing the statement of Amirul Mumineen AS: “One should make himself ready for his wife in the same manner he expects his wife to get ready for him” ▪ Grooming of the Body ▪ Grooming of the Mind and Soul

GROOMING OF THE BODY

Hygiene

Dressing

• Dental care • Hair • Body Cleanliness • Fragrance & Odor

• Clothes • Washing of clothes

Physical Fitness

Body Language

• Exercise • Diet

• Expressions • Posture • Gesture & Movement

Home • Cleanliness • House Proud • Bathrooms

GROOMING OF THE MIND AND SOUL

Verbal Communication skills • • • •

Language Person to Person talk Listening Skills Effective Communication

Social Skills • • • •

Ethics Moral Values Good Character Attitude

Self Esteem & Confidence • • • •

General Knowledge Clear Vision Education Sense of Humor

Shariah • Namaz, Taharat • Dua • Majalis

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‫فمثله كمثل شجرة ثبت اصلها ‪،‬ونمى فرعها ‪،‬وطالت اغصانها ‪،‬‬ ‫وكثرت ثمارها ‪ ،‬فمن رأها اعجب بها ‪،‬‬

‫‪BODY: HYGIENE‬‬ ‫‪Dental Care‬‬ ‫‪Hair‬‬ ‫‪Body Cleanliness‬‬ ‫‪Fragrance & Odor‬‬

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DENTAL CARE (BRUSHING & FLOSSING) ▪ Every attending student will be given a thorough understanding of why dental hygiene is important. ▪ A dentist will be called upon to the scene. His teeth will be checked and will be given personal advice to its maintenance and upkeep. ▪ Reading material and guidelines will be included in his manual.

HEAD AND BEARD HAIR CLEANED AND STYLED APPROPRIATELY ▪ How to cut and take care of one’s hair. (Head) ▪ Taking care of beard ▪ Moustache grooming ▪ The hair which grows on the cheeks ▪ Shaving of the underarm and all parts as required by Shariat. ▪ Removing of the nasal hair

BODY CLEANLINESS ▪ Cutting off fingernails and toenails. ▪ Bathing and cleansing the body ▪ Cleansing all areas of the body where dirt and foul smell may linger ▪ Cleaning the eyes from rheum (mucus)

▪ Istinja, wudu and ghusul (KAIFIYAT) ▪ Regular washing of both hands and legs. ▪ Especially before and after food. ▪ After coming home. All above practices will be demonstrated in detail and will be practiced throughout the month. It will be designed in a way that all of the above become habitual.

FRAGRANCE AND ODOR ▪ Preferred Soaps ▪ Preferred Atars ▪ Non alcoholic Deodorants. ▪ Non alcoholic Creams

Daily use from the above will be guided and monitored

‫كثير الوقار‬

BODY: DRESSING • Clothes • Washing of Clothes

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CLOTHES & ATTIRE ▪ Al-Libas al-Anwar ▪ Pants, shirts and Styles ▪ Inner clothes ▪ Color combinations ▪ Choices for different occasions.

▪ Style of wearing clothes. ▪ Rings ▪ Topi, Feta ▪ Socks and shoes. New and choices.

WASHING CLOTHES REGULARLY ▪ Hand washing clothes. ▪ Machine washing clothes. ▪ Drying of clothes. ▪ Ironing clothes. ▪ Arranging clothes in the wardrobe.

▪ Taking care of clothes. ▪ Taking care of shoes and shoes. ▪ Tahaarat and Nazafat of clothes.

Professional dressers will be called upon and special guidance will be given on all of the above. We will also get each participant a newly sewn kurta saya set, and office and leisure sets too. The way they carry themselves around in their clothes will be monitored, and guided. Al-Libas al-Anwar clothes and the way they carry themselves with these will be specially monitored in the roza and in majalis.

‫وبدنه على بلواه صابر‬

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‫صابر البدن‬

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BODY: PHYSICAL FITNESS • Exercise • Diet • Sports

EXERCISE & DIET ▪ Daily exercise ▪ Walk

▪ Sports (Swimming, Football, Cricket, Volleyball etc.) ▪ BMI ▪ Medical check up ▪ Cardio Exercises ▪ Look smart and fit

‫له حلم ورضى وعقل‬

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‫خياله ضياء‬

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BODY: BODY LANGUAGE: (NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION) • Expressions • Posture • Gesture & Movement

EXPRESSIONS ▪ Positive / Aggressive ▪ Cool & Calm ▪ Nervous / Scared ▪ Active

▪ Passive / Dull ▪ Negative / Weak

POSTURE

▪ Walking ▪ Standing ▪ Sitting ▪ Rest

BODY: HOME • Cleanliness • House Proud • Bathrooms

‫مقتصد في الغنى والفقر‬

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‫ومجالسته بركة‬

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HOUSE PROUD ▪ Cleanliness of house ▪ ▪ ▪ ▪

Cleaning Room Clean Kitchen Clean Cupboard. Clean Aangan

▪ House Proud ▪ All household items and services up to date ▪ Design of houses, and soft furnishings. ▪ Color combinations in interiors. ▪ Taweez

▪ Maula ni Nayaab Tasaweer. ▪ Pictures of Family and Friends.

▪ Bathrooms, Changing Areas, Valangris and Chakris ▪ ▪ ▪ ▪

According to Shariat Taharat Asbaab. Chakris. Towels and Taharat

‫ولسانه هلل ذاكر‬

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‫والناس منه في راحة‬

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‫ل ّين الكالم سريع الرضى‬

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‫صادق اللسان‬

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‫كالمه منفعة‬

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MIND AND SOUL: VERBAL COMMUNICATION • • • •

Language Person to Person talk Listening Skills Effective Communication

VERBAL COMMUNICATION SKILLS ▪ Learn LSD Basics; Accent ▪ Learn English Basics.

▪ Art of introduction (Self and others) ▪ Person to person talk ▪ Telephonic talk ▪ Voice modulation ▪ Listening skills ▪ Convey one’s thought clearly

▪ Practice effective communication ▪ It is two ways ▪ It involves active listening ▪ It reflects the accountability of speaker and listener ▪ It utilizes feedback ▪ It is free of stress ▪ It is clear

‫موسوم بحسن الخلق والرضى‬

MIND AND SOUL: SOCIAL SKILLS • • • •

Ethics Family Relations Common Respect Net Etiquettes

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SOCIAL SKILLS ▪ Ethics and moral values

▪ Respect

▪ Etiquettes (Fine arts and fine manners)

▪ Exhibit a positive attitude and pleasant demeanor

▪ Social grace and formal skills

▪ Rise when you are introducing someone or you are being introduced

▪ Thaal manners ▪ Family and social relations

▪ Show common respect and consideration for others

▪ ‫التخلق باألخالق الجميلة‬

▪ Net etiquette

▪ Honesty ▪ Confidentiality

‫راسخ في العلم‬

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‫كامل في العقل‬

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‫رزين في غير‬

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‫كسل‬

MIND AND SOUL: SELFESTEEM AND SELFCONFIDENCE • • • • •

General knowledge Overcoming shyness Goals Importance of pursuing higher education Sense of humor

‫مطيع للجبار‬

MIND AND SOUL: SHARIAH • • • •

Namaz, Dua Taharat Majalis al-Dawah Refraining from Moharramat

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PROPOSED WAYS OF IMPARTING SKILLS, AND TO INCULCATE BEHAVIORAL CHANGE. • Activities • Schedule • Tasks

SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-CONFIDENCE ▪ Attend Dua ▪ Mawaid with Talabat

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Badri Mahal Raudat Tahera (Dakhli sharaf if possible) Saifee Mahal Matheran

▪ SABAQ (Kitab al-Najah, Tanbeeh al-Gafeleen and Kitab al-Himmah) ▪ Shopping Expedition ▪ Hifz al-Quran al-Kareem (Tayseer prog)

▪ Take them to the tailor

▪ ‫ سافروا تغنموا‬- Travel of two days

▪ Take them to a restaurant

‫▪ مروة السفر‬

▪ Amusement park

▪ Air ▪ Rail ▪ Road

▪ Take them to the ground (Cricket, Football, Volleyball etc.)

▪ Dentistry

▪ Take them for swimming

▪ Saire Ilmi: Educational journeys

▪ Trekking

▪ Jamea

▪ Horse riding

Grooming Program Timeline Selection Process ❑ ❑ ❑

Bayan PPT Video

Arrival

Screening

30 th

5th

Moharram

Safar 11th Safar

1st Safar

23rd Moharram

Registration ❑

Registration final date.

Confirmation Confirmation of candidate ❑ Send arrival details ❑Details of the program ❑What to bring ❑

10h Rabi alAwwal