Distresss Life Humor Laughter

Distress Your Life Through Humor/Laughter Amit Shah amitshah.in

What Is Stress? 

Stress is the emotional and physical strain caused by our response to pressure from the outside world. Common stress reactions include tension, irritability, inability to concentrate, and a variety of physical symptoms that include headache and a fast heartbeat.

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It's almost impossible to live without some stress. And most of us wouldn't want to, because it gives life some spice and excitement. But if stress gets out of control, it may harm your health, your relationships, and your enjoyment of life. Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

STRESS A Major Health Problem Back in 1983, Time magazine called stress “the epidemic of the 80's”.  But it's even worse now and the adverse health effects have been proven. A 1996 Prevention magazine survey found that almost 75% people feel that they have "great stress" one day a week. One out of three indicated that they feel stress more than twice a week. It has been estimated that 75 - 90 percent of all visits to primary care physicians for stress related problems. In the same 1983 survey only 55% said they felt under great stress on a weekly basis. A national survey on the state of stress in America, to be released on Oct, 2007 by the American Psychological Association (APA), finds that money and work are the biggest stressors for 73% of Americans. Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

STRESS STATISTICS  The 2000 annual “Attitudes In The American Workplace VI” Gallup Poll found that: 

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80% of workers feel stress on the job, nearly half say they need help in learning how to manage stress and 42% say their co-workers need such help; 25% have felt like screaming or shouting because of job stress, 10% are concerned about an individual at work they fear could become violent. 9% are aware of an assault or violent act in their workplace and 18% had experienced some sort of threat or verbal intimidation in the past year.

 According to a survey of 800,000 workers in over 300 companies, the number of employees calling in sick because of stress tripled from 1996-2000. An estimated 1 million workers are absent everyday due to stress. Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

STRESS INFORMATION The flight or fight response, also called the "acute stress response", was first described by Walter Cannon in the year of 1929. The theory states that animals react to threats with a general discharge of the sympathetic nervous system. The response was later recognized as the first stage of a general adaptation syndrome that regulates stress responses among vertebrates and other organisms. In layman's terms, an animal has two options when faced with danger. They can either face the threat ("fight"), or they can avoid the threat ("flight").

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What Are Your Stress Points? Where do you hold you stress?       

Head Jaw Shoulders Neck Lower back Chest ??????

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EXTERNAL STRESSORS  Noise  Air pollution  Adverse lighting  Overcrowding  Adverse working conditions  Negative personal interaction -family/social/work  Major life changes, clustering of life events  Availability of choices -- over choice/lack of choices  Overly severe rules for living, self-imposed or otherwise  Physical, Emotional, and Social deprivation Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

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Lack of physical well-being, i.e., nutritional inadequacy, chemical balance, disease, pain. Lack of exercise, sitting for long periods of time, sedentary lifestyle. Hectic life pace and rhythm. Conflict in personal psychology / personality, i.e., emotional state, feelings of guilt, unresolved emotions from the past, role conflict or ambiguity, perfectionism, low selfesteem. Suppression of personal interests. Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

ADDITIONAL STRESSORS 

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Lack of control over one's destiny Lack of occupational feedback and communication

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Life style changes

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Lack of confidence in institutions

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Job security

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Work overload or underload

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Setting limits

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Individual factors

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Mid-career phenomena

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Training deficiencies

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Physical and mental exhaustion

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Society changes

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Underutilization of skills

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Informational overload

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Physical work conditions

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COST OF DISTRESS  Individual         

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Physical illness Lowered energy Decreased productivity Decreased satisfaction with life, work, relationships Non involvement in public issues Joylessness and meaninglessness Wasted potential Absence of fun and play Lack of career advancement

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Family break-up Psychological put-downs High health-care costs Tension in the air Loss of potential earnings by an ailing family member A damper on freedom of expression Inattentiveness to emotional and physical needs of others Open conflict Low self-esteem of others in the family

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Low productivity Worker dissatisfaction Conflict with co-worker Absenteeism Worker turnover

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SO WHY IS HUMOR & LAUGHTER GOOD FOR US!  

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It allows us to be creative, work harder and be more comfortable. It decreases isolation. Laugher allows us to bond with other people and ease our loneliness. It’s contagious. Laughter creates laughter. It’s universal. Everybody can laugh. Human beings are born with the gift of laughter. It reduces aggression and conflict. It relieves anxiety. One cannot laugh and be afraid simultaneously. It’s physically impossible. Laughter also shrinks the source and size of your fears. Laughter is a natural, physical process which releases pain, physically and emotionally. Above all else, it’s fun.

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HEALTH BENEFITS OF HUMOR/LAUGHTER            

Reduce stress Lower blood pressure Elevate mood Boost immune system Improve brain functioning Protect the heart Connect you to others Foster instant relaxation Make you feel good Distracts us from guilt, anger and negative emotions Increases energy levels, improves sleep, helps alleviate pain. Laughter is the Best Medicine Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

HUMOR IN THE WORKPLACE Humor, the joy of jocularity, has benefits that are actually measurable. Some of the correlations on the relaxing power of laughter:

100 laughs = 10 minutes of aerobic benefits from a rowing machine 15 minutes of laughter = relaxing effect of meditation for 8 hours 10 minutes of laughter = relaxing effect of 2 hours sleep We can see the future of medicine now. ”Watch two television comedy programs and call me in the morning.”

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A TWELVE-STEP METHOD TO FUN 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12.

Start with yourself. Inspire fun in others. Create an environment that encourages fun. Celebrate the benefits of fun. Eliminate boundaries and obstacles that inhibit fun. Look for the humor in your situations. Follow your intuition-Be spontaneous. Don’t postpone your fun. Make fun inclusive. Smile and laugh a lot. Become known as “Fun Loving.” Put fun into action.

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THINGS YOU CAN DO TO PUT MORE FUN/HUMOR IN YOUR LIFE?                    

 2 different shoes Goodwill-try on funny clothes  Air guitar Juggling  Karaoke Any eating contest  Magic tricks Be a kid at heart  Most embarrassing moment Belly flop contest  Nicknames Bubble blowing  Past pictures on different bodies Charades  People watching Comedy night  Pig Latin Comics  Pillow fight Cook funny receipts  Pranks  Dance funky Put on puppet show  Doodle Roast  Silly hats, tales & stories Draw cartoons  Skits Face & finger painting  Slip-n-slide Food fight  Smile Funny costumes  Sound effects Funny faces  Surprise someone Funny movies  Theme days Funny/silly pictures (i.e. baby pictures)  Throwing contest (i.e. rubber chicken) Gag gifts  Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in Water fight

HUMOR / LAUGHTER IDEAS HUMOR KIT            

Funny pictures (family, friends, goofy ones, etc.) Collect cartoons (newspaper, magazines, cards, etc.) Funny items (Groucho glasses, hates, shirts, etc.) Noise makers Posters (3 Stooges, Laurel & Hardey, etc.) Audio & video tapes (comedy, storytellers, etc.) Collect and send funny cards & letters Dress funny days at work or running races Collect humorous quotes Try telling funny incidence Read funny books “Erma Bombeck”, “Peanuts”, Calvin & Hobbes”, etc. Observe life and people for funny situations and examples

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She said, 'If you were my husband, I'd give you poison,' and he said, ‘If you were my wife, I'd take it.' Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in

Thank You

Don't take too much stress to understand stress. Be relax and enjoy week end. Amit Shah - www.amitshah.in