Born To Win

Presented by: KEYUR JADAV

A FEW QUESTIOS TO ASK YOURSELF _ Are you a victim? A prosecutor? A rescuer? _ Whose life script are you following? _ What part of you is a child? A parent? An adult? _ How much of you relationships with others is superficial? How much truly intimate? _ Do you stroke people positively to give them a feeling of Okness, or do you discount them with negative stroking? _ Are you a winner or a loser?

Winners

And Losers

•Winners •Losers •Fredrick Perls and Gestalt Therapy •Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis

An Overview of Transactional Analysis •Introduction of Structural Analysis •Development of Ego states •Introduction to Analyzing Transactions •The Games People Play •Days of Decision •Psychological Positions •Introduction to Script Analysis

The Human Hunger for Strokes And Time Structuring

•Stroking Hunger •Positive Stroking •Discounting and Negative Stroking •The Hunger for Structured Time

The Drama of Life Scripts •Scripts •Cultural Scripts •Subcultural Scripts •Family Scripts •Psychological Scripts of an INDIVIDUAL •How scripting occurs •Counterscripts •Roles and Themes

Parenting and The Parent Ego state •The parenting Ego State •Outward Expression of the Parent Ego State •Inner Influence of The Parent Ego State •Nurturing Parent •Prejudicial Parent •The Incomplete Parent Ego State •Reparenting

Childhood

and The Child Ego State

•The Child Ego State •The Natural Child •The little Professor •The Adapted Child •Activating the Child Ego State

Personal And Sexual Identity •Names and Identity •Identity Through Play •Childhood Psychological Games and Role Identity •Sexual Identity •Sexual Expression

Stamp Collecting And Game Playing •Psychological Trading Stamps •The Time of Redemption •The Sweatshirt Message •Game Played From the CHILD EGO STATE •The “Uproar” Game •The “Courtroom” Game •The “Cops and Robbers” Game •Giving Up Games •

The Adult Ego State •The Adult Ego State •Ego State Boundaries •Lax Ego Boundaries •Rigid Ego Boundaries •Boundary Lesions •The Adult as Executive of the Personality •Placating Your Parent •Pleasing the CHILD •Activating and Strengthening the Adult Ego State •Days of Despair

Autonomy And Adult Ethics •Awareness •Spontaneous •Intimacy •The Integrated Adult •Adult Feelings •Adult Ethics •Epilogue