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Nikolai Frederik Severin Grundtvig (17831872) Danish teacher, writer, poet, philosopher, historian, pastor and politician. His leadership helped to bring about the establishment of free public high schools for the masses in 1844. Defender of life long learning for all people.
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An Interactive Triangle Learning by students doing
parents teachers
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OFFICE OF SCHOOL PROFESSIONAL ORIENTATION OF 1 st GENERAL LYCEUM OF KALAMARIA
«An Interactive Triangle – Students – Parents – Teachers» Learning by doing
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A short Seminar of human relationships The seven most important words:
I admit that it was my mistake.
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The seven most important words:
Felicitations! You have done very good work.
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The four most important words: What’s
your opinion?
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The two most important words: Thank
you
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The one most important word: Please.
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The one most important word: Me.
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Dear parents •
Don’t hesitate to be stable with me. It makes me feel more secure.
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Without many cuddling •
Don’t spoil me because I very well know that you don’t have to give me everything I demand you. I just take a chance on.
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Don’t treat me like a baby •
Don't make me feel younger than I am. It pushes me to act the heavy swell.
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Discretion •
Don’t criticize me in view of other people, if you can. I will pay more attention, if you talk to me quietly when we are alone.
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Without guiltiness •
Don’t give me the sense that the errors are sins because I confuse all the values I have been taught to appreciate.
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No overprotection Don’t
protect me from the consequences of my actions. Experience is the mother of wisdom.
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Don’t
make much of my feelings of sickness. Sometimes, I pretend in order to gain your attention.
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Don’t criticize me continually. In that case I will protect myself by turning a deaf ear to you.
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Keep your word. •
Don’t give me frivolous promises, because I feel despised any time you don’t keep them.
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Don’t underestimate my values •
Don’t devalue my honesty. Your threats push me to lie.
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No inconsistencies •
When you say and unsay, you confuse me unimaginably and you make me loose my confidence to you.
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Don’t ignore me •
Don’t ignore me, when I ask you something, thus you will see that I will start to take information from other sources.
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You are not infallible •
Don’t try to make me believe that you are perfect and unerring. It’s an unpleasant surprise for me when I find out that you are neither the one nor the other.
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Apologize •
Don’t think that you will fall into discredit, if you apologize to me. A straight recognition of a fault creates to me very warm feelings for you.
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I like the experimentation •
Don’t forget that I like to experiment. I can not live without this. Please, accept it.
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I grow up faster than you think •
Don’t forget that I grow up very fast. It would be difficult for you to follow me closely, but, please, go ahead.
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I need understanding and love •
Don’t’ forget that I will not develop totally my potential without lot of understanding and love. Anyway, it isn’t necessary to say that, isn’t it?
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