Conjugal Life

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LrkiprJu dlgn*X LrjilgUalu ZM*xjH alYf; KeSulzj)lik' KelPjuluj DkG:R ijil|Salvrs\ idujgk\kduk!luj. LfjrlH fs' ijil|Salvr \jr[ Kvjfalu rjaj\*xluj vjh dlgU*X Lf[ rjC[vuj)kduk!luj. Qgkrjh)k; Q\kSeldlR clPj)l\fk; Qgk S~lPif[)gn\jrk; ijSPualdl\fkalu cI>lipolgUujHrj'k!lulH Lijsm ijil|Salvraln[ egj|lg;. fdG'khÉ plÙfU~r[P; ekrÈ c[Flej)lR Qgk Sel;iqjukajs#(jH >G\lijr[ DkG:R rh[dju L|jf dgalu Sel;iqjulnf[. :mjukhÉk; LcIc[Faluk; : ~r[P; akSÙlM[ sdl!kSeldnsa'[ DkG:R :iCUs/mk'j#. ssh;zjdcplvlg; T#l\ixldkd, efjYifu#lfjgj)kd, iUd[faluk; pkGi{\j sv$k'ixldkd fkm*ju dlgn*X ijil|Salvr\jr[ Li h;~j)s/mlik'fln[. T\g; dlgn*X ej'Jm[ i<xl;ijP; ixgk ilrk; dkmk~; rCj)kilrk; dlgnaldk;. >lgUujHrj'k!ldk' T\g; LcIc[Ffdsx c|j&k; Êaj&k; wJij)lR DkG:R ekgk<sr rjG~ r[Pj)k'j#.

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4. ~r[P; CjFjhalikduk; SiGejgjuhjsRy dlgn*X K!likduk; svu[flH iJ!k; ~r[P; c[Flej)k'fjr[ c[YfJ Lh[e; Êaj)kduk; dl\jgj)kduk; sv$kd. ijil|Salvjf ao'[ :G\i)lh; ijil|; ijh)j Lm*jujgjS)! fldk'k. >G\li[ agns/M c[YfJdX rlh[ alcik; e\k pjicik; QqjÉjgj)n;. :G\i; rjh& c[YfJ ao'[ alcik; zG>jnj Yecij)k' fkisguk; T` :vgj)n;. t'lH >G\likaluj Cur; rm)l\iX T` :vgjS)!fj#.

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